everything will be fine, we are strong

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  1. romantic

    romantic Well-Known Member

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    I congratulate all women on the holiday.I also want to congratulate all the women of this site on this holiday.
    happiness, health, love, good luck to all of you.
    Yes, we are weak, but we know how to love, love is a strong feeling. love is our strength.we give warmth, our love, but they don’t appreciate it.
    they are weak and pathetic beings, they feel nothing,and we feel because we are alive.
    With the holiday my dear, our life goes on.
    Love saves the world.
     
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  2. Mystery

    Mystery Well-Known Member

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    Hi Romantic ,

    Welcome to TLR it's say your male and from Russia. Do you have a story you wish to share with us ?
    :D
     
  3. romantic

    romantic Well-Known Member

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    I say that;)
     
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    Mystery Well-Known Member

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    What brings you to TLR ?
     
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    Mystery Well-Known Member

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    Would you feel comfortable with sharing with us.
    Happy women's day to you also.
     
  6. Mystery

    Mystery Well-Known Member

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    It's ok if you don't feel comfortable sharing with us, but we are here if you need support.
    If you just want to vent we will listen.
    When you feel your ready we are all here for you.
     
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  7. romantic

    romantic Well-Known Member

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    thank you Mystery
     
  8. Mystery

    Mystery Well-Known Member

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    Your very welcome. :D
     
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    Yes I read you are male. Just I say thank you.
     
  10. Mystery

    Mystery Well-Known Member

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    Your English is perfect btw
    Do you know if you're was a rat or your not sure ;)
     
  11. Mystery

    Mystery Well-Known Member

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    You meet him in person or not ?
    Don't be shy we all been where you are, all unsure to tell our story. You will feel better sharing your experience with us. :D
     
  12. Mystery

    Mystery Well-Known Member

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    Can I ask what makes you think he's a rat?
     
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  13. AmberHeart

    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    Hi and welcome. Thankfully you noticed on time to stop abuse. (emotional and/or financial). Healing from a scam is a complicated task but not impossible. Xx
     
  14. romantic

    romantic Well-Known Member

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    Hi. i noticed it too late
     
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    Mystery Well-Known Member

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    Ok but for us to support you it would be good for us to know what led you here.
     
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    Mystery Well-Known Member

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    Sorry to hear this, we all learned to late.
    For me it took years
     
  17. romantic

    romantic Well-Known Member

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    I'm closed to everyone now, I'm trying to open up, it's very difficult
     
  18. Mystery

    Mystery Well-Known Member

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    I understand but be assured we are all in the same position. We all been hurt by a rat some more than others. That's why we are all here.
    No one will judge you, we know the pain we still feel it each day. But it will become less and less
     
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    jennyelle Well-Known Member

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    yes it would be very interesting to hear what brought you here :sneaky:
     
  20. Mystery

    Mystery Well-Known Member

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    Laughing is good but laugh at him not yourself.
    We all felt we were stupid crazy for what we did for them. But we got the last laugh.
     
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    The beauty of this site is no one knows who you are. Being caught by a rat can be humiliating and destroy your self esteem. Most of us never shared what happened with even close friends or family but found people here who shared the same or similar experiences. When you want to share we will be here to listen. Just take care of yourself and take what you need from this site.
     
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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    you played with him? Meaning sex tourism?,sorry i do t understand the context.
     
  23. jennyelle

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    yes your English is perfect especially in your 1st post :thumbsup:
     
  24. romantic

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    thank you
     
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    Do you mean you stopped his visa ?
     

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