How can I get rid of a Kairouan rat???

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  1. Going for the limit

    Going for the limit Well-Known Member

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    Sounds like hes bleeding you dry!! Absolute dickhead
     
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    Amira Well-Known Member

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    No matter what rules UK has, it's sad that the marriage is registered automatically in the UK. Just hope that those who are unhappy married to Tunisian men get out of it and that they do not marry again with another Tunisian. Have no faith that No. 2 could be better than No. 1 especially not in Tunisia would have kept me far from Tunisian men if you have bad experience with them
     
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  3. Kenji

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    I have blocked him now and i feel calmer... i think your right I will play the waiting game.. this has put me off marriage!!
     
  4. Kenji

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    Thank you... without this website i would have never known he was lying.. his family were all part of the show. This week he told me his dead motber came to his dream and tied our hands together so we must be together. That is so shady. I felt nothing to be honest.
     
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  7. Kenji

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    Not yet. She has her own business so seems ok. My rat and her hated each other
     
  8. Kenji

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    I am so angry at myself.. i cannot believe i got caught by a rat
     
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    I will get a will drawn up. I was only given option of splitting everything. I will wait 6 months and check if he divorced me. I will not spend one more dinar! I even had to pay for his tooth to be removed in september and he took 450 dinars as he said he needed x ray at hospital as wisdom tooth. I hope he rots in hell. Karma is a bitch!!!
     
  11. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    The will is a good idea.....though I don't understand why you were only given the option to split.....the conniving shites! :Evil:
    The tooth is regular rat, and one we hear time and again :rolleyes: They really need to change their scamming lies.....they're all the same.
    Well.....we mostly all got caught too.....nobody is safe from these greedy predators.
    Focus your anger....be angry with him, not yourself.
     
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    It's better to cover yourself, I hope you become strong and each time he message you block block
     
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    Oh, dear, if only you mentioned this only fact without any other details, he would have been identified as a rat immidiately.:D:D:D
     
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    Also report him for marriage fraud. That could help you if he tries to get your assets.
    And document that he has not contributed anything to the marriage.
     
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  15. Going for the limit

    Going for the limit Well-Known Member

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    You should of been given 3 options,split, whats your own is your own and the other is whats his is yours. Make sure you cover yourself financially and legally so he cant get fa
     
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    Is she actually dead? We have had an amazing number of actual resurrections from the dead here. Unless I saw the actual body then I wouldn’t believe anyone had died. She may well have been hiding in a cupboard while you were there.

    Oh and tying your hands together, this would have been tying you up so you couldn’t leave!
     
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    Haha laura2014 that cracked me up.
     
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    It's boring to be single but we do not have a partner at all costs. Perhaps best to set limits if you meet a new partner but it's not easy to know what is said about you if you do not understand the language would have been skeptical to find me a partner from a poor country because I'm almost sure that over half of both men and women marrying other nations have something they want to achieve. Cute words are one thing but the actions are another thing.
     
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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    Hello Kenji, even it looks like chaos you’re actually moving forward, out for good from him and his fake world. It’s normal you feel angry, thankfully you do not feel love wich guarantees you can’t be pulled back. Certainly best advice is no contact, was wondering if you need to investigate something if your soon to be sister in law could help, if he already divorced you or the proper procedure for you to follow avoiding the most to see the rat again. Xx
     
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    Yes I wish it was not automatically registered. I can honestly say that I will never return to Tunisia if I can help it.
     
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    I removed Facebook messenger, deactivated my Facebook and blocked on the phone. Tonight is my first night of blissful peace!
     
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    Do you know how to report him? X
     

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