Again, I'm not saying ALL Tunisian rats will be like this... but there are definitely SOME... and there's definitely some cultural and religious sentiments in North Africa that are unique to this part of the world, and the Middle East (for instance seeing democratic women as Kaffir), and you need to understand those things when talking about Tunisian relationships, as well as Tunisian bezness. These things influence each other. Regardless if you are comfortable speaking about it, it's part of the problem - as well as other unaddressed issues. My rat was NOT like this when I met him. He had nothing on his page that would indicate he would be violently political and religious. That was revealed to me only after I arrived in Tunisia... more after the marriage.