well... was doubting for a long time to join, but i decided to do it just to warn other females. I was with ****** for more then 4 years... never tought that i would end like this, pregnant and feeling like a fool. We had the visa and all ready and after i lived in Tunisia for a few months and came back in august ******** would follow 1 week later. Well... after a few days he called and said that he didnt knew what he wanted, Well, i know what he wanted.. the money i had left behind for the visa. It was that we had a touristvisa for Holland and because the person who did the invitation didnt enough income so we had to have 34 euro for each day he was here.. that were 63 days.. so calculate.Then i still have all my thing like the furniture in Tunisia.. and now prove its me,because he bought all while i was still in Europe. To make a long story short... he took my money and all the rest, claimed that i wasnt pregnant and after i have been in Tunisia last week( to go and see if i could get some of my things back ) and his mother saw i was pregnant its suddenly not his child. Not that i care about that, im gratefull because i got nightmares if i think what could had happen when he would had take the little one with him when he is born. Another thing is that i found out that he had webcamsex with several women. Even when i fell down the stairs and was in hospital scaring if i lost the baby, he had camsex. One of the women contacted me and sended me all the prove. Also he was on a sex site named Rudester and had his "little" thing exposed there. I am happy he is out of my life, but i just want to warn other women for him. His name is************and he lives in El Kef.
Hi Yasmina and welcome - god, sounds like he is someone you are much better off without. Sorry you had to go through that. Time to look after yourself and the little one to be, hugs xxx
Thanks BG, yes, i am better off without,altough it took me a couple of weeks to sort myself out. But im sure im getting there
After 4 years it will take a lot longer than a couple of weeks. There are plenty of lovely (and a bit mad) ladies here to help though if you hang around
Hi Yasmina, Welcome to TLR. Thank you for sharing your story. I am so sorry this has happened to you. Gosh, I would have thought the visa would be more important to him. His mother sounds like a witch. It is a good sign that you are happy he is out of your life, however it can't be easy processing what this rat has done to you. Sending you healing.
welcome to the site Yas....you'll get over it and make friends here helping others who have been duped too!!
the funny thing is that i am half Turkish and while living there i warned many girls for our Turkish men... and now look... i fell for a Rat myself.. only found out after 4 years
Bloody hell These stories get sadder and sadder. Thanks for sharing your story Yasmina. I hope you find a happy to your ending xxx
Hey Yasmina, I didn't know you went back, did you get some off your things back? And was he in Tunisia, or did he use the visa to go to Europe or is he in that other country what he told you he is there?
No NetNiet, i didnt got anything.. His mother even felt on my belly if i was really pregnant. They didnt allowed me in the house were all my things are. He wasnt there and they also didnt say were he was. When i returned home i received a message from him in Facebook and he told me that i would get my things and my money back but that he couldnt at the moment and i had to wait until next year summer!!. I told him that i needed it know and now in the summer but that he could stick it were the sun didnt shine. After that i received another message that the baby probably wasnt his... ahh well... I also contacted the Dutch embassy like you adviced me.. but they said that theu couldnt do anything and that the guaruantuee was for 5 years.. so if he Fucks up in another country... we are the stupid ones again..
I sure can.. i did it before Anyway.. what must my son do with a father who doesnt know if he wants to be the father or the mother.. lol.. I found out that he also likes men.. so probably he is just gay and used me as a disguise and his camsessions as a prove that also women can turn him on..
Hey Yasmina, I thought you had to contact the Embassy to cancel the visa, sorry about that, did they tell you to which organisation you have to contact with to cancel it? The IND maybe in Holland? If they didn't tell you I will try to get the correct information for you.
Naar aanleiding van onderstaande mail kan ik u als volgt antwoorden. Het is helaas niet mogelijk een garantverklaring te annuleren nadat het visum is verstrekt. Op de website www.ind.nl, kunt u lezen wat het begrip garantstelling precies inhoudt. In de door u ondertekende en gelegaliseerde uitnodiging met garantverklaring staat: Ik (ondergetekende) verklaar hierbij garant te staan voor de betaling van de kosten van het verblijf, de medische verzorging en de repatriëring die worden veroorzaakt door onder 4. genoemde persoon en dit gedurende een periode van 5 jaar of zoveel korter als het verblijf van de vreemdeling duurt, te rekenen vanaf de binnenkomst van die persoon op het Schengengebied, tot een maximum van € 10.000 per jaar, voor zover deze kosten anders ten laste zouden komen van de Staat en/of openbare lichamen. De garantstelling eindigt als op afdoende wijze kan worden aangetoond dat de onder 4. genoemde persoon de Schengenruimte heeft verlaten (te denken aan een uitreisstempel aangebracht door een Schengenstaat of inreisstempel aangebracht door een met de grenscontrole belaste overheid in het land van herkomst). Zolang betrokkene het Schengengebied niet heeft verlaten staat u gedurende een periode van 5 jaar garant voor hem.
hi am new n just tryna get the hang of thing when ur baby is born keep the birth certificate somewhere safe where he will never find it and if he ever want to know ur child than he should have to come to u and rememeber he cant take a child out of any country without a passport so i u do ever get ur child a passport keep it safe xxx
He will never see him MA.. i make sure of that, the only thing he will see is a pic on facebook.. and thats it..
i just hate men all together they are all prick and i wld rather be a single mum and raise like 4 kids on mi own than be in an awful relationship with an utter complete tit xx
Yasmina - what an awful story, but you sound very strong and courageous to me. He may have your money and material possessions but you have something so much more precious in your belly. If this 'man' and his family are more interested in money then let them drown in it xxx
Why he will never see him Mezoo? because he denied first that i was pregnant,because know he say that im pregnant from someone else. because he stole 2500 euro that i needed for the babyroom!! because i not will give anyone the opportunity to try to kidnap again a chaild. Enough reasons???
