I know and joking aside so many of them have a much better life than us here in Europe, no wonder they always got a smile on their rat faces. I hope people will wake up to the facts the Tunisian rat has a dream life, at someone else's expense. I wont be giving none of them a dream....i have got my own dreams to pay for first...
Clearly fifty quid would not have made a difference to him, makes you wonder why when they earn 300dindar a month. Disgusting, and bloody cheek!
Regardless of what you say, they think we are loaded. It is only when they come here, they recognise the streets are not paved with gold. I think I told you about the woman who was sending her man 250 quid a week, and bought him a BMW, he wanted her to buy him a house. She told him to wait, and he told her not to come back to Tunisia If anyone can send me 250 quid a week, please do.
The life of Riley, having several women sending you lots of money every month, which they spend on other women, and don't have to buy clothes, as all the rat victims clothe them. As you say they are despicable creatures.
It does not matter what we say (or even what our husbands say to them) they just do not believe that money is not easy to come by but in many respects it is not their fault. We, here in the West, give them that idea. The TV programmes that they receive MBC (mostly American TV) show a life of luxury for no work and is America not the same as the UK? Tunisians returning from Europe exaggerate the truth about what they can afford, they want to "spoil" their families and make them feel good and so they do not always tell what the real situation is here. It is about "face" and pride. We may not understand this but is it in built and not something we are going to change. I think when marrying a Tunisian one has to be aware that this is a very strong character trait in the majority of the men. As for sending money over when you barely know the person ... no, I don't think so. Yes, there are women that would do it with their "Western" partners and those men that accept it are as much rats as those of a different nationality. Let's be aware and not "feed" the rats or train those young men to take up that path. Our behaviour can lead some young men to become "opportunist rats" rather "bezness rats".
I hope after the experience i had my rat hes learned a lesson.... i told the owner of the hotel he worked at....not the manager..... i put it on the review sites for the hotel and i told all his work colleagues ...and anybody else that would listen...Now i know he wont be working in the hotel again so maybe.....he might just learn and not try it again....i hope so anyway.
My advice....... if you are thinking of sending money to your (or any) guy in tunisia - DON'T........ Sorry to be blunt, they may have several women sending funds - don't be one of them, they have a dream (using ur money to do it) use ur money to see out your dreams, much more worthwhile Much love to you all
