How to find out if some one is ratting on me

Discussion in 'Rat on a Rat' started by mira, Dec 26, 2018.

  1. Jisela

    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    Again, I'm not saying ALL Tunisian rats will be like this... but there are definitely SOME... and there's definitely some cultural and religious sentiments in North Africa that are unique to this part of the world, and the Middle East (for instance seeing democratic women as Kaffir), and you need to understand those things when talking about Tunisian relationships, as well as Tunisian bezness. These things influence each other. Regardless if you are comfortable speaking about it, it's part of the problem - as well as other unaddressed issues.

    My rat was NOT like this when I met him. He had nothing on his page that would indicate he would be violently political and religious. That was revealed to me only after I arrived in Tunisia... more after the marriage.
     
  2. Judithlyn

    Judithlyn Well-Known Member

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    They can play charades for years, literally! Then you slowly start seeing the REAL them! They have so many secrets! They can lie while swearing on their Mother’s lives that they are telling the truth! They will invite you into their homes... parents, brothers, and sisters will treat you like a queen....just like the foreigner last month who visited that same home and others before her. They are a unique, weird, mentally ill bunch of delinquents! Word is slowly getting out to watch out for these master bezness con artists who are prominent in Tunisia, Egypt, Turkey, Algeria, and Morocco. Always be leery of men from these countries! Their culture does not permit them to meet a woman for serious forever love on the internet. Meet one on the internet and redflags should go up! The pain is not worth it! The financial cost is not worth it! They are actually dirt poor, lazy, lying, cheating con artists! What do they have to offer a nice woman? Absolutely NOTHING!!!
     
  3. Jisela

    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    Cheers to survivors of Tunisian bezness! They come in all shapes, kinds, and sizes!
     
  4. Mystery

    Mystery Well-Known Member

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    I said most of us would know the difference between a radical muslim to a rent boy rat.
    Firstly we are here because we know we caught a rat. I for one would know if someone was ranting extremism or begging for money.
    While you seem to got yourself a crazier Quran basher. I got myself a little rent boy who flash his dick to anyone, beg for money ECT and don't give a shit about Islam.
    He's Haram his face is Haram. The last time I saw my rats FB it was porn sites, dating sites and white women looking for black men. And 2k women added.
    I can see the difference now to your radical terrorist rat.
     
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  5. Jisela

    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    Well, my rat did some similar things as yours. He added lots and lots of women to his Facebook page, I found this out later. And, almost none of the women here knew what they were in for beforehand. So, I think there's a range here for Tunisian bezness, is the point. My rat did not announce his extremism, beforehand. So, I don't know if you mean to exclude me from some "intelligent group" of victims - or is it just easy to say that a lot of these men will not tell you what they are going to do once they acquire the visa and enter your country?
     
  6. Mystery

    Mystery Well-Known Member

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    How can they tell you anything before hand.
    That would be like putting they hand in the fire and admitting they are nothing but lying rats.
    The game would be up much sooner.
    The most important thing we found out, maybe later but we found them. We stopped them and now we can try stop them doing it to others.
     
  7. Jisela

    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    I hope so. :sick:
     
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  8. Jisela

    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    All Tunisian bezness leads to destruction for women. In that, it's completely similar. I hope that talking about this topic will help put more fear into potential victims, because a lot of women honestly don't know the risks in having relationships with Tunisian men online. They are completely blind.
     
  9. Heidi

    Heidi The Sleuth

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    :)
     
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    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    hehehe
     
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    Ok before I get shouted at and put down about these pictures.
    I will say what I see from my eyes only.
    So before I start I don't know your rat jisela if he's a radical or not you know him better than anyone.
    I believe what you say about ratty radical.
    The pics on the left it's the Qur'an, then I see mecca, I read Allah, the pic of a man with facial hair. A muslim man should not shave and wear a beared. I see save palistine which many of us sympathise with. On the left I see starving men dying and a Christmas tree. For me it is showing while Christians are rich and living a good life others are dying from hunger. Is your rat a muslim yes is he radical probably.
    What I see is a jealous rat of western countries.
    Is he dangerous yes his jealousy makes him dangerous would I run of course my flip flops would be on fire.
    But most rats got the same idea western countries got it all money, freedom and a easy life. What they dumb brains don't tell them you need work fot everything. Not stay on your ass scamming women for Adidas clothes money a range rover and big house.
     
  12. Going for the limit

    Going for the limit Well-Known Member

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    I agree to be honest i dont see anything other than the quran.
    Its nothing that most muslims wont have on facebook or even hanging on the walls in the house.
    I know really religious people can be hard to chew and especially if it is a different religion.
    Religious people are over bearing in any form from how i feel.
    No one has ever tried to get me to convert but i have read the quran just so i knew a little about it.
    The hubbys parents are religious and to be honest i feel religion has literally took over their life but doesnt mean they are terrorists.
    Terrorism and rats are total opposite end of the scale and if a rat is a terrorist or suspected to be then he should be reported
     
  13. Mystery

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    I have the Qur'an, I have plates hanging on my wall. I don't see that I'm a terrorist or radical.
    I am Muslim, maybe a naughty one on times but that's just me. I am here for rats and what they do to us. I leave the terrorists to the right people.
    I'm fighting my own war on rats. :eek:
     
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    I don't believe for one moment that was the actual intent....I never have done.....but that doesn't take away from the fact that such blase words minimise the effects of rat damage for readers, whether they've had a rat or not.
    We get a lot of potential rat victims read here, it's important they understand rat damage in all its many forms...they should not be handed tools to excuse rat behaviour by reading 'Oh, it happens in Western countries too'.
    The fact is, bezness is different.
    Rat damage should never be minimised, whether a victim was physically assaulted or not. The mental damage is the same, the recovery (with the exception of duration) is the same.....and it is not so straightforward for victims to recover as to say "Life goes on, get over it" blah blah.....I only wish it were that simple....for all of us.
    Exactly my point.....which is why I added my own words after reading Masha's.
    Whether physical abuse took place or not, whether blackmail and threats took place or not, whether marriage and children play a role or not....the shocking level of deception is the same, the upset, hurt and betrayal felt by us is the same, the shock and disbelief are the same, the hell of cold turkey is the same.
    Rat damage, in all its many forms, is not something we can possibly recover from overnight because 'Tomorrow is another day, life is too short' etc....healing takes time.
    Were healing as simple as Masha's words imply.....none of us would be here on the forum.
     
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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    I don’t have certainty about this subject, my rat have this dark little issue at times. Liking dogs fights, saying very violent things that seem like torture, smiling like stupid, crazy eyes lost in ideas, he also follows these banned preachers. What I think is he is definitely crazy some goats jumped out of the fence but if he was truly brave he would have joined them (isis) long ago instead of crying for money faking problems or setting his sisters as a bait. I think he is the biggest coward living with mommy cause it’s comfortable and he defends that ideology of hate from the comfort of his cell phone but if indeed he were in the situation of “sacrifice “ his life he wouldn’t do cause he is a sissy. Brave and violent with women but not to get to Isis. He prefers to bake cakes and cookies :Evil: But yes, there have been rats that use foreign women to undercover their presence in other countries and commit terrorist attacks.
     
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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    I would like to say that also because the horrible guy Khaled that mirrored this site and harassed victims has that frequent say: “get over it, it didn’t work you don’t have to talk about it, go home and get over it. Like the goal is to bare it alone, don’t speak, nothing happened, you all women have had previous relationships and haven’t made a big problem about it. It’s only against Tunisians”... the guy doesn’t undertstand the point, it isn’t to get sympathy that we speak but to open eyes to other victims and to let them know this is abuse, you are not alone we went through it at different stages we believe you and support you.
     
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    Radical activists and terrorists can hide in plain site. They can hide from the family they live with and those they work with. They can keep secrets well, and so can a rat. They can be a rat. Getting caught by this type of rat has nothing to do with your intelligence. He played your heart just like my rat played mine. It’s an emotional thing and we all fell for it, because we had trust.
    We are all intelligent and kind and giving people. We are the kind of people the rats seek out.
     
  18. Mystery

    Mystery Well-Known Member

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    We have pure hearts brought up to know right from wrong.
    We don't play games with our feelings.
    We understand love compassion and most of all we been brought up respectable.
     
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    Brasilgirl Well-Known Member

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    Yes. And this is the type of person the rat has trained himself to con. His tricks don’t work on everyone. This is why he will carefully pick his victims. If you don’t fit and he doesn’t think he can con you, he’ll move on and choose someone else. If you’ve been conned before or are vulnerable, then you are the shiny diamond. When you get past the smoke and mirrors you can see how the rat works. They all slip at some point and the smoke eventually clears enough for us to see behind the scenes.

    It took me months to beleive that what I saw through the smoke was real and the rest was a scam. His facade was riddled with little truths here and there making it hard to see through it all. I was definatly not his first victim, and I know I’m not his last. He kept his plate full, like a master rat.
    The truth hurt so much. It still hurts and probably will for a long time yet.
     
  20. Jisela

    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    I’m not concerned with anyone’s opinion on my rat. If I tell you he’s preaching Islam and abused me over Islam, and wanted to take over the world with Islam, and lied to me about Islam, and wished death and hell on my family, and was a psychopath, and all women here say that this guy is just a normal religious guy.... and there’s no issue with Terrorists in Tunisia... then you ladies are too blind and brainwashed to reason with - you’re also preferential to deny terrorism exists in this country, that the young men harbor radical ideology, and that for some rats it’s not just bezness.
     
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    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    It’s also incredibly disrespectful in my situation to hear such defense over a man who tried to destroy my life. So, I will remember this in the future and be more empathetic towards women suffering from men who are radicals. You women won’t be any helpful with that, but that’s ok because there’s lots of different people in the world.
     
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    100 % right
    It will take time but time we have. Rats don't have that much time to bag a victim.
    They get to over confident and blow they chance.
    Let face it they not that inteligent.
    We could have 1000 of fake fb just like them, but we are way smarter. We don't just change small parts of our names. We wouldn't post our real pics and we certainly wouldn't use the same phone numbers.
    Rats live a hard life, trying to remember what they said to each one. They can't really multi task either. I remember mine with more than 1 messenger open and he wrote to me ( yes I miss see you titties ). Hahaha I think at that point he shit himself.
    The trap is closing in on them, we will get the last laugh and walk away head held high with our middle fingers up.
    We will conquer this and show them all don't mess with us women.
    We are actually stronger than they are mind and body :D:p
     
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    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    I did report him. He was happy when French died, British died, Jews died, etc. You want to say my rat is normal Islamic religion? Ok, I’ll take your word for it because this rat was off the hook violent, deceptive and crazy. If that’s the norm of Islam, I’ll take it from you :)
     
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    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    I remember visiting Carthage with him, and my first real shocks were discovering this jerks hatred towards the French and him wishing death on them. Next came the British, Americans and the Jews.
     
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    No one is saying that jisela but we saw was not terrorist activity or spreading hate.
    Of course your hubby is religious so there fore preaching the quran.
    I have friends on facebook who are christian and catholic. They all share things that is relevant to them.
    No one doubts you but terrorists and rats are polls apart.
    I couldnt call someone a nazi just because they are german.
    If you have evidance of him being radicalised then report him.
     

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