I understand that saying, I’m American as well. It essentially means, get over it and grow up. I appreciate your gesture, but some of what you wrote came off to me at least, like you picture us a bunch of sniffling, depressed women who can barely limp along in life. There’s so many strong ad fierce women here who have been through hell and back, trying to help others in the same situation and to warn others of what is a real danger- physically, financially, and mentally. It’s much more manevolent than a some sweet words daily that brightens your day. That’s what I thought for a while.. what’s the harm even if it’s not real?.. I was an idiot!! Thankfully I had accidentally found this website and it really opened my eyes. It’s hard to imagine their mentality as an American, but I’m slowly starting to see . As hurtful as it is, I have got to accept how he truly felt about you. Nobody here wants to see another woman hurt, and much more than tears and sadness on this site- I find laughter, strength, friendships, and most of all hope!I was just trying to give you ladies some inspiration to a better tomorrow.
As for the panties part ~ it’s just an old saying here in the US.