She's ok. She's emotional but agrees I have probably done the right thing. She said she is worried in case Houssem sees this and targets her children again. She has just unblocked him everywhere in the hope he will target her instead of the kids again. We have safeguarded the children as much as possible, but Houssem just creates more emails, more FB accounts etc. It distresses the children, but it is also more evidence for the authorities. When she first met Houssem, he was so nice, we were all so pleased to see her happy, but he changed after a year, decided he wanted a visa and kept hurting her. Neither she, nor any of us could foresee what he was going to turn it into. I think she was shocked, but she came back from her walk very emotional and hugged me, just keeps saying thank you over and over. I offered to delete everything from here, but she says no, that although it's hard for her, it is best left here to help others. I feel so relieved! Heidi, BBT, thank you for your words. I will still stay on this site for advice if she wobbles again, but also, because I've become addicted to the site and I feel so much anger for the rats I will take it day by day, but I really want her to join here eventually and see that she isn't stupid, she isn't alone and she isn't to blame.