Another Cheating Rat

Discussion in 'Online Rats' started by CherryBomb45, Oct 22, 2018.

  1. Liona

    Liona Well-Known Member

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    I do know it might work, when both are genuine persons. In case with con men it's very ricky project where genuine part always looses. Western women take their "hubbies" like equal parthners as if they would have been western ones, and that's the biggest mistake.
     
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  2. AmberHeart

    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    They do not only target older women. Question here is Why do they pretend to love them? Who is the one committing a fault? The one who’s culture doesn’t accept it or even ridicules it, the one who is betraying himself by sharing his body with someone he doesn’t love, the one who not only has one “older” woman but many others and has benefits from all of them. If any of us (regardless of age) would know we were only being a commodity for a lazy ass, we would ever give a chance.
     
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  3. AmberHeart

    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    Indeed your opinion is very important here, because you are a local man who knows well standards and costumes of your community/country, wich helps all other potential victims to open their eyes. A Tunisian man would ever see an older lady appropriate as a real wife. The only reason that happens it’s because they look for a benefit.
     
  4. AmberHeart

    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    But they do these things not only to older ladies, they do it to girls their age, younger girls or some age gap among them. They do it to all foreign women they find on their way. They only find local girls as acceptable, wich it’s perfect if they were honest like you. If they never go fishing for foreigners and stick only to the woman they for real want in their life.
     
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  5. Heidi

    Heidi The Sleuth

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    In my opinion the subject here is that young men get in touch with ladies, whatever their age, to scam them. Rats don't care about the age. They take the one with the most money ;)
     
  6. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    But what of those in the same age range, Maldini?
    What of those younger, or only a little older?
    Victims come in all age groups, male or female, any shape, size, colour, religion or nationality.....they are treated just exactly the same as the victims that are considerably older....they deserve warning too.
    The truth is, with an older woman, it is easy for us familiar with bezness to call him out as a rat....but with the younger victims....what warnings would you, as Tunisian man, suggest they look out for?
     
  7. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Yes, I get that. I'm just asking you in general, that for the other age groups I mentioned....what signs should they look out for?
    It is hugely beneficial for us to have the input of a Tunisian man on here.
    When we get deluded victims that get angry with us, tell us we are jealous and we are liars etc.....they are more likely to accept the truth from a Tunisian man, than they are from us.
     
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  8. AmberHeart

    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    No one thinks you are defending a rat, we know you are giving the opinion of a honest Tunisian man.
     
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  9. AmberHeart

    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    Exactly! They don’t know they are victims! They believe it’s real love.
     
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  10. Heidi

    Heidi The Sleuth

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    I think you should broaden your horizon and acknowledge that victims of rats come in all ages
     
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  11. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    This is why I asked.....I felt Maldini's input would be useful, as he understands the culture better.
    I don't know why he mentioned defending rats.....I've never accused him of that :confused:
     
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  12. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    No, sadly not. I did live with my rat. He and his family supported me....not just with everyday stuff like food, accommodation etc, but with luxury items like holidays and gifts....it all seemed so real.
     
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  13. AmberHeart

    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    My ex rat proposed me to live in Tunisia for two years, but I had to buy the house or rent it in a good neighborhood, plus to open a business. That’s his benefit not mine.
     
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  14. AmberHeart

    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    Must be language barrier. We are interested in a realIstic opinion of a Local man.
     
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    That’s right @Heidi, before I changed all the settings on Facebook I was getting friend requests from loads of Tunisians. I had made the mistake of liking a picture on a tourist website. They all started with, “ you are beautiful” or such rubbish. I’ve never sent a friend request to a man I didn’t know.
     
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    I disagree with you Sorry, I can prove that even when you have children you live in tunis.
    He get his visa come live as a family he walks away return and marry his cousin.
    They don't care about the children
     
  17. Heidi

    Heidi The Sleuth

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    Oh, but he can. Please read here https://www.tunisianloverats.com/threads/rat-deported-from-the-uk.4560/
     
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    Laura2014 Well-Known Member

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    So Maldini, can I ask why the man covets a virgin above all else?

    Is it he perceives her as pure? Or he feels she is a trophy, or because she won’t realise how inexperienced he is when she has a bad sexual relationship with her? Why is a virgin so important?
     
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    What I would like to know if it's so frowned upon in Tunisia why is your government allowing these marriages to take place. Why don't they warn the unsuspected older woman ?
     
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    Laura2014 Well-Known Member

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    I don’t think even that is a good indicator of whether he is genuine. Many members here have lived in Tunisia and had a miserable cruel life and finally escaped.
     
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    Laura2014 Well-Known Member

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    Then it would be a nanny state. In our culture we are free to marry whomever we want. The warnings are there, on government web sites, on TV on expose programmes. It’s all there but unless you are looking it’s not easy to find. Subsequently so many people only find this site later.
     
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  22. Liona

    Liona Well-Known Member

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    In this case a woman could not understand what a pathetic sexual partner she has received.:D
     
  23. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    The other problem is, these places tend to only focus on older women.....so they leave all others vulnerable to these con men, they believe their man is real, as they do not fit the media stereotype.
     
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  24. Mystery

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    I know they don't mind the old money that coming into the country.
    They like the virgin because they can't compare to a real sexual man. 1 sec wonder they can't keep it up long enough to give satisfaction it's Every thing to please them.
     
  25. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    This virgin stuff bugs the hell outta me!!
    Many of those women (as we all know) are not real virgins anyway....they have surgically reconstructed hymens....and others, well they indulge in anal, oral, partial penetration etc....so they are still sexually active, they are not innocent.
    I fail to see the point in an extra piece of skin, if the woman is of loose morals in other ways....it just makes no sense to me :confused:
    I am obviously not a virgin.....but I have more morals than many of those young girls and do not sleep around. Are good morals not more important than a piece of skin or plastic? :confused:
     
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