Still, even to this very minute, mine doesn't have himself listed as married on Facebook even though we are, have been, will still be for an indefinite about of time. I told him I want to divorce, I've told him everything that I think about him and rat bezness, and he's STILL saying come back to Tunisia, trying to tell me that it's all in my head, that he doesn't want to leave his country anymore, and we can live in Tunisia, etc. etc. But, that's his whole game. He says, "I don't want to immigrate." Then, one week later, it's non-stop immigration, and bullying, and bad behavior, and aggressiveness, and criticism, and him basically doing whatever he wants, maybe adding women on Facebook, speaking to me like I'm the devil and responsible for all of his life problems, but as soon as I run.... he's like, I love you, etc. etc. I'm even afraid of his Tunisian life plan, because I know that will include other mutually invested life things, like a home, which he can just randomly decide to divorce and take half of or more, later. There is no winning with a rat. They don't care, they just want to win.