I have not looked at the paintings but will do so now. However without all this further evidence you have written about Wouldl. i.e signing the petition against a mosque at ground zero etc, i did not and still do not believe the writer is a Tunisian. Also i asked Fraggle, if he is a muslim as i saw some clues in the writing that leads me to believe otherwise. I have formed an opinion on this matter, i will not share this at the moment because i want to hear more from Fraggle!!
thats true craxypink they carnt move around that much and it seems hes been round the world and back xxx
yep wakefield gal there not or ever moving out there little cerment back gardens never mind going all round the world more more like the corrner coffe shop and thats it
Yes, I have seen him on Webcam, I have also talked to him on the phone. I have naked pictures of him that show his entire body, face included. I have Gtalk voicemails from him as well. I was friends with his brother and two sisters and had conversations with them as well. His family is Muslim but he is not, he told me that he left the Muslim religion years ago. ****** style of writing would go from amazing to sloppy and bad grammar. I can copy and paste other things. Also, I received a package from him, from Tunisia.****** I also saw his mother and brother on the webcam standing behind him. I believe he is Tunisian. His reason for poetry about Americans - he studied English and American culture in College and wrote about them from the perspective of someone that witnessed the events and loss.
Fraggle, will work out for you, seems hard now but it will get easier, unfortunately for some, it's a beeziness and people's feelings just don't matter and don't come into it
Hi Fraggle you say he left the muslim religion, .......Did he give you a reason why? Where does he live ? Where did he study English and American? He did send you a package, what did he send you? Sorry for all the questions but to solve problems these are ness. Take Care xx
Yes, I read on one of his profiles that he is from M'saken. Did it actually say on the parcel that that was where it had been posted?
The reason he gave me for leaving the Muslim religion was because those that were preaching it's word were corrupt and misguided and he did not feel that being led by corrupted individuals was the way that God intended things. He also said to me that he felt that the Muslim religion was dogmatic and full of fundamentalists, which he wanted no part of. His family called him a heritic (sp) and thought that he was an Atheist. When his stance on Religion was supposedly the same as me -which is I'm a spiritualist if you must put a label on it. He is a graduate from the University of Sousse with a Masters in English Lit. . I believe. Yes he sent me a package. It was post marked from M'Saken, Sousse. I kept the shipping papers that came with the package and I have them at home. Right now I'm at work but later tonight when I get home I can tell you specifics on what it says exactly, well at least what is in English. He sent me a statue of Osiris, a scarf, a necklace of the Buddhist palm, and a painting . . the one I posted in a previous response as well as a hand written letter. It's ok, I don't mind answering things. Personally, right now I am so worn out by all of this. A fake profile that he created to use for sending the message I copy and pasted earlier has changed names three times that I know of, and now the name he is using is a name of a person that caused a lot of chaos in my life, he is using this persons photo and impersonating them maybe to get people to talk to him, I am not sure. The way I know this is, my coworker received one of the messages from him talking about how horrible I am, a fat whale, etc., and she never deleted it from her inbox. Well two days ago someone sent her a message so she (sorry I'm talking Facebook now) went to her inbox and saw that the name had changed. Honestly, all I want is for him to drop off the face of the planet. It makes me angry that I can't do anything about it. . . or if I can I don't know what. But someone like him should be punished.
Fraggle, a little advice from someone who has been there, ignore him and concentrate on you and healing yourself babes, your friends and family will ignore anything the rat has to say. My advice is to block him from facebook so that you don't go and see anything and ask any of your friends, family and co-workers to do the same, eventually he'll get the message and give up. His ego is hurt as you dumped him and he just can't deal with it, he DOESN'T matter, YOU DO, take time for you and do what you need to do to get through this, if we can help ask, take care, just remember Karma is a women and can be a bitch much love to you
Thank you Miss_Trust, I have deleted and blocked him and also blocked the fake profile that he created. And all of my friends and family that were mutual friends of his have done the same. I had a status posted several times asking that people delete and block him and, well I'm a very private person when it comes to my personal life, so for people to see me airing my personal business, was enough to have everyone do ask I had asked. I try to live my life just and morally correct, I'm not a perfect person and in my short 28 years on this planet I feel I've done my best to make sure I treat people with kindness and respect. So I just wonder what karma I had coming to me that led to this big life lesson. I know everything has a reason to it, and boy am I ever holding onto that right now. It shook my faith, I've always been able to go off my inner gut with things, and when my inner gut says one thing and my head says another (and I'm a Pisces haha so that doesn't help with the two directions at once thing lol) it gets hard. I was ignoring warning signs for awhile, because I hoped I had finally found "The One" so to speak. Maybe I'm just a hopeless romantic . . but in any event, your right. His ego is hurt and I am hoping he gets bored soon and just disappears into the oblivion on the internet. Everyone on this forum has been wonderful and I am so thankful to you all. An instant warm welcome and ears to listen (or eyes to read in this case) so thank you everyone. I really appreciate it! And much love to you too Miss_Trust!
U sound like you're on the right road babes, don't question your own karma, they are good at what they do, and at times we want to listen to our heart and not head, especially the romantics amongst us. Don't EVER worry about him, don't think about him, you go on with your life and something (and someone) better is coming your way, he will be held accountable for his actions. Much love to you
Hi Fraggle, hope you are ok? I have read your post and thanks for answering personal stuff. I am very surprised at the actions of your ex b/f i must say......You say he has denounced his religion, that is a very big step to take, esp as you say he still lives in Tunisia where 99percent of the population are Muslim. He must be a very brave soul as he would be talked about and frowned upon..... Ok so if i am to believe he has in fact denounced his religion, you then state he has the same belief as yourself and is a Spiritualist. However the behaviour you describe is so far removed from spiritualism that i can not accept this to be true......sorry. As you are a spiritualist yourself i dont need to tell you what his actions mean for him. As a spiritualist you take responsibilty for each and every action you take in this life.....yes?? Punishment for vindictive acts does not wait, you suffer here and now in this life, anyone who is a true spiritualist knows all of this and of the highest morality code that states: Whatsoever ye would that others should do unto you do ye also unto them.... I therefore bear this in mind when i read what you say this person has done to you. He sent you a parcel with items that you would almost certainly would of appreciated and liked according to your beliefs, this indicates to me that he must be or has been in the past a kind and thoughtful man. So what went wrong??? Im sorry Fraggle but there is more to this story than is written here (just my opinion of course) but at the moment i can not match your statements with the facts as we know them.
Well there is a years worth of stories not in this small thread. So no, you don't have all the information. And Cuddle I didn't come here so that I would have to defend why I was seeking support from a very negative experience. I came here simply for support. Not to feel like someone is judging every word I write, finding a way to take it apart, and then question what I went through.
Hi Fraggle I understand that you can not write out your whole story on here and indeed i dont expect you to....... I am sorry if you feel that i am judging you, it is your perogative to feel and say what you want. I have made a judgement in this you are correct, as everyone whoever reads or posts on here invariably has to or else what is the point. !! I have stated what i feel and think...........Sorry if i have upset you in anyway, i hope you will find the comfort and support you need on here Fraggle. Take Care xx
Fraggle I take it you also reported him to FB for his comments and personal attacks on you? I hope you did!!
Well it's been since August of 2011 since I heard from "*****." Till March 31st 2012. I have received 3 e-mails from him in the last two weeks and was planning on not responding at all to anything he sent me. He tried to be coy about things in his letter and talked about himself for a majority of them and never once owned up to anything he did. But instead tried to act like his "love" for me was undying and enough to cause mass forgiveness on my part. I let three e-mails slide into my account before finally I had just had it. I was rather outraged that this man who had lied to me, lied to my family, and made a mockery of the word love was dense enough to think that he could just stroll back in and message me like nothing really had happened. So finally after the third e-mail I fired back at him and let out all of the pent up rage I felt towards him out. Closure for me is what I wanted it to be. Instead, he has taken it upon himself to now send messages to my business facebook page that I manage saying that I'm evil, horrible, someone that tempted a child of god and on and on the antics go. There has to be a law of sorts or something that can be done to get him out of my life. Because this is beyond insanity. Here I was pretty much to the point of having 100% blocked him from my mind and poof like a breeze blowing off a manure pile he strolled back in. . . Suggestions?
Change your phone number if you still have the same one he knew, even after all these months he has probably kept your number. Also report him to facebook for harassment and block him from both your personal facebook account and also the business one that you run. Report him on both accounts for harassment though first. He will probably get banned for a while (happened to a someone I know who got in an argument on facebook with someone else). With emails, there may also be a way to block him from sending you emails but I'm not sure if it's 100% possible or how to do it. Maybe set it as spam so it either doesn't come into your inbox or goes directly into your junkmail, that way you can just ignore it. I hate how these guys leave it months (or years in some cases) then float back into your life as though nothing happened expecting us to bow down to their Godlyness
Thankfully, after the first round of his BS I took all of those steps. I had missed an e-mail address of his (he had 3 different ones) and that is how they were able to get through to my account. I have blocked it now though. I also reported him to Facebook and then blocked him from accessing the business page by changing the security settings to only people in the US can see it. It's pretty sad I even have to do all of this to begin with. Why someone would fuel that much energy into something like that I have no idea. But it's a desperate attempt to try to manipulate further. All three e-mails I received were full of flowery declarations of love and how much he missed me and couldn't get me out of his head. And rambling about how he met a "Beautiful woman" who was infatuated with him but he just couldn't seem to trust her etc trying to hook me into some form of jealousy. . my inner thought was, "God help her." Lol I really wish there was a way we could parade these rats across the TV so that no one will ever give them the time of day again. They don't deserve any attention. It makes me angry that women and sometimes (but rare) men are led down this path of hate masked as love. No one should have to go through that. Not only does it shake your foundations of reality but it shakes how you relate to others. Trust for me has never been easy, and after this fiasco I can't say that's been helped. It's one step at a time.
Good job you did ! i like the idea of showing them on TV ! next step after the gallery ...but i am afraid some sick women would still want them and rush to have their name and number as some do with prisonners in jail for horrible crimes but they want their bad boy and even marry them sometimes !!! to be more serious i absolutely agree with your words ,it shakes all your foundations, your beliefs in mankind and values and the way you can give not only your trust , your "faith" ,and actually it's the worst part of it . I feel mostly the same and i am angry about the way these rats indulge our future ,it's a total new link to the word you have to deal with when you have been personnaly involved ,even if you knew that evil is everywhere and in everyone , you always think ''evil can wait"or is not for me , until it reaches you insidiously...good luck in your step by step reconstruction!
