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Amira

Major Ratslayer
No Amira, it is not 'up to her which way she chose' because she does not know the truth or the rules of the game, she does not even know if it is a game - so she cannot 'chose' because she does not know what the choices really are.
Do you feel ok if Your boyfriend is laugh front off you and talk With his friends in arabic and you do not understand what he is say ????for me this is a worried sign
 
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cb78

Guest
I'm not with him..how can u possibly be with someone who lives the other side of the world ...its not possible. .I've seen he's just a rat..Thanks to this group. . It's funny as u only have to like a photo on Tunisia fb and they are all swarming round u like flys round poop. .I've had marriage proposals and messages of love and begging for me to stay with guys I've never even met. .. even the low life's at the hotel sho I know have Tunisian gfs still the same. Trying to whoo my fake fb profile. .rats the lot of them
 

Amira

Major Ratslayer
I'm not with him..how can u possibly be with someone who lives the other side of the world ...its not possible. .I've seen he's just a rat..Thanks to this group. . It's funny as u only have to like a photo on Tunisia fb and they are all swarming round u like flys round poop. .I've had marriage proposals and messages of love and begging for me to stay with guys I've never even met. .. even the low life's at the hotel sho I know have Tunisian gfs still the same. Trying to whoo my fake fb profile. .rats the lot of them
Do not answer them and they will stop to send sms to you
 
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superlelijk

Guest
Be carefull, This is how it all start. Calling 24/7. Viber, FB, Skyping and and. this is their game.
1. Make you adicted to them. Cal all the time. Talk for hours. Sweet talking. Asking about ur life. It feels flatering . So much interest, understanding and love.
2. Start to tell about their problem. Armey, Bad situation, Sick familymembers, lost job.....not nessesarely ask direckt for money, but it is clear that a little (or big) money can help them out of their problem
3. Come to Tunisia!! We can rent a flat. Stay together. I can find good place!! not expencive!!
4. When this is in box and u have the tickets ask for gifts. Clothes, alcohol, chockolade and and. In Tunisia no good qality!! You bring from ur country!!
5. You come. You met family. Everybody so charming and lovely!! His friends so nice!! But be sure it is you who pay for every coffie cup arround the table!! And everything else too
6. You are my love!! Age is just a number!! Lets get married!! Here we cant stay together without beeing married!!!
If you do go into this relationship THIS IS WHAT YOU GET
1. Now it will be not so inportant to cal all the time. The long sweet cals are now more about that he need financial help. If you dont send money you are a selfish person. Do not understand his needs. the long sweet conversations are now change into fights.
2. Now tunisia is not interesting unless you come with money for buisness and buy or rent a home. You must make me a visa. Here no future. Only with money. Better future in Europe. If he get problem getting visa it is your foult!!!
3. Want more and more gifts. Tablets, pc phone. What about a car?? and traviing (you pay) money money money
Like a Tunisian honest man i talk to say.... Here a man maybe have to save for ages to get married. Much more easy with Europeen, It is cheap. Do cost nothing. It is all about money and visa. Why do you think a young man married an older woman!?? He stay married to her for let say 5 years. Then he have 1. save money by work in europe for the future...2. she have give him money for a start and buisness in tunisia. Then he can marrie a Tunisian girl his own age and start a real family
are you Tunisian ??
 
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superlelijk

Guest
dear ladies, more than 90% is fooling you ! I know hot wheater beautiful beach , you start to think emontional en fall easy in love. But do not let your emotions make decision for , by the te you wake up u find your self im a akward situation. Keep calm and think rational !! So remember , 9 out of 10 only wants to profit, its the sad reality
 

Big Bang Theory

Senior Rat Expert
dear ladies, more than 90% is fooling you ! I know hot wheater beautiful beach , you start to think emontional en fall easy in love. But do not let your emotions make decision for , by the te you wake up u find your self im a akward situation. Keep calm and think rational !! So remember , 9 out of 10 only wants to profit, its the sad reality
I agree but I think it is 99.9% and 999 out of 1000 :Cry:

(I probably got my maths wrong there :p but it's near enough :mad: )
 
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cb78

Guest
No im not tunisian, im English

i had a call from him yestrday and was so lovely to hear his voice, he said he kissesme, i do him, but j wont go back, kinda deep down glsd that flights zre cancelled as i have no option now, he showed me the lett fir the army in video link as i told him outright i didnt beleive him, he said he had no reason to lie to me, he also ssid if he needed money then he would sell his car, which i suppose is true ... my head says no my heart says yes, i hate feeling like this, surely if he thought for one minute i was on to him je wouldnt have shown the lett from army , he wouldnt call me etc, or is it really a game, evrythung ?
 

Big Bang Theory

Senior Rat Expert
No im not tunisian, im English

i had a call from him yestrday and was so lovely to hear his voice, he said he kissesme, i do him, but j wont go back, kinda deep down glsd that flights zre cancelled as i have no option now, he showed me the lett fir the army in video link as i told him outright i didnt beleive him, he said he had no reason to lie to me, he also ssid if he needed money then he would sell his car, which i suppose is true ... my head says no my heart says yes, i hate feeling like this, surely if he thought for one minute i was on to him je wouldnt have shown the lett from army , he wouldnt call me etc, or is it really a game, evrythung ?
He showed you a piece of paper with some Arabic writing on it - it could have been anything

Next time try to get a screen shot and then get it translated.

I took photo's of some 'important' documents my rat had - when I got them translated I never laughed so much in my life.

My friends husband sent her proof of a fine he had to pay or he would go to prison - it was just some garbage he had concocted with his friends and put a red stamp on from a children's ink kit.

And yes he would call you even if he knows you are on to him, all the more reason for him to try to convince you he 'loves' you - why would he give up so easily on a potential credit card/visa ?

Even when you've definitely found them out and blocked them in all conceivable ways they will still find a way to contact you, weeks, months or even years later - a credit card is a credit card is a visa is a credit card is a visa...... ad infinitum

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