Absolute typical signs of Bezness (success rate almost 100%) are:
- The words "I love you / want to marry you" after just a few hours or days.
Even when "love at first sight" exists, it is, in reality, very, very rare. And it is even more unlikely to happen for a man who meets every day new women, as it is the case for workers in the tourism industry.
Nobody would like to hear it, but the chances to win the national lottery are significantly higher than the chance of a tourist to meet the love of her/his life in Tunisia in the hotel, on the beach or on the streets.
- All requests for money and gifts
A serious Tunisian man will never ask his girlfriend or wife for money (or to pay something for him).
The Tunisian code of conduct (and the law) demands that a husband provides for his wife - no ifs and no buts!
If he can not do that, then he is not considered an acceptable candidate for marriage, and even more, he is not even a serious or honorable candidate at all, because a serious man will do what is humanly possible to him, to prove his ability to provide for his (future) wife.
In fact, no tunisian man would even dare to approach the parents of a woman for a marriage without the proposition for an appropriate marriage gift for his (future) wife - which almost always consists of genuine gold jewellry.
People from western countries often shun this off and say "it is normal for us to (sometimes) pay for a spouse" - and this is absolutely correct, it is normal in western countries. But it is not normal in Tunisia. Because, in Tunisia, the proof of being able to provide is how the "good" are told from the "bad", and it would be very wise for a western woman to seriously consider that if she intends to marry a person from that very country!
I wouldn’t think it’s appropriate anywhere to pay for a spouse or anything for a man in a relationship!! Unless a birthday gift something to that effect! And love has nothing to do with it! Love at first sight
Absolute typical signs of Bezness (success rate almost 100%) are:
- The words "I love you / want to marry you" after just a few hours or days.
Even when "love at first sight" exists, it is, in reality, very, very rare. And it is even more unlikely to happen for a man who meets every day new women, as it is the case for workers in the tourism industry.
Nobody would like to hear it, but the chances to win the national lottery are significantly higher than the chance of a tourist to meet the love of her/his life in Tunisia in the hotel, on the beach or on the streets.
- All requests for money and gifts
A serious Tunisian man will never ask his girlfriend or wife for money (or to pay something for him).
The Tunisian code of conduct (and the law) demands that a husband provides for his wife - no ifs and no buts!
If he can not do that, then he is not considered an acceptable candidate for marriage, and even more, he is not even a serious or honorable candidate at all, because a serious man will do what is humanly possible to him, to prove his ability to provide for his (future) wife.
In fact, no tunisian man would even dare to approach the parents of a woman for a marriage without the proposition for an appropriate marriage gift for his (future) wife - which almost always consists of genuine gold jewellry.
People from western countries often shun this off and say "it is normal for us to (sometimes) pay for a spouse" - and this is absolutely correct, it is normal in western countries. But it is not normal in Tunisia. Because, in Tunisia, the proof of being able to provide is how the "good" are told from the "bad", and it would be very wise for a western woman to seriously consider that if she intends to marry a person from that very country!
really not normal or appropriate anywhere for females to pay for men! I don’t know why we thought so when we were with them.. and we we more less probably just trying to help out of the goodness of our hearts but no not normal
