everything will be fine, we are strong

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  1. Going for the limit

    Going for the limit Well-Known Member

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    I was yralking to a russian friend about ythis and she thinks puten. Wont sign this off. And if he does ythen yrhere will be riots
     
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    Mystery Well-Known Member

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    Watched the riots last night on TV it's kicking off big time in Russia
     
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    Going for the limit Well-Known Member

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    Iv not seen anything until ryou posted on here so i messaged her yto ask
     
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    jennyelle Well-Known Member

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    It's ok I am sure that rock he is under will get to heavy for his little back sooner or later :rolleyes:
     
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  5. romantic

    romantic Well-Known Member

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    I came here speak not about clothes, about perfume and not about manicure.Yes, I do not ask for help, communicating with you for me is the same help.
     
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    Apples Well-Known Member

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    It takes time to heal and you take your time.
    We were all tricked by rats. You realized in time and you are in the right place to get support that all victims need afterwards.
     
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    juicyfruit Well-Known Member

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    :confused::confused:
     
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    Meteorite Well-Known Member

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    4 years on babe for me and am still trying to heal....its a head fuck beyond anyone's wildest dreams. But we must always be the Victor never the victim. Keep going it gets easier really it does....there are even days now when it doesn't enter my mind but then there are days when your like wtf....still can't believe his brother added me on fb haha see they ae fucking thick as mince......think of yourself, treat yourself, be around friends, take up a hobby, stay here but you will also need to take a break from TLR every now and again and much as it's difficult, heal yourself before trying to help others on here.....support each other yes but primarily focus on you...good luck ladies. Love and hugs xxx
     
  9. Jisela

    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    I'm over it, like WWIII... now it's just time to pick up the pieces. It's a smoking, scorched, and disorganized mess... but, at least, in my heart, I do not want my rat to ever return. He was a wrecking ball of lies and false promises. I'm glad he has moved his damage to other places, now.
     
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    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    I don't care what my rat does, and what he says, and who he loves, and anything. As long as he never comes back around, I'm good. That was the only thing I really wanted and fought for from the first moments I realized who he was and what he was doing.
     
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    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    To get him out, throw out that evil rat, and pick up the pieces, basically.
     
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  12. Meteorite

    Meteorite Well-Known Member

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    I said that 2 years ago .....it still affects your life, trusting again is difficult, you will deal with things and situations differently to what you did before, You will be a different person too inside. I wont be healed until I can find the gal I was before I laid eyes on him....she wasn't perfect...but she wasn't broken so I'd quite like to find her again. Xx
     
  13. Jisela

    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    I will drive it home... instead of having some crazy Tunisian rat taking the wheel anymore. I don't even think about my rat most days. That is a huge relief. I think of what is in front of me and recovering and the future. So, I think that's a good start.
     
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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    This brought tears... sigh. Yes. I miss who I was before the rat too. Wishing the best to all of you amazing women.
     
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    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    TLR was the best part of Tunisia for me. It was the only thing that made any sense, and literally this place was the start of all recovery.
     
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    Then that must be your goal....go find her and I hope you do with all my heart I hope you do angel xxx
     
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    Meteorite Well-Known Member

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    The members of TLR are forever in my heart I owe them my life xx
     
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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    <3 aww such a sweet person, thank you so much. Xxxx
     
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    Meteorite Well-Known Member

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    I've been called many things never sweet hahah so are you babe. We have hearts and feelings....thats how we got here....and rats didn't xxxx
     
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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    What a pretty vibe, showing up and leaving a lovely trace of hope. Good ridance Meteorite, the rat doesn
    Well Rats adjectives for us do not count. Those are the ones they should repeat facing a mirror ;)
     
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    juicyfruit Well-Known Member

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    Heidi, like a few others here, are one of the voices of reason..;)..the jury is still out on this one "romantic".
     
  22. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Hi, @romantic, how are you? I’m a little concerned that we haven’t heard from you and you’ve been deleting posts...is all ok?
    I noticed you’ve been on the forum, but not writing on your thread anymore, so was worried you felt unsupported.
     
  23. romantic

    romantic Well-Known Member

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    hi Mango Chutney ! thank you I'm fine. how are you
    I do not want everyone to laugh at my story and me. I found support on this site
     
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  24. Apples

    Apples Well-Known Member

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    Hi romantic . Glad to know you found support.
     
  25. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Good to hear from you :)
    I’m glad you’re doing ok.
    I don’t understand, you were laughing at your own story?
    You can still comment on other threads if you’d rather avoid this one. Tis a very rare occurrence I venture near my rats thread...can’t bare to look at it :sick:
     

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