Gaith Ben Mahmoud Romdhani / Ben Gaith Mahmoud

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  1. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Hahaha, Liona, the thread was never call that, it's what me and Heidi started to call him after she found a pic and put it on a now deleted thread, I laughed at it and called him 'King Kong of Gafsa' and it just stuck.
     
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  2. Heidi

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    Yeah, the thread was called Gaith Ben Mahmoud Romdhani :cool:
     
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    Yes, I know he has received that nice name thanks to someone's ;) ability. So it's time to change the thread name already. He deserved this.
     
  5. Mango Chutney

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    Only Luna can change it, as she started the thread. He's named in the gallery and I believe a link to this thread is there, so he has his fame :)
     
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  6. Mango Chutney

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    ManGaith and his bro finally made it to Switzerland on the old Greek passport.....in their flip flops!!!! :D Oh no, dang, those mountains are not snow covered....he's still in Tunisia, haha! :D

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  7. Luna1980

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    He is a rat, been in a relationship with 2 women from the UK in theirs 50's from the age of 18 untill now. He is currently in a relationship with a greek older woman. I have talked to her on several occacions about Gaith, but she refuses to accept that he is a rat. He is still trying to get into my life like before, but I am done with him. The last 6 months has been an eyeopener to how manipulative, and narciccistic he really is. My only problem is that he will not accept that I don't want anything to do with him anymore. I have even started dating again, but still he keep contacting me. I have been a complete fool in a time where my health and mental wellbeing was at a lowpoint, and he took advantage of this for sure. I am now in a good place, healthy and back working. Have good friends supporting me and is back to my old self again. Thanx for this site who was here giving me answers I needed even though I chose to disregard my intuition several times, but finally I am ready to come back and give an update on him. I am done beeing a victim of his mind games and deceptiveness and only wish that his current woman will take lesser time than me to wake up to the truth about him.
     
  9. Heidi

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    Welcome back, Luna :) I hope you will put your album of the rat back again
     
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    There only about 4000 Tunisians or so in the USA! And with the way things are now (the political climate) No Tunisians are getting into the country. A half Tunisan half American would be unusual
     
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    :D his story, as told by a victim :

    The latest story he brought up with me by the way is that his mom is not his real mother, he is a result of his fathers infedelity with an american woman who know Rihanna ( yes Rihanna) , and she left him in Tunisia with his father. But she left him so much money so he his Rich. And he is american/tunisian with passport to go to europe if he want.
     
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    And I am the Princess Thumbelina ...
     
  13. Mango Chutney

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    I knew he was rich when I saw his transportation! I knew he was rich when I saw that manky old farm. Finding out about the American mother and Rhianna was the icing on the cake with this rodent :D The lies, oh....the lies :D That old, Greek passport still ain't got him out of Tunisia then, hahaha! :D
     
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  14. Heidi

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    I don´t think that the old Greek passport aims to get him out of Tunisia. She would be a laughing stock in Greece ;)
     
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    Haha! You're on form!! :D:D
     
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    I believe how mentally :confused:far removed they are from the outside world that they get their facts from music videos, fake news etc. :whistle:
     
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    Fake news? You mean you don't believe he's wealthy, owns houses and nightclubs, has an American mother and connections to Rhianna the millionaire? :D Damn, I was so impressed, I was gonna see if he fancied an old, English passport instead ;) I'd love to know how on earth this rodent comes up with this crap :rolleyes:
     
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    Hi Luna, I think you´ll like this :)

    7 Painful Truths Empaths Must Eventually Face About Narcissists

     
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    7 Painful Truths Empaths Must Eventually Face About Narcissists

    It’s no secret that Empaths feel it’s their obligation to save the world. And when they’re being manipulated by a Narcissist, this sense of obligation becomes their whole identity as the Narcissist plays the victim to excess.


    What a heavy weight we carry when we decide to take on the burden of another person’s choices or life.

    It’s crucial for Empaths to acknowledge that Narcissists are disordered. When we support them, we are either knowingly or unknowingly supporting a lie, as the person we think we’re helping doesn’t really exist. While this fact alone is hard enough to swallow, following are seven more painful truths that all Empaths must eventually face about Narcissists.

    1 – The narcissist isn’t a tortured soul who needs your special kind of love

    Almost every Empath who’s ever been in a relationship with a narcissist has held the belief that if they could just show the narcissist how deep their unconditional love ran and then the narcissist would finally have an epiphany where he or she realized that there is a special and rare kind of love available to them, after all.


    The love of an Empath certainly has its healing qualities, but it does nothing to change a narcissist’s behaviors or motives in the relationship. Narcissists are morally bankrupt individuals who do not appreciate the things other people do for them. Instead, they feel completely entitled to whatever love and devotion is directed towards them. Almost every person the narcissist has been involved with gave them this unconditional love but, sadly, narcissists consider such love and devotion disposable.


    2 – Although everyone admires and appreciates your compassionate nature, it also makes you highly attractive to narcissists

    If everyone in the world boasted an Empath’s qualities, we’d live in a Utopia. But, sadly, the world is full of manipulators who seek out and exploit people with the Empath’s character traits, such as these:

    · Taking criticism to heart, reflecting on how their words and actions might affect other people.

    · Being highly empathic, having the ability to sense the emotions of others and respond instinctively in ways that help those in need.

    · Having a high level of tolerance, embracing the beliefs, practices, and lifestyles of other people.

    Narcissists look for cooperativeness and compassion in partners because they know that they themselves don’t possess these traits at their most basic level, and excessively cooperative partners will put in the work of two people to keep the relationship going, projecting their own desirable traits onto the narcissist, thereby filling in the yawning gaps in order to make the relationship seem more normal.

    This high level of cooperativeness is the most significant trait narcissists look for in partners because they intuitively know that such partners will stay in the relationship with them way beyond reasonable limits.


    3 – The narcissist isn’t interested in your deep thoughts

    Empaths are deep thinkers who possess highly evolved viewpoints about people and the world. It’s hard to find anything that makes an Empath feel more alive than finding a kindred spirit to share their thoughts and opinions with.

    Narcissists put on a good show, pretending to be enlightened and advanced in modern philosophies, but the truth about their close-minded dogmas is eventually discovered which profoundly shatters the Empath’s heart. Worse, once the relationship begins to sour, the narcissist typically mocks and ridicules the Empath for his or her views and theories.

    4 – The narcissist is your soul mate, but not in the way you’d hoped

    Urban dictionary defines soulmate as:

    A person with whom you have an immediate connection the moment you meet — a connection so strong that you are drawn to them in a way you have never experienced before. As this connection develops over time, you experience a love so deep, strong and complex, that you begin to doubt that you have ever truly loved anyone prior. Your soulmate understands and connects with you in every way and on every level, which brings a sense of peace, calmness and happiness when you are around them.

    Unfortunately, this is not the true definition of a soul mate. A soul mate’s true purpose is to bring all your wounds, fears, and insecurities to the surface so you can reconcile them. Don’t mistake this to mean that there is a healed future with the narcissist. They were only meant to be in your life for a season.

    5 – The narcissist is not the “runner” in what you thought was a twin flame relationship

    Many empaths mistake the dysfunctional undercurrents of a relationship with a narcissist as those of the twin flame runner/chaser dynamic.

    Narcissists take advantage of this mistaken belief, using it as a great window of opportunity to disappear from the Empath so they can groom other supply or generally live life on their own terms, which includes pretending to be in a committed, progressive relationship, all while they secretly live life as a single person behind the Empath’s back.

    Narcissists excuse themselves for this covert behavior by claiming they love the Empath too much and are frightened by the depth of their love, hence why they feel inclined to “run”.

    6 – Even if you and the narcissist made contracts together before this lifetime, you must accept the necessity to move on without them

    In the spiritual scheme of things, many people believe narcissists are put in our lives to help us evolve into healed, cosmically aware individuals.

    While that may be true, we must recognize when it comes time to sever those ties and vows with the narcissist, which feels devastating for any Empathic individual with strong moral codes. Whereas Empaths want to soothe the narcissist’s hurts and help them feel secure, the narcissist simply wants to siphon the Empath’s compassionate energy like fuel for an engine.

    Even after the relationship ends, the energetic ties remain, despite the amount of time that elapses. And even though you may be apart from them now, you’re still deeply bonded to them energetically. This can drain your energy, as well as cause symptoms of depression and hopelessness. Therefore, it’s critical to cut the energetic ties with the narcissist so you can move on.


    7 – Love doesn’t always conquer all

    Most Empaths hold these common beliefs about love and relationships:

    Where there’s a will, there’s a way. Love conquers all. Everyone has some good in them and deserves the benefit of the doubt. If you want to be forgiven, you must forgive. The Ex didn’t have any family or friends, and now I’ve “abandoned” them, too. I wasn’t perfect, either.

    These nuggets of insight might apply to other areas of life, but not to toxic relationships. Why? Because it gives Empaths another way to torture themselves.

    It doesn’t matter if you were with your Ex for two, ten, or thirty years, it’s time to accept that you did everything within your power to salvage the relationship. The misguided fear that you could have done something differently is based on your toxic Ex having changed the goal posts continuously– and yes, it was deliberate. This explains why every single Empath believes there is something else they could have done to save the relationship. It’s a result of conditioning — and overwriting this belief will be part of your healing journey.


    Living a healed, balanced, and happy life means accepting these painful truths, even though the Narcissist cannot. They can’t be healed because for that to happen, they’d first need to acknowledge they are wounded. Instead, Narcissists use fear, obligation, and guilt (FOG) to keep their targets perpetually catering to their every whim…and overlooking lies and broken promises.

    Copyright © 2017 by Kim Saeed and Let Me Reach
     
  20. Luna1980

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    Hi again =) He sent me messages yesterday where he is telling me he is now in contact with another girl from the same country as me. She is 29 yrs , blonde and very cute. He says he met her during her vacation there this summer. This is also in the same time his current girlfriend from greek has been meeting him. He also sent me her pictures and said she was planning to come back to him at the end of this month. He is also on and off with this other woman from greek and I very much recognise his behaviour from how he was with me. While she is posting pictures of him and her and how happy they are together, he is online chatting up girls from all over the place. And she is very much aware of this behaviour with him cause she has told me herself it's all a game to him. She told me he is actually sitting next to her chatting with other women. Well I hope maybe she sees this and choose to let him go, althoug I highly doubt it. No judgement this time, cause I was just as blind myself before. I have blocked him now though and have not heard from him after this.
     
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    Ben Gaith Mahmoud
     
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    It's so funny how these guys get off on trying to make you feel jealous. Incredibly silly!
     
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    As I see it, she knows that he is a male prostitute and she pays him :whistle:
     
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    And she uses him. ;)
     
  25. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Now there's a familiar scenario!! My rat did this too....but it was over a year before dopey Dora here realised what was going on :rolleyes:
     
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