Okay so I went on holiday in March to a hotel and met a guy there. First few days he wasn’t bothered with the girls there then I started giving him attention more than the rest and he started to give me more attention. We kissed and had sex on my last night there. We kept in contact and he said he really liked me. Then he asked for money for clothes and I told him I didn’t have it. He never asked for another penny again for a while. Another girl there told me that he liked a Thomas cook girl there and told her that me and him didn’t have sex or anything. I confronted him about it and he denied it and his mate also messaged me telling me it was lies. So I looked past it and kept in contact. We got more serious and I was coming back in May. He asked for clothes for his little brother so I bought some hulk stuff just because it’s his little brother who had been through a lot with operations and stuff. His friend asked me for a phone for my fella and I said I had no money so I didn’t but after a while I paid £50 for a second hand phone for him. I paid for the taxis and coffee out there for him as it was cheap for me. He said he loved me and I met his family in May. I was so happy with him. I left after a week and he was upset as was I. He’s still kept in touch but I heard he told a new girl working there he was single which clearly he isn’t but I also confronted him about that and he went crazy saying it’s lies. More crazy than the last girl I confronted him about it. it’s got to the stage now where he’s online and ignoring me because he’s working. But it’s getting annoying and he’s complaining about money to me but never directly asks as he knows I wouldn’t give him any. Anyway I’m going back on Saturday and I’m confused to know if he is legit or not as to everything that’s happened. I feel I can’t trust him to even get serious but I also love him and can’t let him go. He tells me he misses me and loves me all the time and hasn’t spoke about marriage kids or moving away which makes me think he’s serious but his actions are proving otherwise with these girls and online ignoring me for hours and even at night. He finishes work at 11 and doesn’t message me till nearly 1 maybe 2 in the morning. Any advice?