Another Cheating Rat

Discussion in 'Online Rats' started by CherryBomb45, Oct 22, 2018.

  1. AmberHeart

    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    Those men are not virgin, starting they have sex with all women they can. So why do they require a virgin...
     
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  2. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Because they are hypocrites. They are whores and hypocrites (rats).
     
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  3. AmberHeart

    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    No worries it happens on certain frequency since we are from all over the world.
     
  4. AmberHeart

    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    So if the foreign woman is younger or his age and exclusively virgin, he is genuinely committed to her. That’s the only way a relationship can work among a Tunisian man and a foreign woman?
     
  5. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    No, I won't give names, but there are Western virgin victims too. The crux seems to be: The permanent wife must be Tunisian.
     
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  6. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Trouble is.....a rat does not tell us these cultural differences, we find out during or after the relationship.
    Thank you for writing these truths here....they are very helpful for deluded victims :)
    It's a real shame, Maldini.....as it's a big world out there, and our spouse for life could be anywhere. I don't understand marriages without love, just because the nationality is the same. I can appreciate it is your culture, but it shuts many doors :(
     
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  7. Liona

    Liona Well-Known Member

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    Yeah, they have a lot to be proud of! After their son scammed "stranger wife" what a pride to award him with some Tunisian wife. Really interesting culture.
     
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  8. RatSnatcher

    RatSnatcher Well-Known Member

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    The same way a Tunisan virgin thinks he will be a good partner to her as well. See what I did there. They are not even good partners to their 20 something year old brides. Come on sir.. My rat was 29 and I am 33. No kids, great career, good famiy. Tunisian women couldnt hold a candle to me and many women on this forum, BUT he still is a rat. A rat is a rat is a rat. Age doesn't matter to them.

    Sidenote: My dad is 15 years older than my mom. Whole decade apart plus 5 years.
     
  9. Laura2014

    Laura2014 Well-Known Member

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    And if she’s not a virgin? What then? And if he’s not a virgin is that acceptable?
     
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  10. AmberHeart

    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    Exactly, here are virgin beautiful and smart young girls that were played by rat, for a visa. That wasn’t a reason for him to be serious with them.
     
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  11. Laura2014

    Laura2014 Well-Known Member

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    I agree it’s not a nice word, but most of the women here have been called a lot worse. It’s a regular occurance for women to be called a whore, or bitch by their rat.
     
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  12. AmberHeart

    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    :(
     
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  13. Brasilgirl

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    They (the rats) are convincing. They (the rats) lie about their age. They say they are older by more than ten years sometimes.
    It is the brain washing. The love bombing. They tell the women nice things. They encourage it. It’s not the woman’s fault she was seduced.
    In my case the rat was one year older than me, or so he said. I am a young victim. I was 19 when I started talking to the rat.
    Young and stupid.
    Age is not a factor for these guys.
     
  14. Mystery

    Mystery Well-Known Member

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    I am Muslim, have children yes I'm western.
    I did nothing wrong in my marriage.
    I supported him and his family.
    He never provided for me he married is cousin.
    While still married to me.
    He never cared for our children not even buy them a sweetie.
    Please tell me as I'm struggling to understand.
    Virgin yes
    Muslim yes
    Younger yes
    Tunisian no
    Ok I think I get it now.
    No woman is worthy of a rat
    I should have been a man then it might have worked.
     
  15. Mystery

    Mystery Well-Known Member

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    Yes what do you expect ?
    We have all been hurt by rat and his family.
    You think it's good for the whole family even they wives mother's to scam us ?
     
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    Mystery Well-Known Member

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    I go hell with my husband
     
  17. Heidi

    Heidi The Sleuth

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    I'm so sorry, Maldini, but you got to understand that you are in a western forum. That means: our rules :)
     
  18. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Yeah :(
     
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  19. Mystery

    Mystery Well-Known Member

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    You like SS of what rat said to me believe me it's worse than i even said here..
     
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    What a mature answer of a strong man!! Are you seriously don't want to understand that scammed women struggle to keep their emotions?? What annoying me in Tunisian men ( and now I am speaking not about the rats only) they are mommy runny noses . They deny to SOLVE the problems and answer the questions, they prefer to escape. What a disgusting creatures!! I thought we have here one adult man, but I was mistaken. Again.
     
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    Liona Well-Known Member

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    Stop making excuses. You did nothing wrong.
     
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    Heidi The Sleuth

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  23. Laura2014

    Laura2014 Well-Known Member

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    Well my Rat was a Muslim and he used a lot of bad words. He also used alcohol and attempted to extort money from me. He lied about his fathers near death and miraculous resurrection. His social media was full of Islamic quotes about praying to god, yet every word out of his mouth was a lie.
     
  24. Mystery

    Mystery Well-Known Member

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    Don't say bad for a Tunisian
    But they can say what they like about us.
    You see there the difference because I can.
     
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  25. RatSnatcher

    RatSnatcher Well-Known Member

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    Come on Maladini. You can't take what Mystery said personal. She is not attacking you. She's been through a lot. Emotions run high here. We know you are trying to help us understand, but understand many of these women lives have been changed forever.

    I like you being here. But know that the conversations are emotionally driven and can get uncomfortable. Nothing personal. ;)
     

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