Discussion in 'Rat on a Rat' started by Katiaaa002, Apr 7, 2017.
It looks really modern and nice....you earned that, girl...you deserve it! Thank God ratty didn't take everything from you
Thanks it was a blessing to find this place so cheap. Hope ur doing ok . I'm back at work now pain gone yey! Maybe can start getting my life together again! Cxxxx thanks again for all your support on this site I'm always here now or future if you need me xx
One step at a time - you seem to be doing ok. House looks lovely - finances will improve now you are back working. Onwards and upwards. Thank God you did not lose everything. The rats are the losers. Take care.
Yeah it's hard not to blame myself. They are such scum to do what they do .
Emotions do not go over night and it's hard to forget sometimes but it's important to keep in mind one thing. It's not right to spend a man and if he can not help you with the economy, he's nothing to collect. There is no excuse for his behavior and if he is lying once, where is the trust of him then.
I don't know if you understand the intense love for these rats. They have some way of making you love them in a way that you have never felt about anybody else that you've loved. It's intense, it's deep, you'd die for them and you don't know how it happened or where it came from. It's not as easy as relationships with people of your own culture or nationality where you say "oh well it's over time to move on" it's the strangest deepest sort of love that you don't even understand yourself but it messes with your head.
Yes I would love a man to help with the money it's all on my back and my back is breaking
Really well worded, they become an addiction, almost an obsession because of the lovebombing, the thorough brainwashing. That's why the cold turkey recovery process is so hard, it's like weaning yourself off a drug. It's sick in the head how they manipulate us this way for greed. My first boyfriend was American, my second Irish, my husband English....and then there was Houssem....it was so different to the others. My other exes are all still my friends, but Houssem...he has no place in my life anymore, I have no room in my life for somebody that stole my me, my sanity, my health etc. The only way Houssem stays in my life now....and it's my choice, is by my determination to keep warning other innocent people of this vile scam, to use my own experiences to help others. Evil trash, they never deserved any of us good, honest, decent, loving women
Of course, it is important to warn women against these scams and it is up to each individual whether they will accept the warnings or not. We try to get the best but some can not see that they are being exploited. Nobody needs to be exploited but these men have too much power over them. It's sad when he / she does not see which way it leads and expensive it also thinks so much money they throw out the window of fake love by paying double for everything.
My friends tried to tell me he was no good and to walk away for my own sake but I was so wrapped up in him and felt like he genuinely cared that I didn't listen. Plus he was always good at telling me they were wrong and jealous and it was me and him against the world.
When you read here more, you will find out that all the rats say that
That's a common theme. It's never them, always someone else doing something bad to them.
Christ, heard this line a few times from Houssem! Liars, jealous, trying to split us up, me and you against the world, Stoopid!! After he'd killed my kids, it was to be just me and him....living illegally in Europe! These rats don't half come out with some crackers
They say love is blind and it is true
Ups, I did it again
Ah shit.....just watched this again....I'd forgotten it
Literally crying....my neck hurts
I can imagine their face...«this girl came in underwear :O »
Being with a rat who is not helpful to explain things and is trying to exploit you is the worst kind of experience for anyone on earth.