Another Cheating Rat

Discussion in 'Online Rats' started by CherryBomb45, Oct 22, 2018.

  1. Eelleennaa

    Eelleennaa Well-Known Member

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    Yes it shouldn’t matter to whom, where or how. Scamming people just shows a general lack of empathy and that is frightening.
     
  2. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Lay off the food, woman!! I'm still dribbling over the other thing! :D
     
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  3. Eelleennaa

    Eelleennaa Well-Known Member

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    They always do.:D
     
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  4. Mystery

    Mystery Well-Known Member

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    Well I went to McDonald's fancies a mango milkshake didn't have any so had a banana one in stead I really wanted a mango :eek::D:p
     
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  5. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    EVERYONE wants a Mango....except my rat :D
    By this point, I suspect he is as haunted by mango....as I am by red gingham :p
     
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  6. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    God.....I sure hope so....that would be brilliant news!! :D
     
  7. Going for the limit

    Going for the limit Well-Known Member

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    Mango milkshake? We dont have them here in the uk :( gutted
     
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  8. Amira

    Amira Well-Known Member

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    Yes, it's sad that women are being exploited but I think if they are about 60 years old they should be able to imagine why a young man of around 20 or someone to thirty is interested in them. Have seen some couples where it shines a long distance that he makes fun of her. He has a face above his friends and one above her. But if a man also women shows that they are only interested in material things and have an expensive taste then it's best to realize facts from the first moment and say to them right away the longer you wait the more control they get over I think his partner. It is only beyond you to deal with such types of people.
     
  9. Brasilgirl

    Brasilgirl Well-Known Member

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    I’ve seen them as mango smoothies.
     
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  10. Heidi

    Heidi The Sleuth

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    A victim is a victim is a victim.
    It's no use to wonder why. Rats don't give a damn about age. They are in and out in a matter of seconds anyway ;)
    TLR will expose as many rats as possible and warn potential victims :)
     
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  11. Heidi

    Heidi The Sleuth

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    Hi @maldini100 xxxxxx mission accomplished ;)

    (On request from maldini100 , who says that he is a victim too, I removed his avatar picture)
     
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  12. AmberHeart

    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    :/ CherryB requested her thread to be removed, wich says a lot itself. That is a major rat. After losing two visa chances at once must be like a rabid rat.
     
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  14. CherryBomb45

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    It's all very confusing. I'm doing my best to move on. He needs to get on the right path if he's on the wrong one. I'll probably never know the whole truth about what happened. Another one of those mysteries.
     
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  15. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    None of us will ever know the whole truth with a rat....which is why educating ourselves on the scam, the culture etc, and going 100% no contact, is the only closure we'll ever get and the nearest we'll ever get to the truth.
    I can't remember the beginning of this thread now, but I believe you are older and have son, plus he fished you online....that is the only proof you need that he is a rat.
     
  16. Jisela

    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    I know mine is a rat. I have complete closure about that.
     
  17. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    I know mine is a rat, but I created my own closure.....I certainly didn't get it from him :thumbsup:
    If I'd backed down to his attempts at communication after I'd left him.....I probably wouldn't have my own closure even now.
     
  18. Liona

    Liona Well-Known Member

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    Plus he has been "in relationships" with another woman at the same time .
     
  19. Jisela

    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    Last time he wrapped me into communicating with him, was...

    Him: Let's fix our marriage (all sad sounding)
    Me: Sure, let's see what happens (for sh*ts and giggles...)
    -we speak-
    Me: Ok, so let's talk about how to fix our marriage (limitless problems...)
    Him: Ok, so let's talk about immigration. Why don't you want to immigrate to North American countries?... blah, blah, blah
    Me: I will NEVER immigrate with you to the United States or Canada...
    Him: Well, that's where I want to go (to build himself).
    Me: Sorry, I was very ignorant when I met you. I don't want that with you EVER. Guess you need to find someone else!
    Him: [stubbornly trying to size me up more]

    DEFINITELY A RAT!

    But, the last true conversation we had was about gay anal sex. hahaha. I'm glad it ended there, on a high note. Definitely, definitely, definitely a rat who exploited me while I was vulnerable. Arsehole.
     
  20. Liona

    Liona Well-Known Member

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    Don't play the savior. It will cost you a lot.
    He is not on the wrong path, he is on his comfortable path.
    If you want to help someone, look at the charity better.
     
  21. Liona

    Liona Well-Known Member

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    1000 times yes!
     
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