Hi michelle and welcome, why don't you take a step back and read some of the stories on here and this will make you more aware of what some of these men or boys are capable off. You only have to log into FB and they all come crawling out of the sewer they are in. They all say the same things and fill you full of false hope and promises. I hope you don't get hurt by this man just be very careful. Why don't you name him hun and see if anything comes up about him, google his name and see if he is on other dating sites as a lot of them are. Does he work? Where does he live? You never know someone might know him. Take care.