Where is she from? Sounds legit not even divorced and has a new one. He’s pig shitI hope no one would. My goodness. This guy was awful. I still have to divorce him, too... which just makes me even more tired, because it upsets me so much. He's also found his new bride. It's a lot to process.
Haha, Masha....I knew your intent was healthy, it was just worded badlyOh no...what a failure. I thought my comments would be uplifting in the effort to reduce the precious time ahead after the rat experience. I must revise my writing skills.
Can you just let him do the divorce and leave it be? Let him pay for it. He will do it so he can marry his next victim.I hope no one would. My goodness. This guy was awful. I still have to divorce him, too... which just makes me even more tired, because it upsets me so much. He's also found his new bride. It's a lot to process.
He can have his dreams. But after you report him to the Canada and US imigrations, it will be only a dream for him. And his terrorist connections should get him on the no fly list.One lady was from Saudi Arabia, but the "stable woman" looks like she's from Indonesia. I honestly don't think he'll stay with her because I think he still will come around and focus on Europe or Canada, again. He has dreams of taking over the world and establishing a caliphate and all the other economical stuff, too.
He can marry but having legal residence is other story. That background is flagged. He will be rejected.Not to be big details, but the agents in my country were really thorough and I know will address all of those things. I wonder if he could still marry in Europe though.
Would be useful in the gallery for further victims. And to let know he is flagged.
This does make sense, and psychologically, it will be a massive weight off your shoulders to have this direct tie to him severed, but speaking from my own experiences, it will not take away your anger, nor your feelings of being violated and dirty.I can let him worry about the divorce, but having that connection to him still makes me really angry, violated, and feel dirty.
I agree with AmberHeart: Marry, yes; Emigrate, no.I wonder if he could still marry in Europe though.
Just remember, you married someone else. He was not being the same person to you when you fell in love with him. You should not feel ashamed. This is not something you did wrong.I can let him worry about the divorce, but having that connection to him still makes me really angry, violated, and feel dirty. It's like I'm stuck thinking that I need to rush through divorcing him so his poison and pain stops affecting me, but I know that the divorce won't guarantee a clean slate emotionally either. I'm ashamed to be married to this guy, he was and is so terrible. I do think letting him be responsible for the divorce is correct. But, the idea of him coming back around, asking me about it, or anything else, or even saying a single word, makes me feel wild and all sorts of angry. It's disgusting what he did and the reasons why.
This is the regular way for all of us. I was ok I Can accept insistence of converting cause I saw him kind at first, nothing alarming. And assuming we would spend years in his country where I knew no one nor the language. Practically depending on him except financially lolWithout offending anyone i would boil my head if the hubby became religious .
I love to party, i love to.drink and no one will change that. As long as i dont hurt or steal etc from anyone then i live how i want.
that is scary. I am so glad you made it home, away from him.Well, it was his racism, anger, and him directly telling me that he wanted to convert others to Islam... threatening to divorce me over Islam. Also, he was on websites that promoted "taking over America" with Islam... he said he would work for gangs or related gang activity. He was constantly thinking about how to start groups, network, and basically dominate with Islam... he said he wanted to kill a man, would want to join military groups there especially in Syria or Palestine. It was 24-7 of being berated over politics and religion. Plus, the contacts he made, his violence towards me. He wanted to have children fast, and wanted to separate our children from my family. He sent videos of women covering themselves as in Saudi Arabia to my sister - condemning women who wore makeup. There's a lot of stuff that I kept in document form, plus screenshots, and forgive me but it's difficult to recall all the details now. But, basically, everything that I experienced was radical Islam and everything he did or said he wanted to do lingered around these topics and radicalism. He also simultaneously saw himself as a "bringer of peace."
So did mine. There are pics on here somewhere of his Swastika's. He claimed Hitler was their friend, despite my showing him that Hitler referred to them as "Dirty monkeys" or something similarHe idealized Hitler, too.
And mine kinda did this too. He discovered my little sis is Jewish (different mother), so Googled every known family name, to ensure I had no Jewish blood running through my veins. Aren't they vile creatures?Plus he demeaned me for having Jewish ancestry.
Please don't! We need you on the forum!Without offending anyone i would boil my head if the hubby became religious .
Ya.....that's where he would have depended on youPractically depending on him except financially lol