i think shes still paying for it in one way or another .... she says alot about the way he looks and hes not like the lookers in the gallery here in fact she call him names ... maybe if she was to play with handsome rats that are hanging about and they know there nice looking having all the woman falling over them maybe fattycakes would have to cough up some money as they dont give out for free coz they dont have too..... it must be in her mind maybe she would like a prettty boy but they come at a prise and shes still got that piss pot so shes buying within her means
What is shocking me the most in Fattycake's story is that she doesn't have a start of a clue about tunisian men and tunisian mentality concerning "sexual friendship" with a woman. In fact it comes all down to this : either you are a "good woman" deserving respect and you will graciously be taken care of (a good woman because behaving in the to him and most of humans correct way), either you are a whore and everything is possible, in short you're a path to whatever a man aims (visa, sex, money), you will get no ounce of respect and you will be used to full extend and sometimes even "passed on" to other rats. Tunisians are not westerners and to them a "sexual friendship" or whatever comes in the neighbourhood of "friends with benefits" is as unknown as the taste of pork chops...
I hear what you are saying about the mentality Laurence. Double standards if you ask me. These same Tunisian men are not supposed to have sex before marriage. I have several English friends who are married or in relationships with Tunisian men. They slept with these men within weeks/ months of meeting them. Some are now married. Whether their men are rats, or their marriages last is another matter. The thing is the fact that they had sex so early in their relationships, and went on to marry these men, means they are whores according to their husbands? Or are you suggesting their husbands are all rats?
just read ur post there what the difference in what she doin and tunisian man doin it she just doing what they have done to us in one way or other why not play them at there own game they have used us for sex money ect so why shouldnt she give him tast of his own medince?i agree tho that she shouldnt go stay his home get hotel that way it probs be safter xx
