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Discussion in 'Rat Behavior' started by Laura2014, Sep 15, 2016.

  1. Liona

    Liona Well-Known Member

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    They just don't think of the children who are born with european women. May be later of course they will come to see them with their false crocodile tears and will ask to help. But now they just don't think of them. They think about their arabic children a little bit more.
    They make the children without any concious like animals, and it is called "we love children".
     
  2. see clearly

    see clearly Well-Known Member

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    i think there is something inside us that makes us put up with this crap sometimes and they are slick fuckers these guys good at it persistant they will get in touch years later still be prepared!!!! Personally i was sick of the tour of cash ATMs in tunisia it was a joke! I am broke just hanging on - your not alone can you still pay back things ?? etc keep going. My mum helped me but i just did it over and over again so im still pretty very much in debt and stuggling.
     
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  3. Laura2014

    Laura2014 Moderator

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    Noticed a lot of new members so just bumping this.
     
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  4. Laura2014

    Laura2014 Moderator

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    We have a lot of new members. I'm just bumping this.
     
  5. see clearly

    see clearly Well-Known Member

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    yey i cant like this twice so you get a yey!! from me :thumbsup::thumbsup::thumbsup::thumbsup::thumbsup::thumbsup:
     
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    So on point thank you. bc i have never have the the need to meet him now that I read this.
     
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  7. Heidi

    Heidi The Sleuth - Staff Member

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    That's really great news!! It's just not worth the hurt and devastation. Were you speaking with him for long?
     
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  9. juicyfruit

    juicyfruit Well-Known Member

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    for 2 whole years to this day
     
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  10. juicyfruit

    juicyfruit Well-Known Member

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    but he still have his brother contact me
     
  11. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Moderator

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    Well let today be your first day of freedom!! :) Why today? Did he slip up on something?
    My rodents brother still contacts me....but I can tell that it's not always his brother talking to me, at those moments, I just ignore and go offline.
     
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  12. juicyfruit

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    his brother is on my fb
     
  13. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Moderator

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    Yeah, mine is too...we were really close, so I've never been able to bring myself to delete him. Contact is sparse though and it doesn't bother me, we have an agreement to never discuss rat. Raghed has a different writing technique to Houssem, plus there are things written that Raghed wouldn't say, wouldn't know and couldn't spell, so it's easy to know when I need to just ignore and go offline. I still find it hard to get my head around Raghed being in on the scam because we were so close, but he 100% knew and it hurt bad at the beginning, now I just feel disappointed. Be careful his brother doesn't rope you back in! In times of desperation, these rats will resort to using anyone, including family.
     
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  14. juicyfruit

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    his brother i am like family
     
  15. Mango Chutney

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    I thought I was too. Just be careful, because if his brother has contact with you, he is definitely in on the scam. Raghed always called me his sister, I lived with the family....with the exception of the little sister (she was too young), they were all in on the scam, each and every one of them....I was absolutely gutted.
     
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  16. see clearly

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    Good good good you just saved yourself alot and i mean alot of hassle and possible financial loss , not to mention possible pregnancy and then poor child / baby being ignored by its father or worse abducted. You are sooo well out of it dont let them waste your life and time because they are a waste of life and time and will eat up your life and your resources and leave you in the end burnt out with nothing . Good girl well done. I wish i had left well alone i really do. Hugs xxx
     
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    Thank you!!! I so do not want to admit it, but sadly I'm starting to....
     
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    You are welcome.... sorry @Firegirl903 have you found yourself a rat?
     
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    I am thinking I did.... ugh!!!
     
  20. Laura2014

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    Well done for finding TLR. If you have been reading here for a while sadly the reality starts to dawn.
     
  21. Firegirl903

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    Yes it does!!!
     
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  22. Laura2014

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    We have a lot of new members so I'm just bumping this again.
     
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    This and Wallah's Coping Strategy are my favourites!! I recommend this one for every confused newbie with a possible rat and Wallah's for every new survivor. Cracking threads :thumbsup:
     
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  25. see clearly

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    Is this the newbbie crop from this years tourist visits etc . I wonder how bezness id doing these days be interesting to know .
     

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