If and when you go to the police they will call your husband.
Ah, that law of the land again....looks good on paper, but in reality is mostly not adhered to, as the cultural laws take precedence....in Tunisia, a bit of bribe money solves all with their corrupt law...even a couple of our Tunisian members acknowledge this.The law changed last year in Tunisia and its now a criminal offence to hit a woman including their wife - and they can go to jail, about time!
You are spot on mangoAh, that law of the land again....looks good on paper, but in reality is mostly not adhered to, as the cultural laws take precedence....in Tunisia, a bit of bribe money solves all with their corrupt law...even a couple of our Tunisian members acknowledge this.
Money, money, money....the language of Tunisia, and valued higher than a human life.
Most Tunisian women will not act over domestic violence, as the odds are high that the family will disown them and they will become a social stigma, pointed at and laughed at on the streets.
With foreign women, the interrogation process is despicable, but in the police station, the police pretend to take it seriously while she’s sat there. Once she has left for foreign shores, a bit of bribe money sees the complaint brushed under the carpet, and the abuser walk away with a pat on the back.
On paper, Tunisian law looks great, in reality....that is not the case, because many of these people have been raised to believe that domestic violence is acceptable, that woman must be disciplined.
The only way to combat this is to raise new generations with a different mindset, but each new generation is raised the same.
There isn’t even room in prison for these abusive monsters....the prisons are overcrowded. The authorities tried to make space by lifting the jail term for first time drug users, but it is still not enough, hence many returning jihadists roaming free.
Rats like Nassim, my rat, Apples rat, Mystery’s rat etc....they know they can get away with what they do to us in Tunisia.....but not in our countries they don’t....because women have proper rights here, not just rights on paper.
I was one of the lucky ones tooI was lucky and I am here to prove it.
Others is still there facing the constant abuse.
I had mama sister all in my face shouting at me.I was one of the lucky ones too
Flew home battered and bruised, in hell and all pain, but I made it, I was alive
The one time I tried to go to the police, his parents stopped me. Once I was put onto the spare room, they watched me like hawks....no way was I getting out of that house to the police.
We are strong women mango yet we were locked in and abused fleeing a country in absolute fear.I was one of the lucky ones too
Flew home battered and bruised, in hell and all pain, but I made it, I was alive
The one time I tried to go to the police, his parents stopped me. Once I was put into the spare room, they watched me like hawks....no way was I getting out of that house to the police.
It’s so, so sadThey sit there and say it was my fault I deserved it.. The women is so manipulated by the men the family it's down right barbaric
You have the heart and courage mangoIt’s so, so sad
I’m one for the girls, breaks my heart to know how much they tolerate, because too many of them have been raised with the belief that their sole aim in life, is to marry, breed, cook, clean....and give sex on demand.
There is a women and children’s activity centre near me, my counsellor works there one day a week...and she’s encouraging me to volunteer (only after I suggested it) to beat this PTSD by mixing and seeing different walls.
She thinks I’d be brilliant at it, as I not only survived domestic violence, but crucially, it was with a Muslim man.
These women and children are refugees that have been brought over from Syria, or trafficked from Pakistan, Afghanistan etc...they have found the courage to reach out for help. They are being taught that the things they have tolerated are not acceptable, they are being re educated.
If it were closer, I’d be there now....but at the moment, my PTSD head can’t cope with the journey there alone. I always wanted to open a women’s shelter in Tunisia...but I’ll never set foot there again
They have special police dealing with aggression and violence against women. Yes, it is a new law but I know of cases where it has worked for foreign women as well as Tunisians and the men have been imprisoned. From the incidents that I know of the police have acted very quickly and the men were imprisoned within a few days.@MH007
Can you also get the stats on how many has been prosecuted under this law that was established? Can a foreign woman use these resources as well?? That is the data I would Iike to see. I’m am glad they have laws in place, but if they are not enforced then what is the use. Also, if these laws are in place, are there safe havens for these women or men who are abused by their spouses to go? Can you give us that link as well? This will allow us to provide these links to other women.
I really don’t like rats, you can tell. But I truly despise an abusive rat. One who raises his hands and use violence to further his agenda.
It would be nice to see the data for all of this.
To call this “thing” a rat is an insult to rats! He sounds absolutely disgusting! Poor kid never ask for that thing to be his father. Sad story!He is embarrassing!
The girls are calling me names, waaaaaaah
The girls are telling truths about me before I’ve scammed my permanent papers, waaaaaaaah
I would be mortified if any of my sons scammed a woman for a visa, took cash off her, beat her, terrorised her child, cheated on her.....and created an anchor baby via an extra marital affair!!
How these creatures walk around in public is beyond me.....I’d be too embarrassed to show my face!
He is not a man
Well I attempted to figure this one out, but was told to leave it alone. Sooooo....I had lots of questions on this one, but I also don’t want anyone to feel attacked. So I don’t ask.Why a Tunisian Love Rat and woman beater should be allowed to bond with his visa baby is beyond me
I can’t get my head round this.....he is downright embarrassing, he is no man.....what a damn cowardBig and bad enough to hit and beat women, and scam women, but run to the police for true words on a forum. You little punk. You’re a joke.
This is correct. He is very calculating. He has already decided not to use a condom and make a baby. First calculating move. Because Nassim knows that his Tunisian bride isn’t going to play step mom to his son. He knows that. It would take away from her Daniel Klein purses and their children together in the future. Child support is no joke though. Haha. Those checks are going to be really low. But what’s a baby to a rat, a visa. First calculating move.I can’t get my head round this.....he is downright embarrassing, he is no man.....what a damn coward
These rats know exactly how to play the system
The next step, which they mostly all take.....is to accuse one of their victims of domestic abuse! Oh....the hypocrisy!
They are so desperate for that permanent stay.....and they don’t care who they destroy to achieve this.....and all to keep a plastic virgin...it’s crazy really.
You know for me it was how she posted her son on fb for him to see.He also should tell to the police his still wife’s daughter is terrified of him.
My FB is full of mothers and grandmother's that post pictures of their babies and grandchildren so I don't know what's so strange about it and it was the rat that committed adultery as Kelly is single isn't she?You know for me it was how she posted her son on fb for him to see.
This was a calculated move by the mother to let said rat know.
This was no way for her son's sake.
Where was he when he was born ? Why did it take a fb pic to get him running to the mother.
And yes regardless Kelly committed adultery.
Oh!! the other children's father is not allowed to see his children because he abused they mother.
But it's ok that this abusive rat who beat VC is allowed to see his son. It beggars belief.
It's ok though social services and police don't have a problem with him haha
Sorry VC you are an angel.
He's probably scamming some other woman to pay for those pampers
It’s more to this story #Fact #Proof #EvidenceMy FB is full of mothers and grandmother's that post pictures of their babies and grandchildren so I don't know what's so strange about it and it was the rat that committed adultery as Kelly is single isn't she?
I do agree.Guys, VC has asked that for personal reasons that we leave the victim alone. She is a victim and we don’t victim bash here. Let’s lay off her now please.