He is not attached to you. He won’t lose you. You are attached to him, you can lose him. That’s his game and mentality.
yes you are right but I’m completely obsessed with him. Can’t let go, impossiblè. 5 years now !! I try to leave him and can’t .It is a narcissist thing in general.
He is pushing the boundaries further out, testing how hooked you are....before going in for the kill.
You would benefit yourself massively by reading up thoroughly on narcissism, blocking this freak and staying the hell away from him. He is building up....don't hang around and wait for the consequences.
You say you love this boy....yet he treats you like this.
Is this love, or an obsession?
You need to read up on narcissism....we do not warn people here for fun, but to help them, to save them....
My advice: Block the fruitcake, read up on narcissism....and be grateful you got away before things progressed far enough for real harm.
Why on earth do you not let go of this silly, greedy boy that treats you this way? Where is your self worth? You deserve better!