\when u mention the campervan.your thinking ahead what yous two could do in the future,hes freaked out cos all hes thinking visa.make sure you change all your bank details.once i come back to are house and in all the papers he had kept a page with my bank account on it.i ripped it up and said nothing.this down the line when u split he has your detailsAnother thing that really bothers me now also ..that i have had some peace and time to think about it is how he bullied me. I was barely home for the first year and a half of our relationship and he had a free reign to do whatever he wanted but he still managed to tell me that i was controlling because i sometimes asked him where he was over the phone. From the beginning i was not able to ask him any questions. Even asking what he did during the day ( just curious how his day went) he managed to turn it around and say that he is free to do what he wants and that i have a control problem because i want to know everything. I could not ask him nothing. Once i suggested we take a trip up north and we did. We were supposed to split all the costs but he payed for the first 1/4 of the trip then nothing. After the trip was over i wanted to look over all of our receipts and split the cost in half but he had another temper tantrum. He would often have temper tantrums and i started feeling like i could not ask him anything. He once tricked me into showing him my bank account. We were supposed to show each other and while i showed him mine he refused to show me his. He used to save more than half of each of his pay cheque and the past year and a half maybe 2/3. He would lie that he has no money but when i found his bank machine slip once and saw and asked him about it he started freaking out and accusing me of breaking into his bank account and said he will call police on me lol. Another time i suggested we take a drive to another town in yukon just to see how it was. He agreed but appeared grumpy all the way like he was doing me some huge favour. We stopped in a camping site and there were many campers there. I always wanted a camper van or something like that. There was a bus there made into a camper and i asked him if he would like one like that. He flipped out and called me crazy and said that he knows what i am up to. Also, he often looked at what i am doing on my phone or computer i never hid anything but he sometimes would flip out if i watched 90 day fiance and said that i just want to see what they are doing becasue i was planning something. He on the other hand would have a tantrum if i even tried to look at what he was doing on his phone. He was always paranoid. I think its because he was hidding things. Maybe looking at other women or even men who knows. Its weird how it got to that point that i was feeling uncomfortable to ask him about anything that he was doing. Really i wish i did not put up with that for so long.