Help , i'm very confused over my tunisian lover

Discussion in 'Introduce yourself' started by Vicky, Nov 6, 2011.

  1. Vicky Member

    Hi , im new to this site and i was hoping for some help , i met a tunisian man 26 year old on tagged and i ahve been in contact with him on skype and msn and phonecalls for 3 months , he tells me he loves me and wants to be with me , i ahve heard this before by many tunisien men but most of them are only out for visas , this guy lives in sweden as he is studying and he wants me to visit him there and has paid , he has sent me money to come but i have not collected it yet from western union as i think it's a little weird , i mean he doesnt really know me but he sends me money to visit me , he phones me all the itme and texts and i only text him , i dont spend alot of money like he does on me , i want to trust what he says but obviously im confused , i beleived he does care when he sent me money and has offered to send me money again so i can buy more clothes to bring and says anything i want just ask , he says if i want to marry him i can and if i dotn its ok , he wants to bewith me forever .. sounds so ridiculous , i have checked with western union that the money is there and it is but i ask myself why would anyone send u money unless they really want to be with u ? HELP ANYONE PLEASE LOL ...x
  2. Vicky Member

    Sorry about the typo , am writing quick with my son talking to me , btw i'm 36 and this man is 26 !!
  3. TunisiaMoon Guest

    I'm on the fence me. Most Tunisian rats don't have a penny to their name and rat money out of other people so this one's a bit odd. Maybe genuine, maybe not. Only time will tell. If that's a pic of you, you're gorgeous :p
  4. Pain in the Arse Moderator

    :eek: ey up Casper
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  5. Vicky Member

    Ha ha thanks and yes it's me , yes time will tell , im not even sure what im gonna do , i told him not to send me money if i wanted to come id pay myself but he still sent me money ?x
  6. TunisiaMoon Guest

    Sorry i'm on the turn ;)
    Nah she looks like my cousin and of course being family she's shit hot :D
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  7. TunisiaMoon Guest

    vicky do u fancy me? ;)
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  8. Vicky Member

    Ha ha what the pic lol ;);)
  9. Vicky Member

    Btw are you a guy or a girl lol :)
  10. tunisiasun Moderator

    ROFL! What a welcome Vicky :D
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  11. Vicky Member

    I know pmsl !!! :D
  12. Vicky Member

    Can u beleive it he is now texting me saying he wants me to be his wife , this is crazy :eek:
  13. BrownGirl Queen of Summaries

    Delete him Vicky, that's my advice. Nothing to do with him being Tunisian, no normal person behaves that way, that's my opinion anyway.
    You have 2 children, you don't need this crap ....
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  14. Vicky Member

    I know :eek:my intuition tells me the same ... just wish i understood the money thing , him sending me money ?
  15. NetNiet Well-Known Member

    Why try to understand that kind off things which will be difficult and can have a lot off answers, look at the facts and those are:
    1 You never did meet the man in person
    2. You know the man only from internet
    3. He is sending your money, in every way you can think, that's not normal
    4. He asked you to marry him
    5. You have 2 children
    6. Have a look at what you want in a relationship and how you want a relationship to grow, for excample like dating, doing things together, spend time together, maybe living together first before you get married and I think one off the most important things is your children in combination with this man and everything you do will affect your children in good way, but can also be in a bad way.

    OK and than just a little thinking about why he did that...
    1. why didn't he use the money to get an airplaine ticket to your country and town and hotel near you, so you get to know eachother?
    2. Maybe he says he's in Sweden, but he isn't, just to let you know it's not about a visa but at one moment it will be
    3. If he is really studying in Sweden and that is the reason he did get a visa for sweden, maybe that visa will end soon and he wants to stay in Europe
    4. Maybe he is married to a sweden woman, but it doesn't go well and he is looking for another women so he can stay in Europe
    5. Sending money to you is strange offcourse, I don't know how much it is, but I'm wondering who did pay it? when is is studying he doesn't earn money, so here is he living and who is paying for all off his things like house, clothes, food etc? His wife? His girlfriend? Girlfriends?
    6. Is he styding finances.....? Because there you learn that you have to invest before you get profit ;)

    Strange stories which sounds to good to be true....aren't true!
    And to me personally this story doesn't sound good, but very suspicious and not because he is a Tunisian man, but when a man from any country would do this without knowing eachother personally
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  16. Munki Google Queen

    Collect the money, delete him from your life, use said money to have crazy lesbian holiday with casper............. simple!!
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  17. Vicky Member

    Thanks guys i know it's all crazy stuff , i'm gonna play him at his own game if he's playing one and see what happens , i'm not going to go and see him , if he wants to see me he can come here and then we will see but he wont get a visa from me thats for sure ... my life is for my kids and i wont put them in jepordy or myself , it isnt reality it is only a dream , i mean being with a tunisian man , i love men from tunisia but so many of them cant be trusted :(
    p.s Munki , seriously who is casper lol .. is she a lesbian ? sorry casper :p just asking ;)
  18. Munki Google Queen

    lmfao .... i will let Casper respond Vicky xx
  19. tunisiasun Moderator

    ROFL!!! Don't worry Vicky, Casper doesn't bite.......well, not hard anyway :D
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  20. Vicky Member

    Hurry up already and respond Casper lol ;)
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  21. Munki Google Queen

    hehehehehe
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  22. NetNiet Well-Known Member

    Well what happens.....if you're going to play, he will continue playing aswell, because you let him doing this to you from the beginning till now, you didn't stop it.
    Why should you playing? See what it gives you till now, you're in love with a man who you did meat tru internet, never met in person, thinking about living together....... and full with questions......
    Take control about yourself, be direct and strict and honest!
  23. Vicky Member

    I wouldnt say im in love with him , i like him alot thats it really ... i just dont know whats the truth , i have to wait and see so i will continue to talk to him untill i see through him if i ever do :) he said his practic for permit whatever that means i dont understand doesnt alow him to send money himself thats wy he sent me money in his friends name ? any ideas if this sort of thing could be true anyone ?
  24. TunisiaMoon Guest

    Well, I WAS in the closet!!!!! Thanks guys. Yeah Vicky. You are one hot sexy milf. You have beeaatiful eyes my sweety :D
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  25. Vicky Member

    Well i feel honoured now thanks Casper is that really your name ? THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU ;)
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