A word of warning for sexual relations via webcam

magic

Junior Rat Expert
hello ladies hope you all well its been ages. they up to their old tricks.. I disappeared because to be honest coming here everyday was not proving productive for me. I was stuck in the past blah blah just thought I pop my ugly head in and say Hi. All is good with me. so moved on now.. can't believe I was so pathetic. I have had the rat blocked for ages but I have now deleted his number altogether!
What number?
 

Jaybee

Active Member
Hi ladies, I am a new member and have recently had a holiday in Tunisia for the first time. I met a bartender at the hotel and we keep in touch, face book and usually whatsapp video. We have already both had fun on this, now I'm worried if in future he uses this. I don't know if he recorded this or if he's a rat.
 

Judithlyn

Senior Rat Expert
Hi ladies, I am a new member and have recently had a holiday in Tunisia for the first time. I met a bartender at the hotel and we keep in touch, face book and usually whatsapp video. We have already both had fun on this, now I'm worried if in future he uses this. I don't know if he recorded this or if he's a rat.
Hi, @Jaybee Welcome! I promise he is a RAT! Now, let’s discuss how to protect you! First, you need to delete and BLOCK him everywhere! This may stop him from sending porno pics to your family! They are evil, nasty monsters! My rat, Abdelhak, sent naked pics to my town! :( I never let it get to me or bother me though! I stood my ground! They can NOT handle strong women, so no matter what he says, be strong, don’t act like you care, and threaten him and his family’s sorry, scamming butts! If you delete him, you probably will not hear anymore! They want new victims, new cash, new potential visas, and new clothes and phones! If you had no long term romance, he’s already moved on! They keep former victims as friends in hopes you might send him something! I was with mine and lived with the monster, off and on, for 3 and 1/2 years plus one more year to break up! We knew everything about each other, except, I had no idea what a lying, cheating, narcissistic psychopath, Abdelhak Rahali truly is! :eek:I’ve had a long battle, but I’m slowly winning against him and his massive con artist family in ElHamma, Gabes, Tunisia! Pure garbage....ALL of them! Stay strong! Don’t back down and lastly, name and shame him on Tunisian Love Rats! Best wishes! :love:
 

Judithlyn

Senior Rat Expert
One last thing.....STOP ALL people from going to that rat hole known as Tunisia! That country depends on tourism to survive yet they do not make con artists, Bezness a crime! NEVER go back there until they do! Only cheating, lying, conning monsters reside there! BOYCOTT!!!!?
 

Jaybee

Active Member
Thank you for the advice, so you think he must have recorded it? I feel so stupid now. He hasn't asked for anything yet. I never paid for anything when we went out for coffee. He asks me to go back for a holiday but to a different hotel. I'll block him on Facebook so he can't see my family or friends.
 

Judithlyn

Senior Rat Expert
Thank you for the advice, so you think he must have recorded it? I feel so stupid now. He hasn't asked for anything yet. I never paid for anything when we went out for coffee. He asks me to go back for a holiday but to a different hotel. I'll block him on Facebook so he can't see my family or friends.
I’m sorry, but they are evil in every way! Delete, block, and ignore! At least, you met a bartender where they meet and con numerous foreign women everyday! He’s probably too busy with women who may potentially send him money to spend time trying to blackmail you! They are such monsters! I know it hurts so badly! Move on, recover, look to the future, and forget that conning asshole! I lived with mine for years! He pulled this garbage in my house! He wanted my house! He wanted my business! He even wanted my life! It is difficult to comprehend how nasty and evil they truly are! I escaped with my life...barely! He was after my inheritance for himself but his tourist visa ran out!!
 

Croydon girl

Junior Rat Expert
Hi ladies, I am a new member and have recently had a holiday in Tunisia for the first time. I met a bartender at the hotel and we keep in touch, face book and usually whatsapp video. We have already both had fun on this, now I'm worried if in future he uses this. I don't know if he recorded this or if he's a rat.
He is a RAT!!!
 

Laura2014

Moderator
Staff member
Hi ladies, I am a new member and have recently had a holiday in Tunisia for the first time. I met a bartender at the hotel and we keep in touch, face book and usually whatsapp video. We have already both had fun on this, now I'm worried if in future he uses this. I don't know if he recorded this or if he's a rat.
[email protected], ok, so it’s difficult after the horse has bolted so to speak. He may well have made screen shots and taken videos or recordings. As for whether he’s a rat then pretty much 100% yes. No decent Tunisian man will engage in phone or webcam sex. You leave yourself vulnerable to blackmail. That said he can only blackmail you if he knows who your friends or relatives are. So pronto; remove any public photos or tags which identify your friends. Customise your settings so he is excluded from posts and hide your friends list.

Make sure you take screen shots of his relevant pics too. Also screenshot his friends and family as if you do get a threat then-two can play at that game and screen shot any threats.

Don’t ever think that your private ‘parties’ are private. They will be shared amongst friends.

If you want to stay safe, then don’t do it.
 

Jaybee

Active Member
Thank you again for your advice and not judging me for what I've done. Today is the first day that I have not received a good morning habibi text so maybe he is already busy giving his attention to someone else. I have taken all of your advice on board and will write on here if any updates and I definitely will not be returning for a holiday xx
 

AmberHeart

Lady Amberheart of Gafsa
Thank you again for your advice and not judging me for what I've done. Today is the first day that I have not received a good morning habibi text so maybe he is already busy giving his attention to someone else. I have taken all of your advice on board and will write on here if any updates and I definitely will not be returning for a holiday xx
Stay safe, do not fall deeper in his trap. Love bombing is addictive but it’s fake. Xx
 

420weblazeit

New Member
If he were to post nudes or whatever, he could be arrested because in Tunisia that's illegal & he knows that. Mine threatened that too
Do not tell your rat that you are aware of this law.

Let him use his own profile/username where his name and picture is perfectly visible, and try to get a picture (earlier on, during the relationship) of his ID card (so that it has the usually-8-digit-long CIN number in the picture) so that you can ask whoever gets an inappropriate picture of you to take a screenshot of the conversation (in which the picture of you is visible) and then go to a lawyer in Tunisia who will advise you on how you can sue/imprison him for this.

I love using brute force discipline against rats and other pieces of brown substance here in Tunisia. I am known to do things "by the book" in my neighbourhood and so veteran rats and cops alike give me respect. New delivery kids try to mess with me, but I usually have a dictaphone running so that if they insult me or try to rip me off, they don't make it out of the residence and I already have the recording sent and being listened to by their manager who promptly gives me a refund for my food order and usually, more likely than not, is preparing to fire them when they return to their shop. This gives me so much pleasure.
 
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