I NEED YOUR HELP!!!

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  1. Katiaaa002

    Katiaaa002 Member

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    Hello everyone!

    It has been a few months that I registered on this website but this is my first post ever!
    Okay, so here is my question: did anyone of you stay at the Carribean World in Djerba / Lookea Playa Djerba during the spring 2016 (April/May/June)? Or maybe one of you goes there pretty often?
    If anyone stayed there at that period or visits this hotel frequently, please let me know!
    It would really help me concerning my rat's issue!

    Have a lovely evening ladies! :)
     
  2. Heidi

    Heidi The Sleuth

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    Hi dear and welcome :) I´m a bit confused. Do you think we need to know your rat personally to help you ?
     
  3. Katiaaa002

    Katiaaa002 Member

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    Hey!
    I am sorry for not really introducing myself...!
    I stopped talking to my rat. But the thing is that I have never found anything about him on any social media or websites such like this one. However, I heard a lot about him and his behaviour. This hotel is the only clue that I have and by this post, I wanted to know if someone had stayed there at the same period he used to work...
    If you have any question, please feel free to ask me! I can understand this post may be a little confusing!
     
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    Heidi The Sleuth

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    It would be helpful to know his name, his nickname and the kind of job he has at the hotel and of course a picture
     
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  5. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    I've never been there, but the Caribbean World hotels in Tunisia and Morocco are completely rat infested. If you want any detective work done on this rat, we'll need more detail.
     
  6. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Great minds :D
     
  7. see clearly

    see clearly Well-Known Member

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    Ive never been there but heard bad stuff on this forum about the place. The money will increase or if not the pressure to marry. It is rare I think so so very rare but like a lot of us we took the chance and really wished we hadn't. Just don't judge her support her don't let her get alienated from you . Show her this website . I wish you all the best I'm 20,000£ down feel very silly but still came through although poorer and psychologically damaged but ok but I never married or had kids . I was intimidated drugged and abused but this is mild compared to some best advice get new sim , block on computer Ignore and forget if she can hugs cxxx
     
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    see clearly Well-Known Member

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    Not all rats rare outed on here either can still be a rat even if not in gallery. Mine isn't but for good reason I don't put him there
     
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  9. Katiaaa002

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    Hey girls!
    First of all, thank you for your answers. Here is about me: I stayed in touch for 3 years with my rat. The first year of the relation, I did not see any rat behaviour: he did not ask me anything (money/presents/mobile/...), did not talk about marriage or babies or anything. He did not talk about me to his family or introduced me to them. But then he started changing and I got worried. Last year was terrible though. He had everything of the rat behaviour and I tried to search on forums or websites like TLR but I never found him ANYWHERE! Hopefully for me, I stopped the relation early enough: I did not get married or spend a lot of money for him and his family. But it did hurt as we stayed in touch for 3 years and I could see, powerless, his behaviour changing as the years went by... He had become more aggressive and mean and as I was trying to defend myself everytime, I guess he was angry to see I wasn't 100% obeying to everything he could tell me!
    He worked in this hotel for a short period of time. He was an animator. God, I got so disappointed when he told me this. I was really against that... I even told him it was over between us if he ever enterred an animation team but then he told me to wait and blablabla... But he left really quick (and I have to say I was happy about that). I heard a lot of bad stuffs about that hotel and I saw some photos of him with girls and tourists and it got me sick. He went online only 10 minutes per day (max 30 minutes) and sometimes did not log in for 4 days in a row, while I was super sad, waiting for him to give me some news! I have always wanted to ask one of them (tourists) but I never dared to as I was scared he would know afterwards...
    As I can see this forum is really popular, this is why I allowed myself posting here so maybe someone stayed there or know the animation team. One of his family member works there and I think he had a bad influence on him...
    I do not really want to give his name here to be honest as I am scared to be identified... :oops:

    By the way, I had a question! While dating your rats: what was his opinion about your clothes or the way you were going out? Did they like the fact you were wearing shorts, skirts, tank tops, bikinis... Did they want you to be pretty when you were out?
    Have a great day! xxx
     
  10. Heidi

    Heidi The Sleuth

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    The only rat I know who worked at Caribbean World Palma Djerba is Hmida Taieb who is a big, fat rat.

    http://www.tunisianloverats.com/threads/club-med-djerba-la-douce-hmida-taieb-back-in-work.3616/

    May I ask why you want to know about your rat, since you are finished with him and you don´t want to out him here :):)
     
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    A clever fraudster will try to cover their tracks as best they can. They are profesjonal in their field and will do anything not to be discovered. They know about the pages that TLR and will try new methods to conceal their game Do not think that they strike right away but that they look carefully at their victim first before showing a sign if they do it.
     
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  12. Star USA

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    Hi,
    Not every rat already appears in TLR.
    Mine wasn't when I first came here.
    Someone needs to come here and to show their true faces in order that other potential victims could be warned.
    I hope that you will get your answer soon.
     
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  13. Katiaaa002

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    Dear Heidi,
    I wanted to post this for a long time but I was scared to be identified. I gave up officially but last time someone asked me if we were still together and started asking me a lot of questions and told me again about this hotel and the girls there, and that I should maybe ask about this on a forum. So as I was with a friend, and after talking about it (because I did not know if it worthed it as I am over with that jerk) I posted it. I could see how he truly behaved there. If I have no answer, it is not the end of the world as I am done with him but I just tried!
    They are all rats in there anyway...! Anyway, I hope I did not bother with my post...!
     
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  14. Heidi

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    Of course you did not bother me, dear :) I was just curious ;) without a rat name, it´s not possible to indentify him :(
     
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  15. Star USA

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    You could ask one of the girls that you trust here on a private messages and to mention his name. That way they might help you more. It will not appear on the forum and you could feel safe.
    I can understand that you want to keep your identity a secret.
     
  16. Heidi

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    Is he in this video ?

    caribbean world djerba 2016. boys

     
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  17. Heidi

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    I kind of like this one :D

    Caribbean world Djerba - Published on 1 Dec 2014

     
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    Pmsl :p:D:sneaky:
     
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  19. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Haha, now there's a question! For the first year, I was allowed to wear whatever I liked, but bearing in mind I was in a Muslim country, I stayed respectable anyway, especially because I wasn't in a tourist area. After that first year, wow...did things change!! I had to put on a fashion show if I was allowed out. No back or chest exposed, three quarter or longer length trousers legs and shirt sleeves. It was a nightmare, it reached the point whereby I was basically having to rotate the same few acceptable outfits daily, even though I had many items of clothing with me. I think if he had his way, I'd have been dressed in a burka! He did like it when I my hair nice and put on some eyeliner. My rat did not ask me for money or gifts either. The decline in your rats behaviour, from happy, adoring and nice, to angry, volatile, jealous and anti social is typical rat behaviour, they all seem to follow the same pattern.

    You haven't bothered anybody, you're a welcome member and we're all pleased you're here :) I can understand your want for anonymity, but bear Star's words in mind when you leave him unnamed, not all rats are named here, with a name, it's possible that somebody knows him and PM's are always an option for those members that are nervous :) My rat was unheard of, as was Star's...somebody always needs to set the ball rolling before these rats become regularly outted
     
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    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Oh my God, this is brilliant!! :D:D:D
     
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    I find it an amusing question about the clothes . If you really want to know at least with me , well I dress fairly conservative it was cold when I went trousers were the norm but my choice sometimes leggings and or a sexy dress with thick black tights it was cold anyway. I never had boobies hanging out I have my own quietly sexy style I suppose. One day I wore a beautiful dress on the beach with no tights no shawl etc it was a beautiful dress not so short but still very pretty and I knew it I had a bit of a tan my hair looked great my makeup great I felt good . He even said you looked nice in your dress you always wear trousers ( like it was a shame). But by then too much had happened bad things but I hope the dress will be remembered. A lot of the time he ran around trying to cover me up with something but not a lot. The area and ambience was that I was in rat land they all drank etc I sat with him in bars restaurants in quite sexy dresses no one minded. A lot of the time it was so cold anyway when I went in the evening a shawl or tights leggings was necessary anyway. I don't think clothes really come into it in rat land everyone knows what's going on even if they don't say. Even Tunisians wore clingy dresses sexy clothes not the burka you see on the street. People in uk I found wore head to toe and face veil more than the places I went to in Tunisia. It's all hypocrisy and double standards and means nothing. Hope that helps !
     
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    see clearly Well-Known Member

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    Hilarious
     
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    see clearly Well-Known Member

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    Not exactly any special dancing that was it !
     
  24. Heidi

    Heidi The Sleuth

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    I usually put my foot in it :D
    In Tunisia I visited the parents of my ex rat and was scolded by him for wearing red pants. He said that they are supposed to be for weddings.
    In Marocco I bought beautyful white pants and was politely escorted by the head waiter of my hotel to the farthest table in the dining room. Those pants were looked at as underpants in Marocco
     
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    Ridiculous how we're you supposed to know! I suspect just a tactic to undermine your confidence possibly, his he still an ex,? Imagine your life if you continued with this ridiculous unknown dress standards, I never heard of it
     
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