Discussion in 'Online Rats' started by CherryBomb45, Oct 22, 2018.
Welcome CherryBomb45 You did a good job exposing the Love Rat Amine Chaabane in our Hall of Shame
I recoment that you delete the link on top of your first post here
Welcome @CherryBomb45 I’m glad you found us.
It may not seem like it right now but you are better off without him. At least you found out he’s a rat before you spent hard saved money on a flight there.
He was cowardly not telling you, but he kept you just in case the other victim did not work out. There may be lots of reasons his visa was denied. You didn’t meet the financial requirements, the age difference drew suspicion, or he may have withheld information. Whatever the reason, once he knew he could not get to the US with you he was already searching for a new victim.
I’m curious which country his new victim comes from?
So, although you feel broken hearted now, you will recover and be glad you did not waste any more of your time and affection on him.
Oh, he has a liking for the USA. Does she know about you and this site yet?
Hello and welcome @CherryBomb45 . It would be nice if his new victim knows about him being a rat.
Hello CherryB! His data is already at USA migration system, so even he can apply again for a visa he will call attention for sure wich will make harder for him to indeed achieve his goal. He would give you too much problems, hell would seem pleasant compared to a life with him. Be sure breaking up with him is the best for you and your son. Nothing like peace. Sending a hug.
Thank you for the info. I'm glad I found this group.
Not that I know of.
Welcome! You will understand many things here, many of us have been through the same ugly situation but support from this group helps to heal and move on. Then you will be thankful this person got out of your life. Xx
I would like to tell but I would want to do it anonymously. I'm not sure how to do that since I only know of her fb page. Would you know how and what to tell her?
Thank you everyone.
I PM you. Check your conversations on here, please.
It's frightening that a large percentage of countries male population is scamming women so much that has become their national past-time.
Perfectly worded. And even saddest their government favors males. Women have no rights.
That is not true. It just feels this way for you
For me too, even knowing there are decent people, seems like it’s a popular hobbie. Still on this roller coaster too.
@Heidi is right, there is a high concentration of rats here, but in relation to the overall population it runs into thousands but not millions. The overall population is about 11 million. I’m not sure what the current ratio of males are. Thankfully although it feels like it’s most men, it’s actually a small number and many of those are repeat offenders.
This is worthy to remember to get confidence again. And to learn to not fall again for one of those.
They do have rights, but are not allowed or encouraged to exercise them
That is good to know.
Hey, Cherrybomb....welcome to the forum....and well done for outing this blatant rat! What a cruel creature
I'm glad you didn't meet him. For him to have gotten married so quick, it's pretty obvious he already had her as his victim.....he was stringing you both along. If you hadn't discovered his betrayal....I suspect he would not have told you.
A laughable excuse for a man....
I don't think they a married but he said she visited him a couple times. My she heed the warning @ the link to this site before she gets to invested in him. Thank you for such wonderful support.
Ah, the mysterious working trips to Morocco, when he couldn’t speak to you. I’m sure his present victim would not have known he had a reserve in case she didn’t work out.
So at various points he found plenty of time to romance you both.
You got that right. Sad but true.