When you are ill you realise who your friends are , maybe what you should have done, and what you will now decide to do in the time that you have left if this is the case .
You meet people who are caring and perhaps not so caring , this illness sets you on a journey and nobody can tell which route it will take but it is your unique journey ,
Just found this thread. Made me giggle. My rats fictitious fiancé died so I thought I would add her here. RIP even though you never existed you had a lucky escape.
Maybe I could also add his almost dying father who miraculously recovered several times from the brink of death.
And an ant (the multiple legged type) died in my house today, drowned in the cats water dish, but I put him on kitchen paper and he miraculously came back to life, so all you non believers and infadels... see it can happen!