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The baby's face is hiddenI haven’t been talking with anyone except my own friends. I decided that my son deserved for me to give his dad a chance to be a dad to him. This is going good, maybe won’t always, maybe is an act but my son deserves that chance! I decided to stop making someone else’s issues with him my issues because they aren’t. If it all goes wrong then that’s my problem. What I don’t appreciate is sharing a photo of my son on here! His dads paying for things for him, his nappies, clothes and other things. It costs him a lot in fuel to come visit him which he’s doing regular so what I see is him making a huge effort to be a dad so that can’t be a bad thing!
He moved in on the 15th December and tried to control me and my kids. Make us live like Muslims! I too paid for most things. He didn’t get a chance to get violent but sometimes he’d say things that showed he could be and he also hold me too hard, if that makes sense?! He also lost his temper with my 4yr old daughter, shouted and swore at her so I decided to get rid!
The going is good?I didn’t pay out huge amounts of money but I was the one paying almost everything! He would go on about needing a new visa and the cost. Probably trying to get me to pay for it!