Yes yes May, we know that you'll have lots of fun and be crying and full of feelings afterwards... Why go back to a rat????? To get bitten, that's all you'll get, believe us.
You wrote that yourself a while ago May in another topic that you and your ex boyfriend from Holland were on holiday here and your tunisian boyfriend now was at that moment a normal friend from the both at you, it was in the sea / at the beach. And I'm only asking if you did say it to your tunisian boyfriend or are going to say it, because to me that would be honest from you and fair. Doesn't matter if I think your Tunisian boyfriend is not honest, but to me if you're playing him, you're doing wrong aswell.
I think you did not understand what I have been writing to you NetNiet. Because I'm 100% sure that I have never ever said that I had sex with him. 5 weeks ago I kissed him for the first time and nothing happened before that. And I do keep all advice in mind. Just like the advice I should not send him pictures of me in mini skirts and decolete. Because I did not do that. And be sure that I've been honest to him. I told him that I have a lots of trust issues and don't want to take it sooo fast. I told him that I would put my feelings on hold untill I know for sure what I want. But I also told him that I still like him and think he is sweet because that is the truth and how I feel. I told him that we have had a a lot of fun together and that we will see what the future brings and that I like to see him again. I did not tell him that I was looking about what the possibility's are for me to let me get transferred with my job to the UK. I just wanted to find out for myself.
Wether you slept with him or not is not our concern May, HE IS A RAT and that says it all. Anyway, next time you'll visit him you might sleep with him and that will have you hooked up definitely, means HE WILL BITE YOU. And you knowing he's a rat and still going back to him means : I am a willing victim and I don't care about my own wellbeing (because he's sooooo sweet)... Isn't that crazy????? Conclusion : YOU WANT TO GET BITTEN BY A SWEET SWEET RAT....who understands this? I don't.
I just worry May that you feel you must have a man (any man?) in your life? If you hadn't have gone on a date with the doctor, then I'm pretty sure you would be still 'madly in love' with the Tunisian guy - forgive me for suggesting it but I think you have a lot of emotional maturing to do, and also you perhaps need to work on your own self esteem and identity x
LOL I don't think you understand me, I'm not talking about sex with your tunisian boyfriend. I was looking in other post from you where it was, but I couldn't find it quick. But a while ago in another topic, you were talking about problems with your Tunisian boyfriend about trusting him, than your relationship was finished, than later again you were together and you wrote also how you did meet this boyfriend in Tunisia. You did write that you went with your DUTCH boyfriend where you had than a realtionship with, on holiday to Tunisia. The Tunisian friend you knew already but as a friend not a boyfriend. Than the 3 of you, so you, Dutch boyfriend and Tunisian friend at the beach in the evening and you and your Dutch boyfriend did had sex, while the Tunisian friend was also there somewhere. Than later when you did get home you and your Dutch boyfriend did split up and you had first 8 months or so a internet relationship and now went for the first time in January to see him while you had a relationship with him. I and other ones did tell you that he will never respect you as a serious girlfriend after what happened at the beach. Do you understand what I'm refering to? Or am I really mixing up persons and stories now? Did you tell your Tunisian boyfriend that you're now also dating other man?
LOL I forgot about the pictures! I'm sure that was in the chat indeed. But I thought the beach was in a topic, but I think I'm wrong and you're right, I will have a search for it later again in my posts.
