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Suzisue

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I bought into the idea of a chilled life in the sun with a tall , dark , handsome man . He was strong and ,happy in his own skin, he said Allah had sent me to him. I could and did want to love and respect his Islamic values. I paid to build a house, I would retire there and live a quiet, idilic life with my darling.......
....,,,,,...40k later I wake up and smell, not the coffee but the realisation that I am a cash cow and there is no dream life, only a charming handsome, callous and above all greedy individual who has no feelings for me. A man who from the start was out to take every last dinar he could get from me.
Hey, Suzisue...welcome :)
40k!!!!! Holy freakin crap....40k?!!!! I could cry for you :Cry:
What on earth did he do with all that money?
Onwards and upwards, girl.....you've seen the light...at least it won't be 50k....and you are more important than money :)
 

AmberHeart

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I bought into the idea of a chilled life in the sun with a tall , dark , handsome man . He was strong and ,happy in his own skin, he said Allah had sent me to him. I could and did want to love and respect his Islamic values. I paid to build a house, I would retire there and live a quiet, idilic life with my darling.......
....,,,,,...40k later I wake up and smell, not the coffee but the realisation that I am a cash cow and there is no dream life, only a charming handsome, callous and above all greedy individual who has no feelings for me. A man who from the start was out to take every last dinar he could get from me.
Painful.
 

Liona

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I bought into the idea of a chilled life in the sun with a tall , dark , handsome man . He was strong and ,happy in his own skin, he said Allah had sent me to him. I could and did want to love and respect his Islamic values. I paid to build a house, I would retire there and live a quiet, idilic life with my darling.......
....,,,,,...40k later I wake up and smell, not the coffee but the realisation that I am a cash cow and there is no dream life, only a charming handsome, callous and above all greedy individual who has no feelings for me. A man who from the start was out to take every last dinar he could get from me.
Welcome Suzisue!
Nice to hear you have perfect nose what saved you the mental health and the money.
But what a greedy and shameless your rat is indeed.
Or..did you spend these 40 k on him?
 

Mango Chutney

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I still cannot be at peace until I hear from him each day although I know he is using me.

How sad is that ?
How long were you with him for, Suzi? You cannot just detach overnight, your feelings were real, so don't be too hard on yourself :love:
Cold turkey is really difficult, but ultimately, you will have to do it....it's the only way to recover.
Were you married to him?
And the housebuild....is it complete?
 

Suzisue

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The 40 k was to build a house, it was extra for the iPhone, the clothes , the accommodation and money for petrol( benzene) to go any where in his car . The house is built but the latest scam was , the water is not connected that is another 5k but in the mean time I had to payfor a filthy Appartment, where he was in collusion with the caretaker to take me for rent for it too. The greed has no bounds .
 

Laura2014

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The 40 k was to build a house, it was extra for the iPhone, the clothes , the accommodation and money for petrol( benzene) to go any where in his car . The house is built but the latest scam was , the water is not connected that is another 5k but in the mean time I had to payfor a filthy Appartment, where he was in collusion with the caretaker to take me for rent for it too. The greed has no bounds .
I hope the house is entirely in your name and protected. Foreigners were not allowed to own property in Tunisia outright only as a partnership (maybe that has changed). So you kept him? How long for and where are you now?
 

Mango Chutney

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The 40 k was to build a house, it was extra for the iPhone, the clothes , the accommodation and money for petrol( benzene) to go any where in his car . The house is built but the latest scam was , the water is not connected that is another 5k but in the mean time I had to payfor a filthy Appartment, where he was in collusion with the caretaker to take me for rent for it too. The greed has no bounds .
Just beggars belief, doesn't it :Evil:
Gets my back up how many are involved in each individual scam.....whole families, landlords, shop staff etc....all lining their pockets at our expense :Evil:
Who lives in the house now? Is it habitable?
If the build is not complete, I guess he still needs money....do you still send him money?
Is he still in Tunisia?
 

Judithlyn

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I bought into the idea of a chilled life in the sun with a tall , dark , handsome man . He was strong and ,happy in his own skin, he said Allah had sent me to him. I could and did want to love and respect his Islamic values. I paid to build a house, I would retire there and live a quiet, idilic life with my darling.......
....,,,,,...40k later I wake up and smell, not the coffee but the realisation that I am a cash cow and there is no dream life, only a charming handsome, callous and above all greedy individual who has no feelings for me. A man who from the start was out to take every last dinar he could get from me.
Oh my sweet friend, I so see the light! I lost $26,000 to my rat, Abdelhak Rahali! They are evil, spineless, cruel, inhumane, and gay monsters! Stay here! You are among friends who understand! It hurts so bad! How long were you with him! I was with Abdelhak for 3 and 1/2 years! That idiot fool cheated from my house using the locked bathroom door! Idiot!
 

Laura2014

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I have no more money to give and no heart to give it.
It truly breaks my heart to hear this again and again. You are not alone here. Over the years I’ve been on this site I’ve met many who like you have lost life changing amounts of money to these vermin.

How did you find this site?

Be very careful of a fake Facebook site with Tunisians spelt with an s at the end. Don’t post anything there.
 
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