This is just a collection of thoughts and opinions of women from different european countries and maybe one or the other can find themselves in one of those observations. Many Europeans asked themselve why they got attracted to an arab in the first place . Many asked themseves why they let their guards down and even lower their standards as far as living standards . Thats not to say that tunisians or arabs are dirty but lets face the truth it is not to european standard . Let me start with European women . She is a multitasked women who work hard holding at least one Job or sometimes two . She manages to keep the House clean ( with help of Hubby but he can never do it right lol ) she is the organizer, of her at least two children . And at the most she prepares the meals . Thats not even including her Hobbies she may attend at times . All in all she has a full schedual day in day out . Then you have the Single European career kind of women running from A-B to get her education going – point is ,she has a plate full of tasks to do . Since in europe man and women are nearly equal but in general the focus is on her due to her multitasked function in the family . She is the Head organizer !!! European women have fought hard in the beginnig of last century to get where she is today . Now ,According to statistics ( behavioral Health ) women prone more than man to suffer from Burn out sydrom and /or psychological issues. And is it any wonder as she has to keep it all together and work next to her Husband to make ends meet . And all the single moms that struggle on a daily base to simply fight for her and her childrens upbringing . it has become very hard for women in general . The sicknesess have doubled in european women compared to the arab (since this is the subject ) women in that sense . İn europe ,as we all know everything happens faster and people live under constant pressure. İn the big picture the european woman has achieved to sometimes outwork the male .European women seem to be fierce to achieve success. Now ...here comes some food for thought .... Lets move to the Arab world ... as we all know the arabs are more relaxed and layed back then europe is . Man have their role as head of houshold and the arab women’’ may appear ‘’ to be inferior and in some more or less aspects she really is . İ dont want to get into the political issue because this is another big playing field nor do i want to involve much of religion even though it plays a much important role . So the arab women in general has her place in keeping the houshold intact and the older females watch over the children long praticed traditon. She keeps the family together . And this is what europeans have lost ( generally speaking ) due to the pressure they lose touch with family live . Children spent more time away from mother since early on . Take all this into consideration... and now the europeanWoman meets her Arab ‘’ Prince ‘’ . İn general man from the south have a special way of treating women and it seems that his attention his mostly on his women . İn comparison to the european man who is often much too busy with sports / Hobbies or paying too much attention to their beloved cars . When talking to women they always admit and confess that they do love the little macho behavior that arab man display . he knows exactly what to say to his woman and it is due to the arabic language . So now the european woman comes to the arab world and feels herself in seventh heaven leaving behind the constant pressure she has in her world and her arab prince can make her head spin with just a little nehebek habibati ...thats not to say that european man are less loving but most women did agree that they appear just a bit colder in their emotions . The arab man shows much drama during his jealous outburst and lets all other man know ‘’ this one is mine ‘’ and in all honesty that lets any womens heart beat a bit faster . His words and explanations on how he loves you with his arab mix of english or any other language makes most women melt like Butter in the hot sun combined with the dark brown firery eyes , is it any wonder you fall for them . A arab man or women love a bit ( more or less ) drama in their live . They also appear in some way as a babarian ( dislayed on tv all the time ) a bit primitive in his living style . They arab people are known to have fire when it comes to emotions and passions . There are far too many to name them all but i am sure you get the just of it . They let women be women and see themselves above her . And now comes my own oppinion and its my own and some share my point of view some not . İn general i like the role of my man being a bit above me . İ want to look up to him protect me provide for me ...now i know many will argue or disagree that they have the same with their european man . But i have lived in europe and worked with europeans and its not the same to me . İ have heard many women complain that their man never show much emotions or many women make their man jealous to see if he really love her . Arabs are very hot temered ( i dont mean sexualy thats another subject ) and one has to understand the arab mentality i guess .me personaly i dont like to be equal, a man is a man and a women is a women . And in my opinion many women enjoy this behavior secretly ( according to what i hear many times) . We all have this cindarella syndrom and we find this in the arab world . Many members ask why is it that well educated smart intelligent women fall for those man ???? in my humble opinion ... because in the arms of a NORMAL arab she can feel like a women ... The Rat will use all this to his adventage to gain power and trick his target and /or cheat her in the worst way . And all what i have discribed above will make it hard to distinguish a sencere arab from a rat . The only way to spot a real arab ...HE WİLL NEVER LETS YOU PAY HE WİLL NEVER ASK YOU FOR MONEY OR GİFTS HE WİLL REALLY MAKE YOU HİS PRİNCESS İF YOU CATCH A GOOD ONE . TAKES CARE OF YOU WHEN YOU ARE SİCK NEVER LETS YOU WORK ( UNLESS BY YOUR CHOİCE TO CONTRİBUTE ) AND ALL YOU DO İN RETURN YOU HAVE TO MAKE HİM ‘’BELİEVE’’ AND TREAT HİM AS THE HEAD AND BE SURE YOU WİLL ALWAYS BE THE NECK .....PEACE TO ALL Ps : this is just a generalization of many views expressed and varies from the individual woman .