Help me he is a rat or not?

MH007

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She is an escort..!!! Really she let me see how she works....let me see how she lives...she have clients in italy to make sex and work like this. She also frequents night clubs... she did this life to maintain hher 2 children...because she has 2 girls when she was 12 years old.but what in this earth he thinks??? He said to her to convert to islam and give up this work.... but i really want to know how he can compare me and her...i have studied at university i have 2 degrees. I do sport...i am an equestrian girl...i have only 3 boyfriend in my life and lost my virginity when i was 26 and now i am 29....but how can he broke with me....i don t want to judge her for her life....because she had a lot of sufferings and come from a disastered family...but me and her are two different kind of girls...but in my mind i think if he really loved me i try to find a girl similar to me no?? To do a family...if he loved me and the things dont work woth me as he said to me when he start with her...he have to tried with a girl who was similar with me...he said i was his type of girl who want to marry....so why he start to live one month with that girl!!!!!!
He will go with ANY woman that will give him a visa regardless of age, education and dress size.

I dont judge the other lady for being an escort because she is up front about it being a business transaction instead of lying, scamming and destroying lives.

MH x
 

Eros

Member
I am always studing for my exams...but he said me he didn t appreciate me...because i always reading and go to university...he said i was very egoist because i was only thinking of me and didn t think about his life and situations...
 

Liona

Rat Expert
i don t want to judge her for her life..
I will surprise you now, but honestly I don't see something she could be judged for. She does not steal, she is not being involved in scam, does not tell sobbing stories about lost documents or whatever, she does not complain about her life, she does not live at expense of some soft-hearted person, she obviously does not pretend being in love with someone to milk him for the money; she just does the job she chosen at the moment to rise her children.
 

Eros

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Of course i am agree with that. But i want to say that we are different kind of girls. She is like this ok. She could do what she want in her life. But he always said me I was the prototipe of girl who want to marry .. so if so....he have had to find a girl who was a bit similar to me no???
 

Eros

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If he want children and a family and pretend to be muslim boy who make 5 prayer a day...and have a pure life and so on....how can he could think is possible to live with her and her job
 

MH007

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If he want children and a family and pretend to be muslim boy who make 5 prayer a day...and have a pure life and so on....how can he could think is possible to live with her and her job
If he was a good muslim boy he wouldnt be sleeping with either of you nor playing you both - he would not be dealing drugs, he would want the blessing of your parents. He would not be behaving the way he is at all.

He is a nasty piece of work!

Keep up your studies - its your future you are securing NOT his. He doesnt like that you give anything or anyone else attention.

Keep true to yourself.

MH x
 

simple

Ratslayer
His brother and his family are really different from him...his brother come in italy 10 years ago and he always work here..he now has a tunisian wife with 2 children....he never ever was involved in crimes
They all want to have Tunisain wife,,really that is what they all want ..In Tunisia the man must provide everything,,The woman must pay for nothing .So he is a shit to take money from you and his brother know this and he is a shit to.Listen to your head not your heart ,This is a RAT ,a big f"""ing rat and he will hurt you eventually Leave him go to your family ,He will find another woman to pay for him,dont worry about him .Sending you strength cara xxx
 

Liona

Rat Expert
But he always said me I was the prototipe of girl who want to marry .. so if so....he have had to find a girl who was a bit similar to me no???
Now he needs someone to get the documents and provide his residence, not to love, respect and cherish and spend his life with. So any woman will be fine as soon as she could help him to get what he needs. And then he will get himself real wife, Tunisian virgin.
 

simple

Ratslayer
His brother really is not different from him,he knows what this rat do to you and he dosnt advise him to not take your money .They pray 5 times a day ,for what ??They do everything against the quran ,steal ,lie ,cheat, sex, before marriage ,smoke ,drink ,A good muslim respects himself and his faith..In Tunisian culture ,the younger brother is always guided by the elder brother or father .So if they say stop ,he must stop ,But instead the brother blame you ,tell them both to F""k off !! You take care of yourself first and study for your future and you will find a man who loves you ,not your money or your passport xxx
 

simple

Ratslayer
Its rotten finding out the person you love ,is a liar ,its gutting ,But sometimes it takes a person from the outside to see the reality,@Eros ..understand a good muslim would never use his faith for gain,Just because he prays and says this is haram or that is haram ,dosnt mean he is honest..In Tunisia its rare for a tourist to meet a good Tunisian ,they do not approach tourists ,even women in their own family cant visit alone. Marriages are still arranged .and the boys mother or father will visit the girls family to ask for her .Even in towns like Tunis where Tunisian girls are seen smoking or drinking ,have short hair are considered whores .So if he loves you why cant he treat you the same as he would a good Tunisian girl ,,give you the same respect if he thinks you are good .Pay for everything ,earn your family trust .wait utill you marry to have a baby...He should do this if he really loves you .
 

Etoyoc

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They pray 5 times a day ,for what ?
So that TPTB can see or hear it? :)

Way back when I was quite young, I always wondered about the same thing, only in the christian belief. One day I decided to make God really angry by word and deed, in order to see what might happen then ... but, as I expected it, nothing happened. So I tried even many different approaches which always ended with the same result. This was the foundation of my strong belief in what I believe. Maybe my mother was right all along; she used to call me a devil on numerous occasions? :)
 
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Etoyoc

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and pretend to be muslim boy who make 5 prayer a day.
You see, it is not important what ones does, but what one thinks. You can speak as you wish, but you can think differently. You can even do acts and think about it differently. This is called pretension, even hypocrasy.

Whatever you hear or see, you always have to ask yourself one question about it: Does everything match up, is this person, in heart and mind alike? If it is not, then you cannot rely on its expressions being a true representation of its self.
 
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