In a sticky situation.

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  1. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    I am soooo happy and relieved!! Stay calm until you are in European waters, if babies decide to say hello then, it's not ideal....but it's better! Omg, I'm so super pleased for you! Is your brother sailing with you?
     
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  2. Ineedadvice

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    Yes he is with me all the way.
     
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  3. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Fantastic. Keep a decent amount of English paper (coins are no good, as they cannot convert them) money on you too....just in case you encounter any problems at the port ;) Remember.....money talks in Tunisia!!
     
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  4. Laura2014

    Laura2014 Well-Known Member

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    We are with you all the way. Stay safe.
     
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  5. Gigi_76

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    Thats fantastic I'm so so happy for you all the very best and safe travel for you and your little family xxx
     
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  6. Myriam

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    So happy for you Ineedadvice, for your babies, for your family!!! This is an ideal solution! Just keep calm and know that once you've left the Tunisian waters you'll all be safe. Hope the little ones keep on cooking till you get home in the UK, if not, no big problem, you can have them in any other European country!
    Safe travelling and good arrival home!!!! Keep us posted dear.
     
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  7. Myriam

    Myriam Well-Known Member

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    And YES, NEVER LOOK BACK!!!! He'll promiss you the moon and the stars, but you have to know that he is only doing that to SAVE HIS OWN ASS!!! Never ever trust him again and never ever take your babies to Tunisia!
     
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  8. Amira

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    Agree . They do not take responsibility and are no family men. Have or no understanding of finances or shared responsibility for children. You are doing alone, of course there will be times where you feel missed and things seem hopeless but not the temptation to contact him because they do not change. Is also the champion in lying about everything and is best for you to raise Your children up in Europe without all this sharia laws :mad:
     
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    Get back to England as fast as you can! I'm so worried for you after reading this. Please for the sake of you and your babies contact embassy and get back to England xx
     
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    I wish you and your babies a safe journey home. Stay strong and keep positive. All the best.
     
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  11. gem15

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    Im so pleased you got the note and can travel. I would love to see his face when he finds out you are no longer in tunisia. Keep in touch and let us know you arrived same and sound.
     
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  12. Myriam

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    Keeping fingers crossed for mom and babies on their way to freedom!
     
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    Well it’s nearing 24 hours now. Not sure what time your ferry left, I hope Europe is in sight now. Homeward bound.
     
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    I trust she make out okay and her and babies are safe.
     
  15. Mango Chutney

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    Haven't heard a thing yet :Cry::Cry:
     
  16. Heidi

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    Ineedadvice was here yesterday, but did not write anything
     
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    [​IMG] hope she is home and safe but a Ferry it is make me afraid really from Tunisia to Europe it is long way . It is up to god now .
     
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    thankfully 23 hours on a ferry is less dangerous than 3 hours on a plane. Fingers crossed shes ok
     
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    True so fingers crossed But she's in a nasty situation especially when listening to the news about these boats. But that's her only chance. Believe that Tunisia is like other Muslim countries they control her if going out of the country
     
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  20. Ineedadvice

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    :sneaky::sneaky::mad:
    I'm safe everyone. We are still in France as wasn't feeling well on the boat.
    I did sign in yesterday but my phone kept switching off.:mad:
    Left Tunis with no problems and no questions asked! That would make a first. Soon as we got to France I went straight to a hospital and got checked over. I am OK to travel to the uk but I need to take it easy.
    Tomorrow we are going home :D:D and I'll be going straight to the hospital lay it on thick. How can I explain I have had no anti natal classes or scans or even notes in the uk I don't know. But best thing is I get there first.

    Guess what happened, j put my Tunisian sim into my phone this morning had thousands of missed calls. With in a minute of me turning the phone on he called me.:confused:
    Where are you what's wrong why did you leave me I want to see my kids grow up. Why did you do this to me. But last thing he says before I put the phone down was i know your in France and I will hunt you down to get my kids. I turned the phone off took the sim out and put it in the bin.
    Suck on that!:p

    Soon as I reach the uk my brother will run to get me a new phone this one can go in the bin for all I care. I want nothing to do with him.
     
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    Great news :D Thank you for telling us what happened. I wish you lots of luck :)
     
  22. Laura2014

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    Glad you reached there safely. Last leg ahead. Good luck. How did he know you were in France?
     
  23. Myriam

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    Good of you Ineedadvice, am so happy that you reached Europe in good shape!
    Just don't get into contact with this man again, never!
    Wish that you reach home soon and in good health, together with the 3 treasures!
     
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    So happy you made it. Stay safe and keep us posted. All the best!
     
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  25. FoolInLove

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    Wonderful news :love:
     
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