......"don't know how they are able to talk to their "girlfriends" for hours on the phone. I used to talk to my ex for hours about nothing and everything... Telling each other about our families, laughing and crying together , all of it. Just three years of lies.How can they manage the pretence"........they can do this for hours...days...years because Rat Scamming is a full time job for them...they have many women on the go at the same time...they are narcissistic cowards because what they are selling is the illusion of friendship and love.....women keep buying it and we need to find a way to make this a global issue like they have with the Nigerian scammers. I was ashamed at first when I finally saw the truth but instead of hiding my shame I'm trying to speak up and reach out....this has motivated me and helped me a lot to recover and to feel empowered. ♡Aw..please dont feel foolish just because you opened your heart to someone. We are humans and want love. It is not your fault that he is a scammer. I know exactly what it feels like when you realize that what you loved was something beautiful that your beautiful heart desired. But it was not him. I am also mourning my dreams and what i thought was there. It is not our fault that those loosers dont have normal human emotions. They are souless chatter boxes that talk what they learned will work for fooling others. They are not what we fell in love with. Those pretenders will never make good partners even to Arab women. Someone who sells their soul for material gain is a fool. They have a hole where we have love. They will never be happy because such hole can never be filled.