Help with divorce

katie87

New Member
Hi just wondering if anyone can help with divorce. Literally been trying for 3 years on and off now to get a divorce and still no nearer, I’m being told I need to go Tunisia myself for it to finish but I really don’t want to go. Hopefully someone here can help in how to go about this . Thanx
 

MH007

Administrator
Staff member
Hi just wondering if anyone can help with divorce. Literally been trying for 3 years on and off now to get a divorce and still no nearer, I’m being told I need to go Tunisia myself for it to finish but I really don’t want to go. Hopefully someone here can help in how to go about this . Thanx
Hi Katie

Welcome to the forum.

Was your marriage registered in your country?

Did you marry in Tunisia?

MH x
 

katie87

New Member
Yes married In Tunisia. And when I married end of 2015 you no longer had to register marriage in England I’ve checked this is right since and It is correct.
 

MH007

Administrator
Staff member
Yes married In Tunisia. And when I married end of 2015 you no longer had to register marriage in England I’ve checked this is right since and It is correct.
Then your best bet is let him reap what he's sowed.

Let him divorce you - he will because he will want to marry again. If you are not intending visiting Tunisia then don't worry.

Have the last laugh and block him.

I hope you are okay.

MH x
 

katie87

New Member
Yes that was the original plan but as time has gone on I just would like it finished once and for all he has a lawyer sending me letters to sign which I am then they are saying I’m not signing them so I need to go to Tunisia to finish divorce I just don’t want to go there but I do want a divorce. And yes I’m fine thank you I’m over the whole situation I feel nothing towards him anymore
 

MH007

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Staff member
Yes that was the original plan but as time has gone on I just would like it finished once and for all he has a lawyer sending me letters to sign which I am then they are saying I’m not signing them so I need to go to Tunisia to finish divorce I just don’t want to go there but I do want a divorce. And yes I’m fine thank you I’m over the whole situation I feel nothing towards him anymore
You don't have to go to Tunisia so don't go.

If you ignore the solicitors letter 3 times (please do! ) he can divorce you. Then he will divorce you himself when he realises you are not playing his games. It's what they do and how they roll.

Don't spend another penny on him!

Perhaps once this is over you will feel strong enough to tell us your experiences.

MH x
 

katie87

New Member
That’s the thing I’ve been having letters for over a year from his lawyer yet still not divorced ! I’ve had more than 3 letters
 

katie87

New Member
yeah that’s what I was doing but it’s taking ages now I thought would be done by now but it don’t seem to be going anywhere and I really don’t want to go there to finish divorce just wondered if anyone been through this recently coz I’ve definitely had more than 3 letters from his lawyer for divorce dates and every time I don’t turn up they just make another date
 

achraf

Member
Then your best bet is let him reap what he's sowed.

Let him divorce you - he will because he will want to marry again. If you are not intending visiting Tunisia then don't worry.

Have the last laugh and block him.

I hope you are okay.

MH x
yes you right about this , she can stay there and he will run to do all the stuff so you can stay there and don't back to Tunisia, good luck
 

Liona

Rat Expert
That’s the thing I’ve been having letters for over a year from his lawyer yet still not divorced ! I’ve had more than 3 letters
Hi Katie.
Looks like he is doing his best by pressing you to cover all the expenses related with divorce at least. I also suspect his idea about your nesessary presence in Tunisia might tell about some mind games ( all insane of course). Because the distance helps us to stick to our guns. But when we meet the rats in person it could be hard to keep the mind clear. He could feed you a line about his miserable life or whatever. Please don't go to meet him. Let him be responsible for his deeds at least once in his life.
 

Sandra

Well-Known Member
Then your best bet is let him reap what he's sowed.

Let him divorce you - he will because he will want to marry again. If you are not intending visiting Tunisia then don't worry.

Have the last laugh and block him.

I hope you are okay.

MH x
I like your words.
 

tipme

Junior Rat Expert
You don't have to go to Tunisia so don't go.

If you ignore the solicitors letter 3 times (please do! ) he can divorce you. Then he will divorce you himself when he realises you are not playing his games. It's what they do and how they roll.

Don't spend another penny on him!

Perhaps once this is over you will feel strong enough to tell us your experiences.

MH x
That three letters don't count anymore.if you read the threads on divorce.there's one member tells of a good solitor.for UK people and doesn't over charge.like some solicitors that take the drain.if I went over he might not turn up and it goes on.as he might have no rush to marry his tunie bride as he don't have the money but if your not in no rush u will be saving someone else as his name will go through the system x
 

katie87

New Member
That three letters don't count anymore.if you read the threads on divorce.there's one member tells of a good solitor.for UK people and doesn't over charge.like some solicitors that take the drain.if I went over he might not turn up and it goes on.as he might have no rush to marry his tunie bride as he don't have the money but if your not in no rush u will be saving someone else as his name will go through the system x
I can’t find the thread with the lawyer info on if aany one can help will be much appreciated thanks
 

Etoyoc

Administrator
Staff member
3 attempts of reconciliation within a minimum of 90 days have to take place when a minor child is affected by the divorce.

If no child is affected and one of the partners do no show up to a court date, the judge will postpone the examination (hearing) of the case to another date and will then try to find the person to notify himher about the divorce request and the next hearing date. A divorce will take place after a minimum of 2 months after the hearing.

The judge can shorten the above periods when both partners agree in the divorce and the best interest of a child is maintained.
 
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