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我是一名中国男子,
去年我在网上遇到她,当时我在突尼斯工作
首先,我们只是朋友然后她问我是不是单身
我告诉她我已经离婚然后我们坠入爱河
因为我的签证,我6月28日不得不回到中国她说因为她的阿姨要结婚所以,我们没有见面
当我回到家时,我发送她4000cny买戒指给她买
手机我预订了一个航班今年7月23日,我要和她结婚
25日,她告诉我她的父亲不同意我们的婚姻
她说她会来中国嫁给我我的家人和我正准备她的到来
昨晚,我用另一个Facebook来检查她的帐号,我发现她在27日嫁给了另一个中国男孩
我不敢相信这是真的我知道中国男孩的Facebook
但是,我不能加他

在我们的爱的过程中,她会说我每天都爱你
她关心我的家人,我的儿子
我觉得她非常善良
我去年看过这个网站并把它寄给她
老鼠只是突尼斯的一小部分,她说
现在我不认为我能活下去。我真的很绝望

这是我给她寄钱的地址和名字
Tlili Hedia,kef-ouest 7117(这是她家乡的地址)
29861600
She 的地址:Morneg 2090 - Ben Arous,突尼斯(这是她现在居住的地方)
xxxx xxxxxx

你帮帮我,你帮助我的中国朋友告诉他不要被骗
 

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I am a Chinese man
I met her online last year when I was working in Tunisia
At first, we were just friends Then she asked me if I was single
I told her I was divorced And then we fell in love
Because of my visa, I have to go back to China on June 28th She said because her aunt was getting married So, we didn't meet
When I got home, I sent her 4000cny to buy a ring
Buy a cell phone for her I've booked a flight for July 23 this year and I'm going to marry her
On the 25th, she told me that her father didn't approve of our marriage
She said she would come to China to marry me My family and I are getting ready for her arrival
Last night, I used another fl Facebook to check her account, and I found out she married another Chinese boy on the 27th
I can't believe it's true I know that Chinese boy's Facebook
However, I can not add him

In the process of our love, she will say I love you every day
She cares about my family, my son
I think she is very kind
I saw this website last year and sent it to her
Rats are only a small part of Tunisia, she says
Now I don't think I can live. I'm really desperate

This is the address and name when I sent her the money
Tlili Hedia , kef-ouest 7117 (This is the address of her hometown )
29861600
She adress :Morneg 2090 - Ben Arous , Tunisia (This is where she lives now )
Her current Chinese husband's name is
xx xxxx

You help me, and you help my Chinese friends Tell him not to be cheated
 
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MH007

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I don't know why the posting became Chinese
Welcome to the forum and well done on sharing your story, it must have taken a lot to do this.

Unfortunately although most are male rats we do hear about female rats too.

I hate to say it but she doesn't appear to care about you or your family - you were a commodity and a very generous one. She knows she wouldn't get a visa to come to your country to get married and her family wouldn't have allowed it anyway.

Are you still in touch now?

I'm so sorry but I really think you need to try and block her out of your life because it will be all encompassing if you don't and it's going to hurt a lot but you will get over her although it doesn't feel like it now.

The fact you are here means you are taking the first step towards freedom from this person and it will be baby steps but you will get there.

MH x
 
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So sorry to hear of your experience female / male rats are only a small part of Tunisia but it's fact ! Good job of outing her and warning her current husband I hope he dumps her sorry ass and walks away now before she bleeds him dry .
The women in Tunisia are very materialistic and she will suck every penny out of him .
I love a good tuni woman she must be a joy for her parents
 

Amira

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I am a Chinese man
I met her online last year when I was working in Tunisia
At first, we were just friends Then she asked me if I was single
I told her I was divorced And then we fell in love
Because of my visa, I have to go back to China on June 28th She said because her aunt was getting married So, we didn't meet
When I got home, I sent her 4000cny to buy a ring
Buy a cell phone for her I've booked a flight for July 23 this year and I'm going to marry her
On the 25th, she told me that her father didn't approve of our marriage
She said she would come to China to marry me My family and I are getting ready for her arrival
Last night, I used another fl Facebook to check her account, and I found out she married another Chinese boy on the 27th
I can't believe it's true I know that Chinese boy's Facebook
However, I can not add him

In the process of our love, she will say I love you every day
She cares about my family, my son
I think she is very kind
I saw this website last year and sent it to her
Rats are only a small part of Tunisia, she says
Now I don't think I can live. I'm really desperate

This is the address and name when I sent her the money
Tlili Hedia , kef-ouest 7117 (This is the address of her hometown )
29861600
She adress :Morneg 2090 - Ben Arous , Tunisia (This is where she lives now )
Her current Chinese husband's name is
xx xxxx

You help me, and you help my Chinese friends Tell him not to be cheated
There are scams but it can be a Tunisian man who is behind?
 
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Laura2014

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[email protected] hate Tunisia, thank you for posting your story here. I’m very sorry you have found yourself in this heartbreaking position.

Just so I understand. You were working in Tunisia? How long were you there?

You met her on line but then you met in person and spent time together?

You became engaged and planned to marry and then you returned to China on 28th June.

After this you planned to return in July to marry. Then you discovered that she had married a Chinese’s man. Was he also working there? Who is the child in the photo?
 

Amira

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Rats are only a small part of Tunisia, she says
Love rat is a big part of Tunisia (don't believe a word on what she has told you) After what I have read, they are concerned with status and money in Tunisia and it does not seem like they care if they only exploit you so long they get what they want money and visa. If she was a good Muslim girl she wouldn't have been on the internet? Especially not with picture. What do you know about her? Has she been married?
 

AmberHeart

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So sorry you are in this situation. She is already married to a man she met perhaps at same time as you but she keeps contact with you because you are her financial supporter. Please warn your migration office, provide all these details so they deny her a visa. Do not allow her to get into your country.
Xx
 

Brasilgirl

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I am a Chinese man
I met her online last year when I was working in Tunisia
At first, we were just friends Then she asked me if I was single
I told her I was divorced And then we fell in love
Because of my visa, I have to go back to China on June 28th She said because her aunt was getting married So, we didn't meet
When I got home, I sent her 4000cny to buy a ring
Buy a cell phone for her I've booked a flight for July 23 this year and I'm going to marry her
On the 25th, she told me that her father didn't approve of our marriage
She said she would come to China to marry me My family and I are getting ready for her arrival
Last night, I used another fl Facebook to check her account, and I found out she married another Chinese boy on the 27th
I can't believe it's true I know that Chinese boy's Facebook
However, I can not add him

In the process of our love, she will say I love you every day
She cares about my family, my son
I think she is very kind
I saw this website last year and sent it to her
Rats are only a small part of Tunisia, she says
Now I don't think I can live. I'm really desperate

This is the address and name when I sent her the money
Tlili Hedia , kef-ouest 7117 (This is the address of her hometown )
29861600
She adress :Morneg 2090 - Ben Arous , Tunisia (This is where she lives now )
Her current Chinese husband's name is
xx xxxxx

You help me, and you help my Chinese friends Tell him not to be cheated
Hi. I am sorry you have to go through this.
She sounds like she has been very busy.
I suggest you cancel the flight you bought for her. Send this story to your countries immigrations. If she tries to come there she will have to explain. She still wanted to marry you after she married another man?
I am so sorry.
 
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[email protected] hate Tunisia, thank you for posting your story here. I’m very sorry you have found yourself in this heartbreaking position.

Just so I understand. You were working in Tunisia? How long were you there?

You met her on line but then you met in person and spent time together?

You became engaged and planned to marry and then you returned to China on 28th June.

After this you planned to return in July to marry. Then you discovered that she had married a Chinese’s man. Was he also working there? Who is the child in the photo?
I worked there for three months
I haven't seen her
I went back to China on June 28 last year and plan to go to Tunisia to marry her on June 23 this year
But, she told me, her father didn't accept our marriage
The girl in the photo is her niece
 

Apples

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I worked there for three months
I haven't seen her
I went back to China on June 28 last year and plan to go to Tunisia to marry her on June 23 this year
But, she told me, her father didn't accept our marriage
The girl in the photo is her niece
What was her explanation as to why her father did not approve of the marriage?
Did you live with her while you were in Tunisia?
 

Mango Chutney

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Hey, @I hate Tunisia, welcome to the forum :)

It’s always sad how we meet so many new, good people this way.....I’m very sorry you were a victim of this cruel and vicious scam.

There have always been she rats, but a much smaller percentage than the male rats. The law changed in Tunisia, enabling Tunisian females to marry outside of Islam, so sadly, I suspect you will be one of many male victims we see here in the coming years.

The Chinese tourist market has also massively expanded in Tunisia, a lot of work has been put into promoting Tunisia as a tourist destination for the Chinese.....so I suspect we will unfortunately see many more of your country people being targeted.

In my gut, I suspect that the female rats will focus more strongly on material and monetary gain over visas, though obviously, there will be visa hunters too.....I just can’t see many Tunisian families respecting the new law and allowing their daughters to marry outside of Islam....but we shall see what the future holds.

Stay here with us for support....recovering from these scam relationships is painful and sees the onset of very intense and varied emotions, but here...you are amongst people that understand :)
 
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