I do appreciate it, I just feel like all I can say is I won't give money, stay with him, etc. I don't have parents so I appreciate the 'mama mode' even if it's hard to hear, I think it just is making me very emotional and has woken me up from the fantasy. TBH yes I am young and I should be focusing on myself and figuring out my own life. Even if he were the perfect guy and not a rat I think I should just focus on myself anyway. Thank you for all your helpYou are right, we are concerned for you and we can be a little aggressive. 23 years old is young and there is still so much that you just don’t know, but think you have all the answers( yes we are in mama mode). We see things you don’t see and really don’t want to see because you are hooked by his companionship. We don’t want to see you get taken for a ride. I’m Arab, so I’ll tell you straight forward what I know to be true and most other me speaking to you have lived your exact story.