Discussion in 'Rat on a Rat' started by Suzisue, Nov 30, 2018.
40k later, I see the light
Hi Suzisue welcome to TLR
We all know that feeling all to well.
I'm sorry that a rat as taken so much from you.
We all lost so much to these monsters.
40k!!!!! Holy freakin crap....40k?!!!! I could cry for you
What on earth did he do with all that money?
Onwards and upwards, girl.....you've seen the light...at least it won't be 50k....and you are more important than money
Oh Suzisue! Freaking rat. So sorry you went through it but good to have you here. Big hug!
I bought into the idea of a chilled life in the sun with a tall , dark , handsome man . He was strong and ,happy in his own skin, he said Allah had sent me to him. I could and did want to love and respect his Islamic values. I paid to build a house, I would retire there and live a quiet, idilic life with my darling.......
....,,,,,...40k later I wake up and smell, not the coffee but the realisation that I am a cash cow and there is no dream life, only a charming handsome, callous and above all greedy individual who has no feelings for me. A man who from the start was out to take every last dinar he could get from me.
Nice to hear you have perfect nose what saved you the mental health and the money.
But what a greedy and shameless your rat is indeed.
Or..did you spend these 40 k on him?
I still cannot be at peace until I hear from him each day although I know he is using me.
How sad is that ?
Love bombing and addiction to his words and attention. It’s a step forward that you can indentify it. He worked hard to make you this close and Into him. :/
How long were you with him for, Suzi? You cannot just detach overnight, your feelings were real, so don't be too hard on yourself
Cold turkey is really difficult, but ultimately, you will have to do it....it's the only way to recover.
Were you married to him?
And the housebuild....is it complete?
Yikes! Greedy little shites and I bet it still wasn’t enough. Welcome, it’s free to be here and you are amongst kindred souls.
The 40 k was to build a house, it was extra for the iPhone, the clothes , the accommodation and money for petrol( benzene) to go any where in his car . The house is built but the latest scam was , the water is not connected that is another 5k but in the mean time I had to payfor a filthy Appartment, where he was in collusion with the caretaker to take me for rent for it too. The greed has no bounds .
I hope the house is entirely in your name and protected. Foreigners were not allowed to own property in Tunisia outright only as a partnership (maybe that has changed). So you kept him? How long for and where are you now?
I tried to put a photo of the house but it says the file is too big
I am in the U.K..
Just beggars belief, doesn't it
Gets my back up how many are involved in each individual scam.....whole families, landlords, shop staff etc....all lining their pockets at our expense
Who lives in the house now? Is it habitable?
If the build is not complete, I guess he still needs money....do you still send him money?
Is he still in Tunisia?
I have proof of the bank transfers to his account for the money I sent, that is all
How about a photo of your rat you have to make the pictures smaller. 600 is ok
He will say it was a gift
He is happy in Tunisia. The house is there, empty as far as I know. No water as the excuse to keep me paying and giving him additional income for the grotty Appartment his friend has access to
Oh my sweet friend, I so see the light! I lost $26,000 to my rat, Abdelhak Rahali! They are evil, spineless, cruel, inhumane, and gay monsters! Stay here! You are among friends who understand! It hurts so bad! How long were you with him! I was with Abdelhak for 3 and 1/2 years! That idiot fool cheated from my house using the locked bathroom door! Idiot!
So are you still giving him money?
I have no more money to give and no heart to give it.
It truly breaks my heart to hear this again and again. You are not alone here. Over the years I’ve been on this site I’ve met many who like you have lost life changing amounts of money to these vermin.
How did you find this site?
Be very careful of a fake Facebook site with Tunisians spelt with an s at the end. Don’t post anything there.
Good for you
Cutting off his supply is great....but he will need another victim now, to make up the loss of income....so when you feel strong enough, a name and face would be good
Are you married to him?