Hiya all.... After being in quite a long and very serious relationship I still don't know if it's possible to find a genuine good Tunisian man who's with a western girl? I've been hurt in the past by a Tunisian. And swore I would never ever get involved again with a Tunisian. However inevitably I broke my own rule and ended up getting caught up in another long distance relationship with another Tunisian. He is lovely and on the whole doesn't even seem Tunisian! I can't help having doubts cos of past experiences. He literally treats me like a princess I can't stress that enough. I have not spent a penny on him apart from his birthday present. He regularly sends me gifts, most recently being some gorgeous gold jewellery. He is so so adoring and talks to me literally 24/7, he is obsessed it seems with me. There's nothing that he does that makes me think hmmmmm he's a rat. All he wants to do is make me happy. If I tell him to do something he will do it. I do treat him bad sometimes, cos I have stress at work or health problems etc and I just go crazy at him but he stays by my side makes me smile and supports me. He's gone against some family traditions to keep me happy, he's upset family members at times when he's put my feelings before theirs. Could he actually really be genuine? He seems to be but I can't help having doubts cos of previous rats and the whole concept of Tunisian and western love. I have a degree education, money, a good job, a nice house, good car etc etc, same age as him, no children etc I know I'm on paper as being everything a rat would want! Am I being paranoid! And yes I am very direct with him and I've told him all my concerns and I've made it plain he's not getting a penny and he's not getting a visa etc! I do give him such a hard time and can be quite hurtful to him but he stays and puts up with me! Could he genuinely love me?!