Hi lovely ladies, I read this site and my mouth fell open several times cz of the horrible things people can do to another person! But it was also an eye opener for me. Now I have a burning question. I need to find out if a certain person is ratting on me but I am too scared to put his name out in the open here yet, cz he might be well reading this. Is there any other way, like a pm to certain members (who by the way are very good in digging up horrible details of persons I already saw!) to do some digging? I am still a bit in the stage of what if he is not lying, call it denial.But I don´t want to ruin somebody by posting his name in the open, if there is no reason, although I fear there i plenty of reason. I think he is lying, but I need comfirmation.I did some searching myself, but can only find one fb profile, several instagram accounts and a skype account all under the name I know and with nothing really strange things on it. So is there a way to help?