Gafsa rats

Discussion in 'Rat Behavior' started by Going for the limit, Oct 18, 2018.

  1. Mystery

    Mystery Well-Known Member

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    My rat is hiding after I found a few of his accounts but in the end we will find them.
    I believe mine is chatting to a Florida woman
    She's welcome to him. She will be sorry..
     
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  2. Nivia

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    I am glad for Liona that she got rid of her bald old rat the old rat is worse than the young young over time can understand that you can not live like this in constant deception and hurt people
    the old rat is already diagnosed and it is forever

    I found out too late that my habib is a rat now he has a lot of information about me I have information about him, but not as much as he has now we are friends:speechless:
    because we are afraid of each other I think that only because of this we are talking now and if we start a war Im afraid I might lose:Cry:
     
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    Snuggle Well-Known Member

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    Nivia, you will never be the loser. You are a decent and kind person. He will be a rat forever.
     
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  4. Arkady

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    Talk to Heidi and Mango. They can help you in this situation. Judithlyn (and I hope I’m spelling it correctly) can also give you some pointers in rat repelling. The rat has a lot more to lose than you, especially if you name him and shame him. Put his picture in the gallery. Expose him and block him. The don’t look back. I would also suggest you read Gavin DeBecker’s work “ The Gift of Fear.” He has a chapter with good information on dealing with possible blackmail. Above all, don’t feel ashamed. These rats can smell when you’re vulnerable. We’ve all been there.
     
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  5. Mystery

    Mystery Well-Known Member

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    Obviously we are different, me I would start world war 3. If he had naked pics of me his whole community would see him too.
    He would have to leave there, his family would live in shame. There's one thing I learned living with rats is don't bring shame on the family.
     
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  6. Nivia

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    Thank all for your advice and your support is important to me
    sometimes it seems to me that this 2 year with a rat I will never forget
    this is my biggest mistake he appeared when I was lonely later everything changed but we were already 24/7 and he was in my head
    I understand now that at any moment he can ruin my life in one message these thoughts don't let me go
    I asked Heidi and Mango about my rat and sent a photo
    I did not know this site and was afraid that they might reveal me, and it was a different story I wanted to be ready if he starts interfering in my life
    if he starts to blackmail me I will tell my true story and put in the gallery his photo
     
  7. Nivia

    Nivia Member

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    I think we are not different;)
    at the moment I am defenseless in front of a rat he has no girlfriend anymore im bad I hope for his decency and his promises (this is very funny)
    but if he does something
    I will burn his house, I will find his friends the same rats and I will burn their houses
    this will be the beginning of my revenge:whistle:
     
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  8. Arkady

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    Good idea.
     
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  9. Arkady

    Arkady Well-Known Member

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    No, outing him will be a better revenge. So will not giving him the satisfaction of getting to you. Right now he is getting desperate as his means of support is gone. By not even giving him a negative response, you are telling him he has no more power over you and that will hurt him even more than burning his house down. Karma will catch up to him sooner or later.
     
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  10. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    We wouldn't ever do that! :eek::eek:
    Trust is key on here....we are a bunch of survivors pulling each other through, leaning on each other....we don't betray members.....unless of course....they are rats, then pm confidentiality does not apply :thumbsup:
     
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  11. AmberHeart

    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    Be sure they will never break your trust. I have been open book to them and they always have the highest level of loyalty. By the way I have been through blackmail shit and it’s not fun at all. Be cautious on that. There is a thread with LINKS where you can report such criminal activity. “Report Mariage fraud and other Criminal Activites” Keep strong xx
     
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  12. Arkady

    Arkady Well-Known Member

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    May I add past the rat and family that put you through hell.
     
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  13. Mystery

    Mystery Well-Known Member

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    I wouldn't give him the satisfaction of being in jail.
    My habibi rat loves porn and women so much.
    His phone number is on every porn site/ gay sites
    I hope his phone never stops ringing tonight.
    I would never do that to such a nice guy.
    It wasn't me honest.:eek::D
     
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  14. Brasilgirl

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    Take your time. You can tell your story a little at a time. It’s okay. It’s all about you healing from the damage the rat can do to you. You may not even realize yet how much his brain washing has changed you. But you will heal and you will be stronger.
    Just stick with TLR.
    We won’t judge you, and, we’ve been there. We’ve done the stupid things. We’ve ignored the red flags. We understand how a rat can get you.
    ** hugs **
    No need to burn any houses. That will only give the rats more leverage when begging from their new victims. Best to just make sure they live a long miserable life in their own cesspool.
     
  15. Brasilgirl

    Brasilgirl Well-Known Member

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    Don’t worry. Heidi and Mango are legit angels. (Rat hating angels, but still angels) They won’t do anything that could jepordise your safety. And we all know you’ll out him when your ready and safe to do so.
    I’ve been on this forum almost a year and I am honestly say that I trust Heidi and Mango more than most of my friends.
     
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  16. Heidi

    Heidi The Sleuth

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  17. RatSnatcher

    RatSnatcher Well-Known Member

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    The best decision I made was tell my story. I was so embarrassed to PM them and tell them because my rat was well known by them. However, I took the plunge and did so. I have not looked back ever since.

    I have so much to lose if I were to stay with my rat. I thought about all the thingsI had worked so hard for in my life. I was determined not to let a rat sift that from me. That is what happens when we continue to entertain them, they drain you like the demon they are, slowly.

    I cannot fathom waking up to a rat everyday. I have ties to USA, Germany, Canada, and Korea. There are some amazing men out there, these Tunisian men are NOT it. Thank God I found one. Take the blinders off and I promise you wont like what you see. I can tell yall of a horrible dream I had of my rat, I still shutter to think about it. It was a warning. If we open our eyes wide enough, the signs are there.

    Nivea, I hope one day you can break this unhealthy soul tie you have with this man. For your sake. These rats will put you in the crazy house if you're not careful. The more you hold on, the deeper he will sink he claws into you.
     
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    RatSnatcher Well-Known Member

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    Also let me ask, do you really think he is your friend???
     
  19. Heidi

    Heidi The Sleuth

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    @Nivia, members are here to help. You will find lots of wisdom in the forums. The rats can only do harm, if we let it happen. It's not easy for anyone to conclude, that one got scammed. But no one said that life would be easy. Bad things happen and are meant to be survived. A new year is comming and we all can start a new, happy rat free life :)

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  20. Mango Chutney

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    Awwww, that's so sweet, Brasilgirl.....thank you :love:
    I'm not sure about Heidi being an angel.....but I definitely am :D:D
    Fear you? Hahaha.....never!
    Those rats fear you though.....I'd still put money on you being the face of every coffee shop wall in Tunisia....but I suspect you may have a fat, orange cat sat beside you now :D
     
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  21. Arkady

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    Not to mention wayyy out of date.
     
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  22. Nivia

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    no Mango I meant the rats that watch this site, maybe my rat is here too or his friends they are here
    I read the forum you are all good people, not every woman can tell her story bad story (she is ashamed, she is afraid, there is no person who gave her support)
    this forum as psychological help
    getting out of a novel with a rat is very difficult:Cry:
    I admire you all because not everyone can come to the help you all waste your time and energy :love:
     
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  23. Nivia

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    in my situation
    keep your friends close enemies even closer :(
     
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    Amira Well-Known Member

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    Understand well that victims are afraid to post too much information on this site especially when these boys read here and yes I agree that it is disgusting. They are outspoken and no one knows if they want to take revenge so yes it is important to take care. They are after all love rats and no cuddly guys
     
  25. RatSnatcher

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    Life is too short to allow these rats the satisfaction. Its 2019 in 24 hours and its time to take back the power these rats thought they stole. Who would want to be friends or with with these foul, nasty funky demons. Not me. My worth is way better than that. I dont care if he blackmails me until it reaches the government level, I ain't bowing down and taking their sh*t. They want war, then I'll bring the fight to them (especially my rat). My reputation speaks for itself. I'm sick of rats being able to shame victims and bully them into silence. They are scum, we're not. Quite frankly I'm sick of being nice to these guttersnipes. May 2019 bring them the wrath of 10,000 Angels and may they never see a visa a day in their life.

    2018 was a test run for them, 2019 we will turn up the heat. If anybody decides to stay with their rat after all the evidence has been presented, then I wish you well. As for us free ladies, we will be right here putting a boot up their a$$. :D
     

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