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i think mostly off Foreign do not know about the culture and before they know it they is in this bezness game it is why i think is dangerrous for us
I think that although your words are correct, people ARE now more aware. There will always be new victims, but with sites like this and the ones in other countries, the TV adverts and warnings on embassy pages and in travel agencies, people are now more aware. We are spreading the word well, I've put links to this site all over Twitter, on national newspapers online, I speak out to everyone, those are just my efforts, so with all our efforts combined, we are making progress. Wait til me and Laura get to the airport with our leaflets and tee shirts, haha, bezness will be destroyed :D Tunisia does need to make bezness a crime punishable by law, but for that to work, evidence is crucial. Bezness is having more of a damaging effect on Tunisia than terrorism, people just refuse to go there now, so Tunisia needs to deal with this problem fast. The countries economy is collapsing, they are living on foreign handouts that are putting them massively in debt. The fact is, they need to bring in every dinar they can to fix this mess, tourism is crucial....they need to stop burying their heads in the sand and fix this shit!!
 

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Iyes that is the problem .
Amira, you have singled out the one negative comment on my positive, fighting style, post :D We can never completely eliminate the problem, it is too far spread. What we can do is lessen the flow, by using our own experiences and the knowledge gained from them, to educate others. We must speak out....and I don't think we're doing too bad a job! In my mind, every one potential victim we educate and prevent suffering our hell, makes this battle worth it. For every new victim trapped by one of these rats, there could be ten more that would have been, but haven't.....because we're all putting the word out there in our own ways. This is my battle for life, I have made a conscious decision to turn my negative experience into a positive....by educating others! :)
 
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It is a good job this site exists . Without it we are blind. Even with it we can slowly go through the pain of removing the rose tinted glasses. I saw the site right in the beginning and thought nooooooooo... but a bit of it sowed a seed in me and it grew and eventually overpowered the rat. That and my growing financial crisis and depression and general negative effect on my life. It helps me to think that if he was just an unknown to me say for example like the ones you see on holiday harassing you for money or to go in their bars etc you would think no fuck off probably and see them a certain way. It helps me at least to think this way and not as the person or fake person I got to know. Also mine was a bit tricky in that he didn't work in Tunisia - load of bullshit about his mum being French ( she isnst by the way that lie changed when I asked - obviously he forgot lol ). This is maybe a clever ploy also - the meeting in another country thing . He did say once if you say your from Tunisia you get no where . I wondered what he meant by this in the early days as I wasn't aware but I know now what he means. Animation in other countries by Tunisians another way to meet and scam tourists. I don't think ive seen this on here so I thought id mention it.
 

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It is help women to read pages like this and save New victim from trouble but not all women is read on internet . I think some women who have boyfriends from countries like Tunisia they do not like to read pages like TLR that is the problem .
 

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It is help women to read pages like this and save New victim from trouble but not all women is read on internet . I think some women who have boyfriends from countries like Tunisia they do not like to read pages like TLR that is the problem .
A lot of women who have tunisian boyfriends just don't know about such a sites)). But little by little more and more women would know about this. With our assistanse as well.
 

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That's the spirit, @Liona!!! We can't be beaten by negativity, we can't let feelings of doom drag us down. We must be positive, spread the word, make other victims and potential victims aware!! Just one victim saved is success, more than that is mass victory! Most women do use the internet now, the women on this site over the years have done such a good job, that if you type in Tunisian, followed by any word, a link to this site will be in the list of options. I stumbled across it by accident, after Googling 'Tunisian culture', one member was looking on Google for a couscous recipe! It is up to us to keep the good work going. The other day, I typed in 'Tunisian male prostitute' to find a random pic.....I got put through to an album on this site....nearly peed me knickers with laughter! Members past have put the foundations in place....now we have to complete the building! Put links everywhere, use your voices, beat the bastard rats!
 

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That's the spirit, @Liona!!! We can't be beaten by negativity, we can't let feelings of doom drag us down. We must be positive, spread the word, make other victims and potential victims aware!! Just one victim saved is success, more than that is mass victory! Most women do use the internet now, the women on this site over the years have done such a good job, that if you type in Tunisian, followed by any word, a link to this site will be in the list of options. I stumbled across it by accident, after Googling 'Tunisian culture', one member was looking on Google for a couscous recipe! It is up to us to keep the good work going. The other day, I typed in 'Tunisian male prostitute' to find a random pic.....I got put through to an album on this site....nearly peed me knickers with laughter! Members past have put the foundations in place....now we have to complete the building! Put links everywhere, use your voices, beat the bastard rats!
It is help women to read pages like this and save New victim from trouble but not all women is read on internet . I think some women who have boyfriends from countries like Tunisia they do not like to read pages like TLR that is the problem .
Yes and also some women actually go there for sex or the "boyfriend experience". I sat next to a woman on the plane once who was going into it eyes wide open. She said best advice is to just use them . She was on her 2nd rat however the one prior had she admitted fleeced her. Was surprised she went back to it - but it sounded like she had changed her mind set as to how she viewed it now. There is still the safety issue though of violence death even and times are getting desperate.
 

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Yes and also some women actually go there for sex or the "boyfriend experience". I sat next to a woman on the plane once who was going into it eyes wide open. She said best advice is to just use them . She was on her 2nd rat however the one prior had she admitted fleeced her. Was surprised she went back to it - but it sounded like she had changed her mind set as to how she viewed it now. There is still the safety issue though of violence death even and times are getting desperate.
Well it is her life she knows he have a lot off girlsfriends just hope she dos not get be sick :(
 

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Well it is her life she knows he have a lot off girlsfriends just hope she dos not get be sick :(
I don't really communicate with her much anymore kind of just drifted apart really - but she was lovely to me on the plane cos I was upset and confused. Yes one hope she take precautions but I imagine she would.
 

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I was upset and confused.
Tunisian men is not good but i think is best for us women to stay far away from moslim men it is not only talk about Tunisia but also another countries they have different life set and will not understand us and is impossible to trust them lie about any thing but if a women is thinking same like her you meet on air plane yes Accept a holiday romance but not put Ours life in these guys becaurse really they is only make us upset and is take long time before we is understand them thinking if we will understand it . It is hard to understand that they is live on to scam women for Money and they is not alone about it !!But see clearly we learn off Ours faul and is a lesson for the life . I hope you is fine now
 

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Tunisian men is not good but i think is best for us women to stay far away from moslim men it is not only talk about Tunisia but also another countries they have different life set and will not understand us and is impossible to trust them lie about any thing but if a women is thinking same like her you meet on air plane yes Accept a holiday romance but not put Ours life in these guys becaurse really they is only make us upset and is take long time before we is understand them thinking if we will understand it . It is hard to understand that they is live on to scam women for Money and they is not alone about it !!But see clearly we learn off Ours faul and is a lesson for the life . I hope you is fine now
Very sensible post, Amira....I'm liking it a lot! Even when we understand, it's not that we understand them, we just understand what happened to us. No good, decent human could ever understand their insane mindsets! Holiday romances are fine, I agree, but I'd never risk a relationship with a Muslim man again in any way, shape or form...they are best avoided. I've got my eye on Benidorm next year :eek: We've decided we need a happy, funny holiday after what the kids have suffered....and it doesn't get much tackier than Benidorm!! Should be a riot and for sure.....there will be no men involved, bar the five I travel with. Life eh, we certainly did all get a very cruel lesson...
 

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What´s to understand :confused: A rats mindset is very simple : Fuck victims - get money :Evil:
Haha, I know that bit, that's the practical side of things, bezness I understand. It's the lack of morals and decency I was referring to, the lack of conscience and emotion.....I will never understand that!
 

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Welcome, I'm writing this to help you find your way around this site. Had I known how to use it I would have found the crucial information I was looking for much earlier.

So make a coffee, settle down and begin reading and I apologise for the long post.

Firstly become a member, you can access more information that way, don't use your own name or picture, once a member you can use the SEARCH which is three small dots on the right hand side. ...

If you are looking here then you may have met someone on holiday, on line, or through someone else or have a friend you are concerned about or just curious.

You may already have some doubts. Follow your instinct, its rarely wrong and if someone else has guided you here do please listen to them.

Search, names, nicknames, places, resort names, hotel names, ages, coffee house names, dates, months anything that may link to your rat. If you can find friends of his on Facebook check the links and likes.

I only looked for names and places and I missed a vital post, so think laterally and keep checking.

Keep checking the gallery for new pictures, or google his name/names. They all use two or three names.

Remember this is an open forum anything you post is PUBLIC so if in doubt anonymise or send a private message to another well known member by creating a conversation, but be candid and cautious. Read posts first so you know who has the most knowledge and experience.

@ Heidi and @FoolInLove are ace detectives, @Tiger has so much knowledge, and @ Magic will make you laugh. @ Laurence is wise, @crystal will keep your reality in check and so many others.

Be cautious of male profiles here as many are male Tunisians checking here or fans, people who follow rats and report back or even defend them. Used trusted members.

SO YOU HAVE A DOUBT: a gut feeling.

What I say now may seem very cynical and it may be hard to believe of the person you have met and like, maybe even feel you love. In 99.9% this is a one sided relationship. Hard facts but true. When he looks in your eyes he sees dollars, pounds and Euros.

Hold that thought in your mind. They cast their net very wide in the hope of catching a big fish, they will keep the small fish dangling in case the big catch does not pay off. It's common to have several fish at the same time. If you think it's not possible that he could say the same things to someone else, think again, they can and frequently do and he probably is right now.

LOVE BOMBING : when you first meet, in person or on line it's lovely, friendly, interested in you, paying you compliments, keeping in contact, saying how much they like you, your not like anyone else they have met, your nice, normal, they enjoy talking. Soon you are looking forward to the contact, it's reliable, always happy to hear from you, it grows in regularity and intensity, becomes more affectionate, gradually, subtly, you start to think about a possible meeting, a future, fantasies begin, a lovely romantic life, rescuing him, this man has a hard life, finds comfort in talking to you. It's a well trodden path and a well used script. The main thing we all have in common is that we all fell for it at some stage. Some got out quickly, some of us lingered, most of us got hurt, humiliated and let down.

Can it really be all LIES?

YES YES YES , if you read here and look at past posts there are NO LIMITS. They will and do lie about everything. They lie on line and to your face, they lie about circumstances, family, finances, jobs, education, nationality, health, marriage, children anything at all.

If you are already thinking, no, it's not possible, he's so genuine, please please think again.

Start from the premise that everything is a lie and work backwards.

Common lies:

I lost my phone, lost my job, my mother, father, any family member is very sick, has cancer, has even died multiple times. They may have been mugged, in a car accident or have a sad tale about a dead fiancé or wife.
They may actually be already married, or engaged and be meeting several women in the resort at the same time, they will certainly be talking to other women on line. NEVER EVER THINK that's it's not possible, it is.

THERE ARE NO LIMITS, nothing they will not say or do to meet their objective. It's not personal, it's just BEZNESS

MONEY AND GIFTS:

It may not happen straight away, it may not happen at all, although this is rare. There may be hints about how little he has, how hard it is for the family to find enough money for food or to pay household bills, hospital fees. He may not have money to go to the coffee so can't contact you, not enough money for even a few cigarettes, no money in his pucket.... needs a dentist, You may feel sorry for him, after all what's £10 or £20 to you, you can probably afford it, but from this moment on you will never ever know, once you give money all is lost, because it will become a frequent occurrence and you will want to help. A new phone because his is lost, a laptop to keep in touch, money for taxi, the bus is never good enough, especially if it's raining.

Just a few gifts my love, perfume, jeans, trainers are a must, they all need lots of trainers for all the walking they never do. Then larger amounts, money to buy themselves out of the army, to pay fathers operation, to buy a sheep for Eid, to pay for a visa permit or flight. If you don't give, why? you have plenty, I have nothing.

I will pay you back..... Don't hold your breath, I'm a good guy I only ask because it's emergency, I feel shame when I ask or take from my parents, they have nothing.

In rare cases they ask for nothing, in fact may even buy you gifts, flowers on arrival, they might even pay for meals or coffee, but be sure someone else has funded this. A rats pockets are very deep and they rarely if ever part with their own money. Someone else has sent this and it's deemed by him and his friends to be worth the investment. Whatever the reason for the request it will be tragic, sad, desperate. Your refusal or or hesitation will lead to the silent treatment. In most cases it will come, usually after a few weeks or months when you are already hooked. In the handbook of Bezness its chapter 2, a test to see if money will be forthcoming, an indicator of the future reward for the investment of time now.

The Silent Treatment, is all about raising your anxiety. Messages go unanswered or unread, suddenly loss of contact, on line but not responding. What's happened, what's wrong, is he sick, has he met someone else, eventually, No no my love I was sick, family was sick, uncle die, lose my phone, no money for Internet, but once they see it worried you it will happen frequently.

HIS FRIENDS AND FAMILY:
Never think what you say is private. Everything is shared with trusted friends, friends who do the same, sharing hints about what works, sharing messages when they don't understand the words, sharing pictures, friends will even write replies for them. You may notice sometimes their language skills are better or worse than last time. Think about who is replying. THERE ARE NO LIMITS.

I LOVE YOU:
Professing love, you are my life, you are best for me, until I met you my life was bad, my family love you, I want to be with you. I want to take care of you. I want to be married with you, I don't like kids, I don't like Tunisian women, they are hard, materialistic, I hate Tunisia, it's not a good life, I want to be free, live with you in your country, I give you a good life, together we can make a business there, or better still together we can make a business in Tunisia. A business you will pay for but never own and never see make a profit. A car my love, it's essential I have car for business. ITS ALL RUBBISH. THERE ARE NO LIMITS

WHO ARE YOU: why you?
You may be young and pretty, young and not so pretty, older and pretty or not so pretty, thin or big, look older look younger, blonde or dark haired. It does not matter, you are a means to an end. You are the way to a visa, or to pay for an expensive wedding to their Tunisian habibi, to buy or build a house, to fund an easy life, buy nice clothes, but you are NOT their future. You are a means to improving their circumstances.

The long haul: THERE ARE NO LIMITS, you may think after one, two even three years, that it's now genuine. But the rat will stick with you for a long long long time. The average age to marry in Tunisia has risen to mid to late thirties, so they will be happy to stick with you (and others alongside you) for years as a means of saving for a better life. There are three women to every man in Tunisia, they can have their pick, mothers are desperate to marry off their daughters. There is no shortage of young women and they all want to be married. Traditions run very very deep. It's exceptional to marry outside of Tunisia and to marry someone older is very unusual and generally unacceptable.

REMEMBER, his long term goals are modest, the ultimate goal is to marry a Tunisian girl, preferably a Virgin, to provide a home, a nice wedding and a car to drive his new growing family around. They need you and others like you to fund this.

What they want to know about you?

Do you have your own house, job, pension, car, family, children, how many holidays you have, what you have in your home, all these things are indicators about how big a catch you are.

Common strategies: going silent, ignoring your calls messages. It's all part of the game, making you dependant.

Or

Constant messaging, this may seem flattering but it's to ensure you are kept occupied, that you are his No 1 and no one else talks to you. You are an investment so he won't like anyone else in the picture.

Controlling you, who you see, talk too, where you go, what you wear, even what you spend. Wanting to know where you are, where you are going, who your with, it's all part of the game. Imagine you are a number in a black book, your name and details written beside it, making sure when he calls or messages you he remembers which one you are or he will never use your name, always Babi, my love, just to be sure he makes no mistakes.

THERE ARE OTHERS, you won't want to believe it but those lovely words he said to you were cut and pasted, repeated and regurgitated, borrowed from friends, copied from a Bezness site.

How many Facebook accounts does one person need?

How many Skype accounts, how many dating sites, learn how to search.

That's a whole new thread, but there are many ways to get information. Take screen shots of messages and screen shots of lists of friends from Facebook.

Above all FOLLOW YOUR INSTINCTS, if you are here you already have doubts, listen to them, read everything and don't dismiss anything and NEVER EVER THINK ITS NOT POSSIBLE .... It sadly is.

Good luck and keep reading.
Just bumping if allowed
 

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Welcome, I'm writing this to help you find your way around this site. Had I known how to use it I would have found the crucial information I was looking for much earlier.

So make a coffee, settle down and begin reading and I apologise for the long post.

Firstly become a member, you can access more information that way, don't use your own name or picture, once a member you can use the SEARCH which is three small dots on the right hand side. ...

If you are looking here then you may have met someone on holiday, on line, or through someone else or have a friend you are concerned about or just curious.

You may already have some doubts. Follow your instinct, its rarely wrong and if someone else has guided you here do please listen to them.

Search, names, nicknames, places, resort names, hotel names, ages, coffee house names, dates, months anything that may link to your rat. If you can find friends of his on Facebook check the links and likes.

I only looked for names and places and I missed a vital post, so think laterally and keep checking.

Keep checking the gallery for new pictures, or google his name/names. They all use two or three names.

Remember this is an open forum anything you post is PUBLIC so if in doubt anonymise or send a private message to another well known member by creating a conversation, but be candid and cautious. Read posts first so you know who has the most knowledge and experience.
Try a moderator or admin first.
Be cautious of male profiles here as many are male Tunisians checking here or fans, people who follow rats and report back or even defend them. Used trusted members.

SO YOU HAVE A DOUBT: a gut feeling.

What I say now may seem very cynical and it may be hard to believe of the person you have met and like, maybe even feel you love. In 99.9% this is a one sided relationship. Hard facts but true. When he looks in your eyes he sees dollars, pounds and Euros.

Hold that thought in your mind. They cast their net very wide in the hope of catching a big fish, they will keep the small fish dangling in case the big catch does not pay off. It's common to have several fish at the same time. If you think it's not possible that he could say the same things to someone else, think again, they can and frequently do and he probably is right now.

LOVE BOMBING : when you first meet, in person or on line it's lovely, friendly, interested in you, paying you compliments, keeping in contact, saying how much they like you, your not like anyone else they have met, your nice, normal, they enjoy talking. Soon you are looking forward to the contact, it's reliable, always happy to hear from you, it grows in regularity and intensity, becomes more affectionate, gradually, subtly, you start to think about a possible meeting, a future, fantasies begin, a lovely romantic life, rescuing him, this man has a hard life, finds comfort in talking to you. It's a well trodden path and a well used script. The main thing we all have in common is that we all fell for it at some stage. Some got out quickly, some of us lingered, most of us got hurt, humiliated and let down.

Can it really be all LIES?

YES YES YES , if you read here and look at past posts there are NO LIMITS. They will and do lie about everything. They lie on line and to your face, they lie about circumstances, family, finances, jobs, education, nationality, health, marriage, children anything at all.

If you are already thinking, no, it's not possible, he's so genuine, please please think again.

Start from the premise that everything is a lie and work backwards.

Common lies:

I lost my phone, lost my job, my mother, father, any family member is very sick, has cancer, has even died multiple times. They may have been mugged, in a car accident or have a sad tale about a dead fiancé or wife.
They may actually be already married, or engaged and be meeting several women in the resort at the same time, they will certainly be talking to other women on line. NEVER EVER THINK that's it's not possible, it is.

THERE ARE NO LIMITS, nothing they will not say or do to meet their objective. It's not personal, it's just BEZNESS

MONEY AND GIFTS:

It may not happen straight away, it may not happen at all, although this is rare. There may be hints about how little he has, how hard it is for the family to find enough money for food or to pay household bills, hospital fees. He may not have money to go to the coffee so can't contact you, not enough money for even a few cigarettes, no money in his pucket.... needs a dentist, You may feel sorry for him, after all what's £10 or £20 to you, you can probably afford it, but from this moment on you will never ever know, once you give money all is lost, because it will become a frequent occurrence and you will want to help. A new phone because his is lost, a laptop to keep in touch, money for taxi, the bus is never good enough, especially if it's raining.

Just a few gifts my love, perfume, jeans, trainers are a must, they all need lots of trainers for all the walking they never do. Then larger amounts, money to buy themselves out of the army, to pay fathers operation, to buy a sheep for Eid, to pay for a visa permit or flight. If you don't give, why? you have plenty, I have nothing.

I will pay you back..... Don't hold your breath, I'm a good guy I only ask because it's emergency, I feel shame when I ask or take from my parents, they have nothing.

In rare cases they ask for nothing, in fact may even buy you gifts, flowers on arrival, they might even pay for meals or coffee, but be sure someone else has funded this. A rats pockets are very deep and they rarely if ever part with their own money. Someone else has sent this and it's deemed by him and his friends to be worth the investment. Whatever the reason for the request it will be tragic, sad, desperate. Your refusal or or hesitation will lead to the silent treatment. In most cases it will come, usually after a few weeks or months when you are already hooked. In the handbook of Bezness its chapter 2, a test to see if money will be forthcoming, an indicator of the future reward for the investment of time now.

The Silent Treatment, is all about raising your anxiety. Messages go unanswered or unread, suddenly loss of contact, on line but not responding. What's happened, what's wrong, is he sick, has he met someone else, eventually, No no my love I was sick, family was sick, uncle die, lose my phone, no money for Internet, but once they see it worried you it will happen frequently.

HIS FRIENDS AND FAMILY:
Never think what you say is private. Everything is shared with trusted friends, friends who do the same, sharing hints about what works, sharing messages when they don't understand the words, sharing pictures, friends will even write replies for them. You may notice sometimes their language skills are better or worse than last time. Think about who is replying. THERE ARE NO LIMITS.

I LOVE YOU:
Professing love, you are my life, you are best for me, until I met you my life was bad, my family love you, I want to be with you. I want to take care of you. I want to be married with you, I don't like kids, I don't like Tunisian women, they are hard, materialistic, I hate Tunisia, it's not a good life, I want to be free, live with you in your country, I give you a good life, together we can make a business there, or better still together we can make a business in Tunisia. A business you will pay for but never own and never see make a profit. A car my love, it's essential I have car for business. ITS ALL RUBBISH. THERE ARE NO LIMITS

WHO ARE YOU: why you?
You may be young and pretty, young and not so pretty, older and pretty or not so pretty, thin or big, look older look younger, blonde or dark haired. It does not matter, you are a means to an end. You are the way to a visa, or to pay for an expensive wedding to their Tunisian habibi, to buy or build a house, to fund an easy life, buy nice clothes, but you are NOT their future. You are a means to improving their circumstances.

The long haul: THERE ARE NO LIMITS, you may think after one, two even three years, that it's now genuine. But the rat will stick with you for a long long long time. The average age to marry in Tunisia has risen to mid to late thirties, so they will be happy to stick with you (and others alongside you) for years as a means of saving for a better life. There are three women to every man in Tunisia, they can have their pick, mothers are desperate to marry off their daughters. There is no shortage of young women and they all want to be married. Traditions run very very deep. It's exceptional to marry outside of Tunisia and to marry someone older is very unusual and generally unacceptable.

REMEMBER, his long term goals are modest, the ultimate goal is to marry a Tunisian girl, preferably a Virgin, to provide a home, a nice wedding and a car to drive his new growing family around. They need you and others like you to fund this.

What they want to know about you?

Do you have your own house, job, pension, car, family, children, how many holidays you have, what you have in your home, all these things are indicators about how big a catch you are.

Common strategies: going silent, ignoring your calls messages. It's all part of the game, making you dependant.

Or

Constant messaging, this may seem flattering but it's to ensure you are kept occupied, that you are his No 1 and no one else talks to you. You are an investment so he won't like anyone else in the picture.

Controlling you, who you see, talk too, where you go, what you wear, even what you spend. Wanting to know where you are, where you are going, who your with, it's all part of the game. Imagine you are a number in a black book, your name and details written beside it, making sure when he calls or messages you he remembers which one you are or he will never use your name, always Babi, my love, just to be sure he makes no mistakes.

THERE ARE OTHERS, you won't want to believe it but those lovely words he said to you were cut and pasted, repeated and regurgitated, borrowed from friends, copied from a Bezness site.

How many Facebook accounts does one person need?

How many Skype accounts, how many dating sites, learn how to search.

That's a whole new thread, but there are many ways to get information. Take screen shots of messages and screen shots of lists of friends from Facebook.

Above all FOLLOW YOUR INSTINCTS, if you are here you already have doubts, listen to them, read everything and don't dismiss anything and NEVER EVER THINK ITS NOT POSSIBLE .... It sadly is.

Good luck and keep reading.
 

Laura2014

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Just bumping this as we have a few new members and not easy to find.
 

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I think that although your words are correct, people ARE now more aware. There will always be new victims, but with sites like this and the ones in other countries, the TV adverts and warnings on embassy pages and in travel agencies, people are now more aware. We are spreading the word well, I've put links to this site all over Twitter, on national newspapers online, I speak out to everyone, those are just my efforts, so with all our efforts combined, we are making progress. Wait til me and Laura get to the airport with our leaflets and tee shirts, haha, bezness will be destroyed :D Tunisia does need to make bezness a crime punishable by law, but for that to work, evidence is crucial. Bezness is having more of a damaging effect on Tunisia than terrorism, people just refuse to go there now, so Tunisia needs to deal with this problem fast. The countries economy is collapsing, they are living on foreign handouts that are putting them massively in debt. The fact is, they need to bring in every dinar they can to fix this mess, tourism is crucial....they need to stop burying their heads in the sand and fix this shit!!
Yes this is so true the more you read the more you realise you are a victim of Bezness and there is nothing you can do about it . I loved my holidays in Tunisia but now I have big doubts about returning.
 

Laura2014

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Welcome Babe, I'm pleased you are posting here and hope this post has been helpfuI. I don't think many Bezness victims will want to return any time soon, if ever, with or without the security problems. It can't help but to change the way you think about the 'friendly people'. Impossible to know who or what was genuine. Share your experience when ready it can help others visiting this site who have doubts.
 
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