Why would you even want two boyfriends - I'm not judging but struggling to understand the logic.Boyfriend #1 and I have an open relationship. He knows everything that goes on in my life. Boyfriend #2 knew I was with #1 and was insistent. He is jealous, even though he knew I was in a relationship. He is angry daily because he knows I talk to #1.
My opinion is get rid of both and start valuing yourself a little more.