Hi Kimmy and welcome! I agree 100% with the content of your post other than your assumption that we would hate anybody posting anything in defence of Tunisian men - most of us founder members are married to Tunisians too. In many ways, outing the rats is an act of standing up for the decent Tunisian man aswell xxx
Thanks Wouldi. As I said have seen it all and some of the things disgust me and I have had at least 4 friends who have been taken for complete fools by these rats but when I pointed anything out to them that wasn't right in their mens behaviour NOT ONE of them listened and they all made excuses ,one is no longer my friend because when he did finally fleece her and dump her she turned on me as though I had predicted the whole thing therefor I was to blame but there really is some decent Tunisian men (good and bad every nation) x
That is so sad and is probably the reason more women aren't warned directly by other women. They believe their man is different because they want to believe him and often choose to dismiss their intuition. How many times have I seen in the paper where people have intervened in a domestic and ended up being turned on themselves? Men seem to make us crazy and being lonely can sometimes make us ignore that little voice even though we know we shouldn't. When my friend told me about the things said on here about Joe I listened to her. It broke my heart and she knew that it would but I know 100% that in life my friends and family have been there for me and will be there for me throughout all the bad times and I know they would never hurt me unless it was for my own good. Bless our friends. (h)
yes thank god for true friends BUT I think there have been friendships made on this site and the other site where too much information was exchanged and people used it against their friend ...there are genuine friends who will help and fairweather friends and those pretending to be friends but as eminem sings some friends are really your enemies with secret identities ...never tell anyone anything they can use,abuse or twist against you..believe me its not nice !!
You both sound very happy and its good to hear about the good ones as well(f) he sounds really nice and thoughtful, you are lucky to have EACH OTHER xxxx
Wow. That really makes my heart cry. But sadly I know people can be like this. There is a saying that all is fair in love and war but it's such a shame if people pretend to be your friend and use that against you. I guess if you are a genuinely good person you just can't comprehend there are people out there who will act in this way. It's what makes the whole rat thing even more shocking when you come to learn more about it. Thank you Scarlett rose for the advice. Mx
so true paula it is the young ones to.that get there heads turnd with the rats.and are daft enuf to get preggers.and think.they can get over here.and yet another kid for the gov to pay for.grrrrr