Let's discuss this phrase. I've seen countless of posts about this from victims and groupies. This is a dangerous statement. You know why? Because it means that more than likely you will continue to be with a rat until he has done it to you, hence the word "yet." Typically at that stage, damage is done, money spent, he is on to the next victim and you are trying to piece your life back together. They are like demons, suck the life right out of you. Simply not worth it. Lets work smarter and not harder. Nail their ass to the wall. I digress. I made this post to say this...I employ you to read about the Tunisian culture and religion before going on a holiday. You will see that it is not normal for a well-groomed, respected, educated and employed Tunisian man. They usually are NOT hanging around tourist areas picking up women. Picking up women from the internet and holiday is NOT normal in this culture or religion. Please, please know about Tunisia before going there if you can. When I travel to places, I want to know about the locals, the culture and religion before I get there. Situational awareness if you will. I do my research. It was how I was able to not get scammed by a rat because I started to learn their ways and nothing was adding up. Even the words he used can be found on this site. Sure enough, same rat language. I dumped him after Heidi and Mango helped me. Mine didnt even hang around the tourist areas, BUT I knew based on the culture and religion alone, Heidi and Mango were telling me the truth. He was a rat, yes. It also didnt make sense to look for a woman outside when they have plenty there and they normally prefer Muslim women (with the exception of a few and I am sure thats less than 1%). Now there are exceptions and some women are happily married to Tunisian men, BUT thats slim. Not a high percentage (less than 1% i bet, not too many). Read the culture, read the religion and read as many sites such as TLR before you embark on a holiday. If it is too good to be true, then it probably is especially with a rat. They don't see things the way we do. We love and we love genuinely. They are a 3rd world country whose economy is tanking fast, and bezness is normal "business" for them. They rarely love their own wives (property). Rats want two thing and thats for TLR to mind their business and keep scamming foreign women. Also, the patience these rats have are amazing. Don't ever think cause you've known them for years that they are genuine. That's even a bigger red flag, cus most of them want to marry young and get a young bride and make babies. So don't ever think cus "it hasn't happened to me yet" cus youve known him for years. He patienlty buying his time for bigger payoff. Cus at that point you're head over heels like Jack in that water freezing to death in Titanic movie (aint that a b*tch, he could've been saved, it was enough room). I digress. The goal is to bleed these leeches dry, through prevention.