In a sticky situation.

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I'm safe everyone. We are still in France as wasn't feeling well on the boat.
I did sign in yesterday but my phone kept switching off.:mad:
Left Tunis with no problems and no questions asked! That would make a first. Soon as we got to France I went straight to a hospital and got checked over. I am OK to travel to the uk but I need to take it easy.
Tomorrow we are going home :D:D and I'll be going straight to the hospital lay it on thick. How can I explain I have had no anti natal classes or scans or even notes in the uk I don't know. But best thing is I get there first.

Guess what happened, j put my Tunisian sim into my phone this morning had thousands of missed calls. With in a minute of me turning the phone on he called me.:confused:
Where are you what's wrong why did you leave me I want to see my kids grow up. Why did you do this to me. But last thing he says before I put the phone down was i know your in France and I will hunt you down to get my kids. I turned the phone off took the sim out and put it in the bin.
Suck on that!:p

Soon as I reach the uk my brother will run to get me a new phone this one can go in the bin for all I care. I want nothing to do with him.
So happy you made it to France, hope the journey to the UK and the birth goes well. xx
 

sheebee

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That is the first time in five years he shouted at & slapped you? Don't go back. It will only get worse- that i promise.

Hello everyone,
Hello everyone, thanks for approving me.

I have been married to a Tunisian for 5 years. I have lived in Tunisia for 4 of these years married. We live with his family and he supports me. For 5 years we had tried for a baby with no luck until 7 months ago. As luck happens I am having triplets.

He was over the moon when we first found out. Now his attitude has completely changed.
My priority are my babies, but his priorities lie else where. He doesn't come home till 12am every night when he finishes work at 6pm.
He stays in the cafe or with his friends. So I don't see him.
Last month I had a scare and had to go to hospital andrheybsent me to a specialist in Tunis. I am in bed rest as there's a risk I may loose one or all of the babies if I do anything.
My husbands father paid for all of the treatment. When I told my husband to cough up not his dad he shouted at me and smacked me across the face.
I haven't seen him for 5 days now as I left the house and I'm staying with a fellow Brit.

I'm too far gone to travel to the uk and my passport has expired. I'm not in a very good place right now. Stressed is not the word. For my sake and my babies sakes I don't want to leave him but I had to get away from him. He does not know where I am and I haven't been online in Facebook since I left. My number is turned off so no one can contact me. I'm using my friends phone to contact home. I have had money sent to my friends husband from my family which he has given too me. I feel safe here but if I go out I don't know what will happen.

Please help! What can I do???
thanks for approving me.

I have been married to a Tunisian for 5 years. I have lived in Tunisia for 4 of these years married. We live with his family and he supports me. For 5 years we had tried for a baby with no luck until 7 months ago. As luck happens I am having triplets.

He was over the moon when we first found out. Now his attitude has completely changed.
My priority are my babies, but his priorities lie else where. He doesn't come home till 12am every night when he finishes work at 6pm.
He stays in the cafe or with his friends. So I don't see him.
Last month I had a scare and had to go to hospital andrheybsent me to a specialist in Tunis. I am in bed rest as there's a risk I may loose one or all of the babies if I do anything.
My husbands father paid for all of the treatment. When I told my husband to cough up not his dad he shouted at me and smacked me across the face.
I haven't seen him for 5 days now as I left the house and I'm staying with a fellow Brit.

I'm too far gone to travel to the uk and my passport has expired. I'm not in a very good place right now. Stressed is not the word. For my sake and my babies sakes I don't want to leave him but I had to get away from him. He does not know where I am and I haven't been online in Facebook since I left. My number is turned off so no one can contact me. I'm using my friends phone to contact home. I have had money sent to my friends husband from my family which he has given too me. I feel safe here but if I go out I don't know what will happen.

Please help! What can I do???
 

Judithlyn

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That is the first time in five years he shouted at & slapped you? Don't go back. It will only get worse- that i promise.
How is this lady doing? My heart really aches for her! I hope that she is safe, Happy, focusing on her babies, and not that jerk husband, and moves forward with her life! Best wishes to you! I’m sorry that you are having to go through what should have been a magical time but has turned out to be full of fear and having to hide for your safety! I’m glad you are out of Tunisia. At least, he can’t keep your babies from you! He doesn’t sound like the type of man who would properly take care of you or them anyways! Good luck to you! Take care of yourself too!
 

Laura2014

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So the ‘triplets’ would be almost toddlers by now. This was a very strange, somewhat fantastical story which abruptly ended with no follow up or conclusion as far as I know!
 

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I've often wondered about her... if she made it safe to Italy and then home. I remember feeling very anxious and worried for her.
I'd love to hear how she is doing and if she is well.
 
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