Hi i know what you are saying but like you say you do also get the ones where it is a young girl. It is a sliding scale I think . I mean well a rat will ( probably ) find it less repulsive I suppose if he is milking a younger more attractive woman especially if she has money . But I do believe they work on any hole is a goal . If they get a good catch they may not bother with the ones that are older less attractive etc as much but they will still try something. Also I believe the man instigates the contact a lot of this not so much the woman . You see /hear so many on here saying the guy approached them and then they say things like well I'm 10, 15 , 20 years older stuff like that - but he says it doenst matter to him and so on and so on. The quotes listed abouve are typical but these guys are really evolving in bezness. Not always these things said - the more genuine he sounds the more successful he will be. Yes some use these quotes but others don't they do it their own way . The usual red flags are asking for money ( doesn't always happen especially in the long game visa / proceeds from divorce etc ). In a way marrying anyone wh needs a visa can be dodgy . The age factor is another red flag as well. But now you have guys marrying young girls for visa , toying with older ladies for the money so that in the end he gets the money and the visa for his tunsian virgin wife , house and possibly work abroad to get better money as well for both of them. They are like a virus they us eup everything in their way to survive just like a virus spreads though the body destroying everything in its path so that it will survive and replicate .Most of us on here will know this anyway its been said a thousand times in a thousand ways but if it helps someone then I'm glad.