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Discussion in 'Rat on a Rat' started by Suzisue, Nov 30, 2018.

  1. Jisela

    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    I agree with RatSnatcher. This is a very logical and legal answer to solve this problem... renovation! You can insist that you have an amazing vision for a new home, completely build up the idea that you've had a sudden increase in funds, distract your rat with some other activity, and then "renovate" the property down to the foundation itself to start over... then, suddenly run out of money.

    Unfortunately, I'm getting the feeling like we need many, many more details from Suzisue so that we can understand her mentality better and suggest completely appropriate measures...
     
  2. Heidi

    Heidi The Sleuth

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    Yes, after the water is fixed, he will demand furniture and appliances, after that, money for the wedding, but not to you....
     
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  3. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    If Heidi buries the body....there ain't no need for trash...that corpse will never be seen again! :D
    Me too. I know we're laughing, but actually.....I'm so feckin angry :Evil:
    But I promise you.....I would not leave that damn house standing! Over my dead body would I let them just have it!
     
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  4. RatSnatcher

    RatSnatcher Well-Known Member

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    Agreed Heidi. He knew she could not own property there especially with them not being married. 40k to build an apartment in tunisia when the bricks are almost free. And the land was family owned. Thats suspcious. Unless he built it in Sidi Bou Said, Carthage, Tbarka. A very good area. And it's still not finished. Where that 40k went :rolleyes:

    Dang I feel horrible for her. 40k, some Tunisian dont even see that in a lifetime.
     
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  5. Heidi

    Heidi The Sleuth

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    @Suzisue, what is the name of this sorry excuse for a man and in which hotel does he work?
     
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  6. Jisela

    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    She can "finish" the house, just not in the way that was originally planned. But, heck, nothing about a relationship with a rat goes as originally planned. :love:
     
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  7. Heidi

    Heidi The Sleuth

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    I'm not heartless schmoll.gif

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  8. RatSnatcher

    RatSnatcher Well-Known Member

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    Yes. I would fly out there with a few family members and "renovate" it. With an offer of a few dinars, beer and a coupon to a Turkish bath, :D I'd have 10 bulldozers out there within a few minutes. :whistle:

    Renovation in progress.
     
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  9. Jisela

    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    Exactly :D
     
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  10. Mystery

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    I am in Tunisia on Monday,
    I can only suggest if anyone want to write a complaint send it to me in an email I can take it to the police on your behave. The first process is to make the complaint. The other thing is to contact the Tunisian embassy in London.
    The British embassy in Tunisia.
    I can get the complaint translated.
    I don't know what else I can suggest to help.
     
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    RatSnatcher Well-Known Member

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    Please please don't leave the site and NOT post him in the gallery Suzi. He has tasted that much money, he is well on his way to seeking out other victims. Do not lie down and take it. These ladies will help you. You are not alone. Please don't disappear.
     
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  12. Jisela

    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    I went through that whole phase of trying to salvage the dream... doesn't work because the whole relationship was built on evil... so, in my opinion, there's nothing to salvage or try to keep... especially to fight over in a legal battle with an dirty, lying rat.
     
  13. AmberHeart

    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    Maybe to keep confidential info on “file” with our trustable Sleuth, not on the gallery yet until she has legal advice. Do not delete his messages and explain every detail.
     
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    Screen shot every message. Everything that related to sending money for YOUR house. Promises that were made anything to show you believed you were in a genuine relationship and he planned a future with you.
     
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    Snap! Great minds...
     
  16. AmberHeart

    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    Act normal towards him so he doesn’t suspect anything and completely disappear. When was the last time you visited him? Did you actually saw the home advance or it could be a ghost one?
     
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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    Be very careful cause he could blackmail you, he will set on risk too much money, your money!! Don’t argue with him. Try to get more evidence from him in case you deleted previous evidence. Make him confess.:Ninja::Ninja::Ninja: Be wise then drown him:Evil:
     
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    Your not sad we have all been there but I suppose your sick hearing this but time a great healer but just take one day at a time tiny steps stay on here girls will help you out sending you an healing angel for your pain. God bless
     
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    We don't have a say. They tell you anything this will b for his bride foreigners can't buy land we have no say in it at all it all goes to them and they no this so anyone reading this if your charming Prince once you to buy land definitely a no no cos c once its built the ugly face will come up and then start treating u like shit cos is job is completed he got his house x
     
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    @Suzisue, they don’t generally stop at just a house if money is forthcoming. My rat thought I should buy him a car, a cafe, “just a little my love, for maybe 200k I can get nice coffee for us”. Just some jeans, perfume! Gifts for family.

    Have you had the usual tales of woe? Sick relatives, hospital medicines, mine apparently got mugged and lost thousands of dollars!!

    Please read my thread if it’s your first time here read this.
     
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  21. Mango Chutney

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    Hahahaha!!!!! He freakin wishes! What a dickhead :D
     
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    @Suzisue stick with us, we may jest a bit and mock the rats but we all realise how important this is to you. We have all been there in one way or another in varying degrees of misery. I’m glad you found us. I was lucky I didn’t lose any money, I’d found this site early and was forewarned, but I did still lose my sanity for a while. We never underestimate the trauma and misery. Let your story unfold and you will be amazed at how similar your experience is. That’s so important when you are feeling bereft, isolated and humiliated.
     
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    We need time to get the proper matches ordered! :p
     
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  24. Jisela

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    lolololol
     
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  25. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    I need to sleep.....I read that as machetes :eek::D:D
     

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